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    #26 Guest 2684, Jun 13, 2020
    The other thing i have noticed with change of my love doesn't complain now when I touch her. I think she likes it due to i can't do any more than that without her approval. I have not seen the keys since handing them over i hope she did not lose them.
     
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    #27 subrick, Jun 13, 2020
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    Yes, in the book I mentioned, this is what the author refers to as "the barter system". That is, when men DO try to do something nice for their woman, in their minds, it is often because the man is doing this in order to receive some sexual activity. Even when that ISN'T the case, that perception can be there among some women. My wife admitted that is how she often felt.

    The cage STOPS the barter system cold. What I do for her now, she KNOWS it's because I love her and that I have no expectation of anything sexual in return. If SHE wants to thank me by letting me please her however she desires, then that is OK, but it is now completely up to HER and she feels no pressure that she has to satisfy MY sexual needs. And if I don't do something how she wants, then she knows I am willing to be teased/denied/punished for not obeying her wishes.

    As for "I have not seen the keys since handing them over i hope she did not lose them." LOL YES, that is one of the ultimate teasing strategies. Seeing as I have had my devices for quite some time and at one time or another, I gave her one of the two keys that came with each device, all we now have is the second (spare) key for each lock, which I have obviously given to her when she locked me this time. I have three different locks & keys for my three different HTv3s. No spares. Well...she says she probably has the spares somewhere hidden in her dresser or jewelry box, or so she says, but as far as I know, she has not made any effort to find them. So, SHE now possesses the single key to my device, whichever one she puts me in. And yes, she has already thought out loud "Now, where did I put that key?"

    One evening we were having a session where I was worshiping her and we were both drinking. It was getting late and she felt like she might just "give in" and let me out of the cage, which she DID NOT want to happen yet. So she went to the window and dropped the key outside. And YES, retrieving it was HIGH on my priority list the next morning! LOL

    We also have a "Kitchen Safe" lock device which, on occasion, she will put the key in that just to show me and tease me. But she feels that doing so removes some of her power over me because now the key is in the box and not directly under her control. Seeing as both the "Kitchen Safe" and my HTv3 are plastic devices, in case of an emergency, either could be broken, so we feel we're still being safe.

    Truth is, though, I WOULD feel a bit better IF we found at least ONE of the other keys so I could have a spare! LOL But, it is definitely a thrill knowing that My Love has that complete control over me.

    It sounds like you are making some good progress with Your Lovely Goddess. Open communication is the key (no pun intended!) LOL. Women view male chastity entirely differently than we do and even after us doing this for years, our open discussions during the reading of that book I mentioned in a previous post in this thread really opened up her eyes to things neither of us had previously thought about or discussed.

    Good Luck, I'm enjoying reading your updates!

    ~subrick
     
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    #28 Guest 2684, Jun 13, 2020
    I got 3 keys with my current device I gave her all three
     
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    #29 Guest 2684, Jun 14, 2020
    I have learned something today as the day has progressed I am having more thoughts of my KH. Whit the earlier post about the keys and me giving her all three. I am nervously excited about the future. Sorry back to KH my love for her is so great I would do anything for her. Which is why I am wearing this device. Because of my problem I know what was doing was wrong and I tried stopping for years with intoning I would try would work. But this cage there is not hope for that. I know people on other threads say they could pull unit out but I don't think that could happen. This is the longest dry spell ever mostly by my hand ( 1 to 3 times a day). I never gave it a thought what it did to me and my love. But after 24/7 since Tuesday it is getting easier to not think about porn and sex and I contribute that to the device and this site thanks
     
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    #30 Guest 2684, Jun 14, 2020
    I just ordered the book i
     
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    #31 Guest 2684, Jun 14, 2020
    Nothing new to enter still in the device. After reading alot of posts on the treads it is a lifestyle. I am not sure about becoming a sissy but I can see it now. Even if the idea of the device had nothing to do with that idea. Naturally it seems to take you manhood out of the equation. I never realized how much of being a man I put in to what was between my legs. Only after it is locked into a 1.5 inch long chamber do you realize how much more there is in life.
     
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    #32 Guest 2684, Jun 14, 2020
    I have to add to today my KH I allowing something that she has complained about for years me cuddling up to her and me randomly touching/caressing her. Before device I would get a ugh and a pull away now she slides closer or you can feel her relax. I don't know if it is she knows she controls my sex drive and this is just an allow or she is truly into this new life. With the talk we have had it sounds like the later. Also with the talks it sounds like it will be a very long time before my penis enters her glorious live canal. But I don't care my life is for her. Onward and upward

    But good note nite time erections have subsided. Now the only one that wakes me is the 5am one I can live with that multiple a nite causing no sleep could not do that for long.
     
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    #33 madams-sissysub, Jun 14, 2020
    Congratulations on your on going journey!
     
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    #34 Guest 2684, Jun 14, 2020
    Thank-you
     
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    #35 Guest 2684, Jun 14, 2020
    You know what sucks is when your balls decide it is cold and they want to go in for warmth. So not only do you not have control over her penis but the balls are hers too
     
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    #36 Kat9s toy, Jun 14, 2020
    Great point!
     
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    #37 CagedAnimal2, Jun 14, 2020
    Interesting start, good luck!
     
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    #38 Guest 2684, Jun 15, 2020
    My wife and I just had our first serious conversation about the FLR it started out she was not sure. She said she new I did it she also new I had a higher sex drive than her. First she talked about seeing a doctor to find out why she had a low sex drive. I told her that was up to her but that I did not care I would be waiting for her as,often as she was ready. She said that did not sound fair. I said it was not fair for what I did for 23 years either. She said we need a good open communication between us. I agreed but I asked her above the last few days. I told her it has been on it focuses all the sexual energy. She said is that why you have been cleaning dishes laundry all kinds of stuff around the house and I said yes. She said if it makes that much difference we could try it. I also said I ordered the book. She also said the last week was great for conversation to she said you have been hearing me. I am so happy I could scream.
     
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    #39 MistressAMA, Jun 15, 2020
    She will love a service sub. List out all of the great things you will do to service your queen.
     
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    #40 Guest 2684, Jun 15, 2020
    I know she likes it and I love doing anything she wants and more
     
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    #41 Slave to Wife, Jun 15, 2020
    I hope she decides to lock you for at least three months to start out with. That way, you learn your place. Then maybe allow an orgasm per month if you are good.
     
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    #42 Guest 2684, Jun 15, 2020
    The only number I have heard since the beginning is a year LOL we will see. Ever since this has started she has let me caress her more than in forever I truly don't care about the O that I just want her happy and a better relationship between us.
     
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    #43 Guest 2684, Jun 15, 2020
    In 48 years of life I don't think my balls have been this swollen
     

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    #44 Peaches, Jun 15, 2020
    My wife told me that she had had this archaic notion stuck in her head that it's not proper to turn a guy on if you don't plan on following through. She blames this for her lack of intimacy with me. She admits some times she just wanted to cuddle or make out and not go "all the way". But never felt like she could do instead just stayed away.

    We have cracked open this chastity but and this time around I really think it's clicking for her. It's sorta become good therapy as well to break down those notions she has been ingrained with.

    We seem to be having more sex now, well not traditional sex, let's say she is getting more sexual gratification now than before chastity, she's more interested in receiving sexual pleasure now.

    She told me the other night that she is having fun denying me....
     
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    #45 Guest 2684, Jun 15, 2020
    This is me just asking a question.

    I have tow devices the one I am wearing which has a 1.25 cage length.

    The other is 1.75 both are metal.

    The short one my flaccid penis is always at the head of the cage I get no real penis growth outward mainly bent up internal. But they now go down fast.
    The longer one allowed for some penis growth. The unit stayed harder longer with the internal growth as well. This one was a little more painful when hard.
    I am 6+ when fully erect

    I know long winded to get to question but here it is.
    Which one would be more healthy to use? This is a worry from my keyholes as well. Thanks in advance
     
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    #46 elias, Jun 15, 2020
    @Darlydixon , most safe to wear is to ensure a ‘snug’ fit. This means the following:
    1) size of base ring properly measured
    2) diameter of cage properly measured
    3) length measured minus 1/2 inch

    Furthermore, if you have foreskin, take care of poking out at the front and chose a comfortable design of the cage. And also, get used to wear the cage fore extended periods of time, build up slowely, get used to 24/7. In between your KH should inspect her property as the sensitive skin might sore without any notice to yourself.

    All dimensions should be measured whilst flacid and it is good to take e.g. for a week several measurements during each day. I do recall the fear of our better halves about ‘damaging’ and ‘healthy’. Please note that as a key holder they do have this responsibility as you will have no access to key (except the emergency key). I think this is also about giving our KH’s room to get used to this and convince themselves that it does not hurt or damage their property.
     
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    #47 Guest 2684, Jun 15, 2020
    Thank you for the info every thing feel good just curious. My flaccid size was 2inch like I said the current cage is 1.5 so should be right thanks again how long is to long between removal it is easy to keep clean my KEYHOLDER just say 1 year and smiles
     
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    #48 Guest 2684, Jun 16, 2020
    It has been 7 days now of 24/7 there has been no sexual play of any kind. My KEYHOLDER does not have the highest sex drive. I did not expect much anyway. But what is nice is the conversion that we are haveing we are actually talking it is great the hell and pressures between my thights is worth it all to se my KH smile
     
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    #49 Guest 2684, Jun 16, 2020
    the rest will come in time. There is no hurry.
     
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    #50 elias, Jun 16, 2020
    No hurry yet….wait till a few months later, you might think different...(LoL). Enjoy your time!
     
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