Hello to All! I am new here and need a little feedback. I have been with my wife for 15 years and the past several years have almost been devoid of sex. I have always dreamed of being a submissive, but our sexual relationship has been what many would characterize as very vanilla. Anyway, I have found myself really getting into strapon sex, chastity and cuckolding fantasies, with interest in starting chastity and strapon but keeping cuckolding just a fantasy. My question is the following: do we start with strapon sex or chastity. My wife doesn't know any of this, and quite frankly I am scared to death to bring it up. I know, you should have open communication with your partner, but I am terrified! One more thing: I bought my wife her first vibrators a couple of years ago which I have used on her probably 5 times. The first one we used was actually a prostate massager, just to start off small. She said it was too small so I bought a larger one. I actually had her use the prostate massager on me a couple months ago. It was incredible! Any suggestions?