I really thought I was done with chastity. I lost interest in it after almost 5 years and my wife was not enjoying denying me all the time. What happened was that when I was horny, my wife was not and vice versa. We were going weeks without sex because we could never seem to sync. Then I found out that I have retrograde ejaculation. The little valve that prevents semen from entering the bladder is not closing anymore so most of my semen is going into my bladder and then comes out when I urinate. It is not harmful and since we are senior citizens, no babies are planned so not much of a big deal. In fact my wife likes it since it is neater. My orgasms are not as great though. I feel it initially but miss the pulses afterwards. It does not last as long as before. Do not know if prolonged Chastity denial caused it or perhaps my Diabetes but that has been tested well below the Diabetic level the last two times. I do know that I was straining hard to stop myself from ejaculating when it started to occur. Funny that a few hours after being locked up, I feel horny again and interested in sex once more. Plus after so many years I felt funny being lock free. We are making a big change this time. No more going a few months at a time between orgasms. This time it is basically to keep me horny until my wife wants sex and I will not be denied during sex, just in-between. There is no feeling of D/s since this is voluntary and not done to dominate me. The site looks good. I wonder how its members will change. Last time the women ran the site, a lot of guys left. Me included. It felt like going to a Domme's house as a submissive when all I wanted to do was have a beer with other guys who are locked up. However, with a lot of guys looking for online keyholders/dommes, it should attract a lot of guys without keyholders as it is in Fetlife. Seems that the sex forums are all being populated by guys who cannot seem to find a girl to dominate them. Many come to realize that dommes are not born, they are made. It is not like in porn where women are jumping at the chance to dominate a male. In real life most do not want that, so men turn to the internet and live their sex lives online. Perhaps if there was the internet when I was a young man, I might have done the same. Instead I had to go out three nights a week to meet girls and find the few who are sexually adventurous that were willing to play BDSM games with me. I did find a few and married one who shared me with her girlfriend who is naturally dominant. She is not with us after our last relocation but we keep in touch and still consider her a part of the family. If her husband dies she will come to live with us. We are a poly triad and were so for much of our marriage and adult life and that is the type of life we know best. So I will see how it goes and help those who need it. This change can be a good thing.