Never getting a bj again

My wife quit giving me BJs about 15-30 years ago. My ejaculate was a big turnoff for her. I've realized that even more so now because she really enjoys tease, denial and her orgasms more frequently now since I've been in chastity than at any time previously in our marriage. There seems to be a direct correlatiion to the lack of a mess afterwards and her pleasure and enjoyment of physical intimacy. But OH how I would enjoy something like that right about now... unfortunately, I wouldn't last more than about 5 seconds!

 

My wife has done bj a few times since we know each other (below 10 for sure), none with swallowing, a few ruined .. she claimed that I came too long and it tires her. And then when we started a femdom relationship, she said that she wouldn't do them anymore because she didn't need them for anything to give her pleasure.. I accepted it.. then when the cuckold appeared She started doing bj lovers and suddenly it turned out that she had no problems with it and even strives for it herself, she also allows them to cum in her mouth without any problems.. and it was very painful/humiliating for me but equally exciting.

 

My wife has always enjoyed giving me BJ’s and I still get them regularly, probably still more than most men that aren’t locked up. There just isn’t an orgasm at the end now. If they were off the table we’d both be equally disappointed and not at all excited. I may not get it but there are plenty of people who wouldn’t get why I enjoy having a cage on my penis. To each their own.

 

well it dose take some men longer than a lot and after a bit it dose make your mouth a bit tired and then you has to do it faster and it better really if it over in oooh 10 mins i think.

 

It is simple. We are denied.

 

10 minutes, haha. I'd cum in less than a minute if I were allowed to.

 

Frustration and obviously not getting enough BJs ;-)

A

 

Yep

 

We don’t have a specific rule on the subject, I do have experience of what was, what is, and what is probable in the future.

When we first started dating she gave head often, every day. We had sex every day, I came at least once a day.

A few months later after I had told her about chastity device, my submissive nature, feminine traits…she would do it if she was going to tease me in a long session. Casual ones disappeared immediately. These session teases only included oral for a few months.

Now they never happen. It’s been years.

I can make a guess as to her reasons.
1. Symbolism. She is big on what things mean or stand for, roles, and applying those roles. She did something similar the first time we had sex after telling her about me being submissive. She crawled above me and said “I guess I’m on top from now on”. And she has been ever since.

I don’t think she sees the act as dominant, or more to the point, not something her submissive should receive. She said as much when it came to pubic hair, she said “it wouldn’t feel right if I allowed it”. She associated pubic hair with manly and dominant.

2. I told her I wanted sex to be all about what she wanted and her pleasure. She obviously took that to heart, and giving me head is apparently not what she wants or gives her pleasure. She more than likely did that before because it gave me pleasure, wanted to make me happy, or thought she felt obligated to do so. I also know she was very submissive sexually in all her previous relationships.

I believe actual piv still happens because she still enjoys the ability to give me pleasure. She thinks of it as a reward or treat for me, as well as a nice act of intimacy. If she is going to allow me to cum, that is how it will happen. She doesn’t allow it to happen that often probably because she doesn’t want me to lose attentiveness.

She has openly told me “I could seriously not have sex with you again and be fine. I can’t feel you anyway, and we could just snuggle to be close. I still do it cause I like making you cum sometimes”

So has she said “you are never getting head again”? No. But it’s been years and I don’t think it’s in the cards. She just doesn’t see me as someone that she should let in her mouth. I’m very certain if she ever got a lover, he would be a manly, hairy, dominant man, that she wouldn’t hesitate to go down on.

 

I haven't had one in years and I never will.

 

21 years of marriage and I can count the times my wife has had me in her mouth one one hand. Oral on me has never been her thing. Even super clean in the shower. I gave that up many moons ago. Is what it is... It has been a while since I've had a completed hand job as well. Maybe as we get deeper into chastity she will work to play with me more.

 

My wife still sucks my cock fairly often. She probably gives me a blowjob a couple times a week these days, but they are almost all for T&D. Lately she has been cuffing my hands behind my back before she takes me out of the cage for any fun, but she is not letting me cum. She will suck my cock and get me close, stop and let me go limp, then back in the cage. She seems to love this!

A while back she would give me BJs often and let me cum, even after we started chastity. Before that, she gave me at least 2 BJs to completion a week, Thursday night and Sunday morning before she went to church. I always loved the thought of her sucking me off just before she walked out the door to go to church. She is a beautiful, petite school teacher. No one would suspect that she would be sucking my cock before going to church, let alone be keeping her husband's cock locked in a cage 24\7.

She knows I love BJs more than any other form of stimulation so I doubt they will ever be off the table. I just very rarely am allowed to cum from one. That kind of sucks, but at least I get to enjoy her wonderful mouth pleasuring my cock often!

 

So I hear.

 

Its been at least 12 years since my last bj. I know i will never have another one performed on me. The only bj in the marriage now is me deep throating her strapon

 

I hope you appreciate how lucky you are.

 

i wonder why it call blow job cos when it in mouth its sucked innit. i never have blowed. well i migt before it put in cos some men like that. like a little blow in the hole at the top.

 

My wife has never given me a BJ. She says she never will. I am not allowed sex with others

 

My Wife's latest explanation is that she only puts her mouth around Alpha cock, and since I have a beta cock *shrug* it's just not gonna happen for me

 

TLDR: I think that no more BJs for me is something I could accept at this point in our relationship, but I would definitely miss it.

Back in the early days of our relationship (dating, marriage (pre-kids)), my Lovely Wife and I would have A LOT of oral sex. Her on me, me on Her. Plus PIV and anal too. And LOTS of experimentation, including swinging. While She was never crazy about the taste of my cum, She would always swallow and take it to completion, if that's what I wanted. And She is GOOD at it, too. She knows how to play with my nipples just right while She does Her magic on my cock with Her mouth. Just pure heaven!!! And She enjoyed it when I'd force it in deep, holding Her head, and make Her gag on it, too. Damn, She was good with Her BJs!!!! In later years, as ED began to become an issue, Her BJs were about the only way I COULD come, and that made them even more special.

But....once this lock-up began, She informed me that it will be A LONG time before I'm released and that I should not expect ANY type of ejaculation or penetrative sex from Her.

And so it was, for probably about a year or so. Then one night we got to talking and She mentioned how She missed taking my cock deep in Her throat, and asked if I'd mind if She released me so She could give me a BJ, but told me I COULD NOT COME! Who was I to say no? So She did, and it felt wonderful. However, my cock had been in the chastity cage for so long, and along with the ED, it was just a shadow of its former self. Where I used to be able to force it down Her throat to make Her gag, now I could barely get it much past the middle of Her mouth. In fact, She chuckled as She realized and said "I guess I don't have to worry about gagging on it any more?" She teased me quite a bit with her mouth, tongue and hands, then locked me back up. I think we've repeated that scene twice since then.

Knowing that I most likely WILL get another BJ sometime in the future certainly gives me something to look forward to. While I'm saddened it probably won't be to completion, and that I won't be able to make Her gag on it like in days of old, She can still make it feel soooooooo good.

At this point, being locked in chastity along with continued development of our FLR, has really changed the focus of our love making. It's all about Her orgasms and pleasure now. Don't get me wrong, I receive great pleasure from Her teasing and denial of my orgasms, but all of the actual play is orchestrated by Her. It is our NEW way of "making love", and both of us enjoy it.

So, IF She told me today that She would never give me another BJ, I would accept that. Right now, though, I doubt She would make that statement because I expect (HOPE!!!) there will be many more times in our future when She'll want to experience and share the talents of Her mouth on me.

~subrick

 

Oh Jemima, you are so precious !!!

 

Since I am nit really allowed to cum not getting PIV, Handjobs or blowjobs ranges on the same importance.
Mostly my lady lets me cum by her hand an yes she takes the clitty in her mouth sometimes. But. Blowjob is so rare I could count it on one hand.
I never came into a womans mouth.
I asked my lady if she could do this to me once. Bt she only answered:" You dont cum and if I allow it you are fhe one who swallows the jerk."

 

LOL the only time my partner sucked my dick was the first time we met. But then I already knew she was dominate and I met her in chastity. I was actually really surprised she did did it, even if not to completion. That was a long time ago from memory she was pretty good at it, generally I dont like them

My wife maybe did it a few times when we first dated but that is a distant memory, and she wasnt much chop at it, one lady friends teeth hurt she just could not get her mouth wide enough, the only time I liked it was one woman who sucked it down like a vacuum cleaner, sadly she has passed away.

Nar cant see me ever getting one again, Id rather give a woman a blow job than receive one anyway. I cant see why a woman would actually enjoy it, and having my partner do something like that just for me would go against everything I feel for her. I highly doubt she will ever insist lol

 

i often get sucked but never had one to completion

 

oooh . why not please.

 

Put it on your Christmas list maybe