Never getting a bj again

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    #26 JuniorLeon, Dec 10, 2022
    I prefer caged blowjobs to uncaged ones, so does my wife
     
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    #27 Byrdie, Dec 10, 2022
    Once I adjusted my viewpoint on blow jobs, I started enjoying them. If I give a bj, I'm running it. I'll tie a guy up before I'll let me shove my head down. If I tease, vary, and entertain myself, I'm less likely to get bored, start running on automatic, let my jaw loosen and accidentally bring in some uninvited teeth. If I'm having fun I hear more happy noises from him. If I'm bored, spacing out and running on autopilot, he tends to get quieter. So, getting bored means that I stop.

    Also, I'm not a fan of the taste of ejaculate, so that's not happening in my mouth anymore.

    My ex husband and at least one man I dated (very briefly) refused to lick my vulva, so I think here's oral sex shame on both sides.
     
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    #28 DonnaSue, Dec 10, 2022
    At this point in my journey, I think my chances of being required to give others blowjobs is much greater than ever getting one again!
     
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    #29 madams-sissysub, Dec 10, 2022
    Yes! And my madam has told me as much.
     
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    #30 maid jessica 43, Dec 10, 2022
    None for me ever from my Queen and never in the future
     
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    #31 maid jessica 43, Dec 10, 2022
    I am now a girl why do I need a bj? Would love to give one or two or ten!,,
     
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    #32 Rectrix, Dec 11, 2022
    I'm joining the club. My wife has never given me a blowjob to completion in over 30 years. And now she doesn't even put it in her mouth. I guess I'll dies without ever having gotten a blowjob.
     
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    #33 anasyrma, Dec 11, 2022
    The BJ free club? If we are PIV and BJ free, what are we?

    We should get T-shirts made up!
     
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    #34 cshorts, Dec 11, 2022
    I don't remember my wife ever giving me a blowjob to completion, 30 years. Maybe once or twice in our first few years? She goes down as foreplay, more in recent years (though for the past 4 years that mostly means caged bjs!). But never for very long. For most of our years, she said she wanted PIV so much that she didn't want to "waste" my orgasm. But she doesn't enjoy giving them much, so rarely stays at it more than 30-60 seconds. I've wanted to experience going to O, but I'm too submissive to push the issue.

    Perhaps oddly, though I had 12-20 lovers before we got together, I only received blowjobs to orgasm 2-3 times in all those years too. It continues to surprise me, reading forums and blogs, how standard and frequent bjs seem to be these days ... my experience has been that women aren't interested in giving them unless strongly requested or urged (which I don't do).
     
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    #35 SubSnuggler, Dec 11, 2022
    My Wife has never allowed me to ejaculate in her mouth, although in 25 years she has given me oral to completion a few times (maybe 5-10). When I was locked in 24/7 chastity a few years ago, she told me I would never get another BJ from her. She views it as a submissive act, and she is just not going to get on her knees for her submissive male. Every now and then I'll get a lick or two, just to remind me what I gave up, but not any kind of actual 'bj'. She will (and enjoys) giving oral sex to other men, just not me.
     
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    #36 cumslave_2002, Dec 11, 2022
    I haven’t had a BJ in about 8 years now. As we got more serious about our FLM, my Goddess felt BJ’s where beneath her. And I still remember the last time she gave me one. She said, I hope you really enjoyed it. Because that will be the last time it ever happens. At the time, I was crushed. She gave the most amazing head, and now it was over. Just the first of many things that have been denied to me now.
     
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    #37 Rectrix, Dec 12, 2022
    Exactly, same here. I've also been too submissive to push the issue. Lately, I've been too submissive to even ask for an erection.
     
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    #38 WillieBDenied, Dec 12, 2022
    this is the most depressing thread I have ever seen.
     
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    #39 NowIveDoneIt, Dec 12, 2022
    It can be quite depressing to flip through threads and read comments that make one question why…
     
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    #40 Chaz69, Dec 12, 2022
    I'm with you, but as they say "different strokes (or lack thereof) for different folks". I'm using chastity to spice up our love life, not diminish it. I certainly don't mind going without my own pleasure for long periods as I enjoy giving my wife pleasure, and the longer I'm denied the better the act feels when I do get it, but I don't get the appeal of never doing stuff again.
     
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    #41 Chaste Bear, Dec 12, 2022
    For me i think it's partly a humiliation kink, the fact that i'm expected to give blowjobs and swallow for my husband while he doesnt for me. It turns me on massively when he reminds me how much bigger his balls are than mine or how much more he cums.
     
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    #42 SubSnuggler, Dec 12, 2022
    You don't get the appeal of requiring your wife to do something she doesn't want to do? To most of the people in this thread that's exactly what your response means...
     
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    #43 JuniorLeon, Dec 12, 2022
    I totally agree chastity has improved our intimacy and the quality of our love life.
     
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    #44 Chaz69, Dec 12, 2022
    Who said anything about requiring anybody to do anything? I don't understand why some guys love it when they are denied BJs for life, or denied PIV for life, or denied seeing their wife naked, etc. But nobody's requiring me to understand it, everyone should do what works for them. I would also caution you from speaking for everyone in this thread or this forum, we're a pretty diverse bunch here.
     
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    #45 NowIveDoneIt, Dec 12, 2022
    Agreed. I'm a mate for life person- I have no desire to someday leave my wife so I think in that mindset. So when someone says their wife said that's your last time having PIV or getting a bj or you will never see me naked, I personally believe that's not healthy. Everything in life should have balance. What I find really crazy is how often you see the women saying they miss PIV or even giving bjs and that aspect has been hard on them. Sometimes I read these stories and imagine these chaste guys are all submissive and obedient and once an O is granted they turn into a werewolf that needs to be avoided for a week...
     
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    #46 Strapon Sandy, Dec 12, 2022
    i don't like bj's anyway
    so wouldn't miss them
     
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    #47 SubSnuggler, Dec 13, 2022
    You said it, and they said it. I'm just pointing out that not all in this thread need YOU to chime in with saying you don't get it. Look inward, and don't lash out cause someone calls you on it. Take your own advice.
     
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    #48 Chaz69, Dec 13, 2022
    Ah got it, so this is one of those "don't post if you don't agree with everything" threads, so noted. Thanks, I wasn't aware. Man, there's been a lot of this kind of snippiness recently, I wonder what's going on?
     
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    #49 Fisherman, Dec 13, 2022
    I'm with Chaz69 on this one. My wife and I have been married for 37 years. Blowjobs are gifts we give each other. PIV is a mutual pleasure we have together. We see each other naked every day. All these things will continue until death do us part.

    Chastity is a mutually enjoyable kink that adds spice to our silver years of marriage. To say that PIV or BJ's are off the table is a bridge too far.
     
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    #50 Chastebank, Dec 13, 2022
    Agree
     
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