Never getting a bj again

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    Hi,

    Ever since my wife started to lock me, and although we have a lot of PIV sex (I'm not allowed to cum, though), she stopped giving me blow jobs. For some reason the thought of never getting a bj ever again is such a huge turn on. Has anyone else feel/felt the same?
     
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    My wife has never given me a BJ. She has never let me inside her without a thick condom. The last time was several years ago. You're lucky you are still allowed PIV.
     
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    Nope. I have had plenty throughout my life, with one or sometimes more women, and while they are great visually I have never really understood the appeal.

    Being caged for a month or two I might fantasise about a blowjob but really I fantasise about making love rather than getting my D sucked.
     
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    I have a different twist on this with hubby. I stopped giving him blowjobs many, many years ago. I was always very self conscious about it, and never really felt I was doing it well. So they became less frequent and then at some point disappeared completely. I think hubby missed them, but he also didn't want to pressure me into something I was unenthusiastic about.

    Then once I started locking hubby up, I would occasionally give him a blowjob in his cage. For some reason I found that so much more appealing and it has become a fairly regular way for me to tease hubby. But never when he's unlocked. He's asked (or more accurately begged) a few times, but I just tell him he'll never have a "real" blowjob again. That pushes his buttons very nicely.
     
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    Blowjobs were pretty much just a form of foreplay, I rarely could relax enough to finish from them. When I was the dominant one and we’d play with bdsm a bit, I’d of course make my Wife suck and worship my cock as part of it. But once we started with the cage, she’s probably given head a few times and only for a couple minutes as some foreplay or a tease.
    The funny thing is, now that I know I can’t just ask for it or demand it, I find myself wanting it more and more of course. And my wonderfully devious Wife knowing that, loves to tease that she won’t allow it ever again! I don’t think that’s entirely true, but she knows it gets her jailed little guy straining in his cage. :)

    She used to get mad when she’d try and get me to finish from a blowjob, the few times she got me to, it would take forever and hurt her jaw. Now she could probably get me off in a few minutes, but somehow I just don’t see her willing to try that out. Now she gets head pretty much every single day, and my jaw and tongue are strong as hell :)
     
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    I conducted an online survey years ago and learned many women have issues with performing oral sex on men. Their jaws ache, men can be overly aggressive, and men ejaculated into their mouth without warning. It isn't like in porn movies, though men believe otherwise. I believe women do as expected of them, often out of fear of losing their partner to another woman if the don't. The only thing women disliked more was anal sex.
     
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    Not.A.Fucking.Shot.It.Hell.
     
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    If anything a lack of blowjobs is my biggest regret from caged life. The idea of not having them again doesn’t turn me on, if anything it’s the biggest frustration.
    I wouldn’t be aroused if my wife said I’d never have another… I’d probably call the whole thing off!
    That wouldn’t happen though. My wife has openly told me her biggest dislike of me being locked is that she can’t just put it in her mouth whenever she wants! Which is strange for someone who prior to me just didn’t do it (or so she claims). That’s hard to believe as it was only our second date before she’d started with them.

    For me a blowjob is my favourite part of sex in general. It’s the one act where I’ve always considered ‘this is for me’. There isn’t pressure to perform on my front so I can just relax and let the magic happen. That doesn’t take long, my wife is incredible at them, I’m close before she’s even taken it in her mouth. She’ll do a lot of prep work with her tongue.

    It’s a bitter pill to swallow as now they’re all ruined!
     
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    Ouch nothing like a good blowjob, and my wife is good
     
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    My wife loves having me in her mouth (and it shows) so most times I’m unlocked I get one, even if it’s only for a little bit. The thing I miss is actually getting to orgasm from one, as it’s probably my favorite way to do so. I honestly don’t think she’d ever take them off the table.
     
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    Your wife statement is her form of Tease before the Denial
     
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    She has never offered a BJ but eagerly accepts my oral attention. I love to please her, she isn't a fan.
     
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    Don't be so negative. They'll be plenty more bjs in the future - just your role in them might be giving rather than receiving ;-)

    A
     
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    My Wife decreed I will never have one again, and yes, it is an enormous turn on, in particular because She has me suck Her strapon cock before She fucks me with it.

    Neither of us is into emasculation but we agree that providing oral is a submissives task. Needless to say i often provide Her with oral while my cock stays locked until it is time for my biweekly cum feeding.
     
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    No, she’s good with the tease but mostly that’s physical and mild mockery of my situation… she genuinely loves to give head! She’s very good at it too… like in my top 5 at least
     
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    It’s a shame most women don’t love giving blow jobs. I absolutely love it and would gladly do it several times a day even if that’s all my partner wanted from me.
     
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    No BJ's or PIV sex here in many years.

    Sissies don't get the honor of PIV. Be careful what you ask for wanting to be more fem..
     
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    My wife has never given me a BJ. It also turns me on
     
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    Lol
     
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    My husband has never given me blowjobs, very rarely he'll suck it as foreplay, even less so since starting chastity. If I did'nt tell him to stop and came in his mouth i'd be in deep shit. I on the other hand love sucking his cock and swallow his loads regularly. It does turn me on immensely that i'm never going to receive one while having to give them all the time.
     
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    Oral sex is my favorite part. I’d be done if it was off the table.
     
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    When my wife and i first started with cuckoldry and D/S etc i voluntarily Sacrificed blowjobs to show Her i was serious and dedicated to being her submissive.
    She has never given me one since.
    She was very very good at sucking cock and a few men have enjoyed her skills over 20 years while ive been denied.
    From what i hear she is even better than before. She has improved her already spectacular skills.

    God i miss the feeling of recieving oral sex even though i honestly dont remember how they felt now.
     
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    I loved getting a blow job. And my Wife (KH) knows it. Now that she has me wearing a cage 95% of the time. It is her go to tease. When she allows me to take my cage off. She will tease me with either a hand job or a blow job. She will go down on me, get me hard, then let me go soft and then repeat until she gets bored or knows I'm so close to the edge, then lock me back up.
    This morning as we were getting out of bed, I was just lying in bed and she walked over and gave my balls a little kiss and then sucked each one for a few seconds. As my penis filled my cage, she just walked away. I was laying there throbbing and hard for a few minutes, but that was it.
    I really miss getting a full blow job now. I would love to be allowed out of my cage and just have my Wife (KH) blow me right to a huge orgasm. But I really don't see that happening anymore.
     
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    She never was much for BJ before chastity. Now that and PIV are gone forever. i am satisfied. one day we might get to never having aa full O again. Loving it!
     
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