Well after years of skirting around the idea of chastity every now and then chatting about it with my wife have made a scary yet exciting break through today. We sat happily looking for some 'toys' to buy with my birthday money, and to cut a long story short, she has ordered one for me that she has chosen! Definitely was not expecting to get that for my birthday today!! To actually have my wife as my keyholder rather than just going it alone is hopefully going to be amazing. She says we will take it steady at first until she gets used to it and build from there. Fingers crossed she enjoys it!
Congrats on one hell of a bday! Hopefully you keep chill and let her lead, no sense tipping the cart now that you have finally got started
Thank you all. This past week went slighty better than expected, it started out where she just wanted me to wear it for small periods of time when she was there in the evenings. She has really enjoyed the control over me without to much effort needed on her part, as she knows it is arousing and teasing me her just knowing I am under her control. However, today she took it a step further than I expected so soon. ( I have to add with the job I do wearing it at work wont be an option unfortunately). So I came in from work to find a short note from her with the open padlock sat next to it (we play ships in the night with our shift patterns alot ). Without going word for word, she basicaly said I have key with me, have one frozen in the freezer with a safety feature so know if you cheat, and I have hidden one in the house. Put your device on and I will text you later tonight where it is so you can take it off. It has now been 5 hous since then, and keep getting very short texts...'are you comfy?'.....'winks'.... 'I like this control'. But what has surpised me, is that she has just said if I keep enjoying this we will really need to look into getting one that is much more restrictive and secure, you can maybe start saving now...... ...have I created a Monster in one short week???
Well I am being continuously surprised by my wife. All this is new to her, yet last night she did not give me the key before she went to bed as she has done all week. I woke up this morning, she had gone to work, no key! Really wasn't expecting that to happen so soon, if at all. And OMG... Morning rise... Yikes!!
Sounds like your wife is into being a Dom. If you could wear it to work I think you would be 24/7 before you even knew it was happening . It does get easier over time. Well enjoy your journey .