nervous about going to work

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    I trying to build up the courage to wear my device to work for the first time and am looking for advice, Im confident I can wear it that that long as it is comfortable as ever
    I've also worn it many time just buying groceries.
    I just can't manage to cross the line and wear it to work.
    Tips or good experience stories please!
     
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    Just go for it! I am locked 24/7 and in my work I travel about and some of it maybe physical. As you go about your work you probably won't even think about it after a while (as long as its comfortable). I get in and out of my work van, carry and use tools and test equipment and sometimes have fairly heavy items to handle! If I need to pee I am not always near a toilet and can do so behind a bush or out of the way. Nearly 5 years now.
     
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    As we always say, there's a first time for everything. There aren't many tips when
    it comes to the first time. It is more about the feeling of doing something no one else
    knows about. I found it quite interesting to feel almost aroused by the whole thing.

    I think it is a personal thing that you won't know until you do it. No one will be staring
    at you because they have no clue. Go for it and enjoy, I think you will enjoy it.:lock:
     
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    First day is always one full of worry you think everyone notices what your wearing when they have no idea, even when talking to people you think there looking down at your crotch! I'm a joiner/carpenter so times when I was locked I was building roofs and all types of manual labour for 10 hours a day in awkward positions, if you've got a good fitting device and suitable supportive underwear your on the right track
     
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    I made the leap earlier this week and it was great! Go for it!
     
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    @Interested-chaste When I saw the title of your thread I imagined that you might have been worried because you worked in heavy industry operating something like a drop hammer. Buying groceries seems much safer. :)
     
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    I think all of us wearers started with those worries. I bet that there will only actually be one person there that knows about it and that will be you. After awhile you get to the point of even forgetting that it is there.
     
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    I remember thinking...oh my god, I can’t even take this off if I want now that I’m here! I also kept thinking...I can’t believe I’m actually wearing it all the time now, I’m just walking around and nobody knows.

    Now I only think about it if I sit on my balls or something pinches. In fact the few times I have been uncaged at work since, I think...I can’t believe I’m free to get hard and pee standing up!
     
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    unless you are wearing tight shorts, no one will notice the bulge in your crotch area..........unless you want others to :p

    I'm proud to let others know I'm locked no matter what others intention is :D
     
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    You just have to remember; that you are at the very cutting edge of modern male society, that hundreds of thousands of other men are doing it, there's nothing to be ashamed of, be proud of it. You're not doing anyone any harm, It's not perverse it's trendy, no one will notice anything anyway and I would prefer it if you were locked at work.
     
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    It's no problem. You have to remember nobody knows, nobody can see. It's actually quite fun, sitting in meetings and thinking "if only you knew". Oddly, that gives you more confidence
     
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    No one will notice at all. At first you'll think it's *so* obvious but then you'll stop worrying and enjoy the feeling that you have this little secret (pun intended x). The only awkward times are when you get some skin pinched and need to discretely adjust. The first few times the thrill of not being able to unlock even if I wanted to was quite intense.

    I particularly enjoy the feeling of having to sit to pee every time and hoping for an empty stall when I use the toilets at work, or having to use public restrooms and hoping they are clean enough.

    Go for it!!
     
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    First, what device are you wearing? Can you wear it over night? Is it comfortable? Doors your underwear support the device if needed?

    All valid questions that you should be concerned with.

    Next what is it about being in chastity that you are uncomfortable with not to wear it to work?

    If you’re worried about people noticing the device; this is very unlikely as in nearly 11 years no one has ever commented or noticed - other than my wife.
     
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    I remeber the same nervous feeling. I barely notice it most the time untill i squat down or bend in a certin direction. Im a carpenter so im usually wearing a tool belt that tends to make things look wierd anyway
     
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    It wasn't me that had that problem, it was my Mistress. She was worried that somebody would notice an unnatural bulge. She worried about the pub (dark), golf course (quiet) and most places where we would be out.

    Back in these days I had a CB6000 which is relatively bulky and I could self lock if I wanted. So I put the cage on and picked her up from work and met her from the pub a couple of times just to prove to her that even she wouldn't notice. Even when we embraced in the pub she didn't notice.

    As others have said, very few people out there are staring at your crotch. A bigger worry for me was finding public toilets and many a time the places we would go to were determined by the toilets.

    Of course the alternative is for your Keyholder to make the decision for you and send you off to work safely locked up.
     
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    Just to add to what I said earlier, I change into my work wear at work and more often than not 1 or 2 of my workmates are in the locker room doing the same. So off come my ordinary trousers and on go the work ones! Even in just my underpants unless someone stares directly at my crotch they can't see anything! I do change fairly quickly and am obviously bent over getting the legs off and on, also my polo shirts are fairly long! My cage is nice and compact and as I say unless you were stare at my nether regions even in underpants you wouldn't notice!
     
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    Thank you for all the positive reinforcement! It went exactly as mentioned above, it was just another day. Most of the time I was too busy to even remember it was there (my main concern was somebody noticing it) I did exactly as @Disciplined Boyfriend said I didn't leave it up to me, I was lucky enough to have a Key Holder make the decision for me, I was honest and asked her for advice and I'll do it everyday now.
    I cannot wait to further my chastity experience. I feel naive for even being worried all!
    thanks again for the feedback
     
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    If you are a self locker leave the keys at work and lock up as soon as you get home next morning you can't chicken out all will be good.
     
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    So how did it feel?
     
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    When I first wore mine to work I still had the key. Then I'd leave the key in the car. If you know you can wear it for that amount of time it shouldn't be a problem.

    I've found work is one of the easiest places for me because my work distracts me from it.
     
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    small steps on the road to female-led happiness. Well done....
     
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    I felt a little vulnerable but I also more understanding of others and as the day went on and it got really busy
    non stop service (bar work) I completely forgot about it, no time to think about it.
    I was alot more reserved than I normally am and I do like to be the centre of attention normally but not that day, I was shy and anxious but I think that will pass as I do it more and I've extended my lock up for a week.
    It felt really good to have made the step and has set me on a path of being locked more and more.
     
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    Great step, it gets to the point that when you take it off it feels wrong.
     
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    I am glad you made the choice for him
     
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    I work around lots and lots of people, male as well as female, and nobody has said a thing to me or acted as if they've noticed something. It has been almost two years know. It does change your demeanor some when your locked up and around others in a public setting, especially at first. Eventually, you feel more like yourself. People only know what you want them to know.
     
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