NeoSteel The Fun

Hello,
After a long break from chastity as life got nuts I decided to return and with a better job now i wanted to get serious about my long term chastity goals and purchased a NeoSteel "the fun". It arrived two days ago.

I am having a couple problems with it and hoping some others with experience might be able to assist - I am concerned I might have got the rear cable too short.

1.) it sits lower on my hips then I expected as the belt is being pulled down by the crotch module pretty firmly, pulled low enough that I feel like my crack is almost ready to show above the belt in the back but not quite.
• Question is this normal and where one should expect a Neosteel to ride?
2.) The belt is cutting into my hips a bit in the front when sitting or when I raise my legs, particularly the tendons that run up the front of your hips when I raise my knees particularly the right leg.
• Question: is this normal and my body will adjust or is there a certain way to bend the belt to make it better?
3.) The V shaped portion at the end of the tube is sitting between the perineum and anus and is causing chafing and a burning sensation right there.
• Question: again is this normal and something my body has to adjust to or is their a 'right' way to bend it to help this.

Its possible that I got the back cable to short and that is causing all of the problems above which would be very disappointing. I did do the measuring kit though so hoping maybe its just an adjustment thing.

 

After a little more experimentation and thinking a little more the belt sitting pretty low is not necessarily A Bad Thing, as it eliminates the possibility of it slipping above my pants.

I guess my main concern right now is whether it cause long term or permanent damage to my hips somehow by digging in at the bend if my legs.

And I need to figure out how to make the V at the end of the tube stop chafing.

Maybe dip it in plasti-dip? Is plasti-dip safe for this use case or would it give me cancer?