Need urgent device advice...

Hi all,

Please forgive the relative newbiness of my question... And I hope this is the right forum... x

I have a very practical problem - and any suggestions/help would be greatly appreciated!

Whilst I'm not exactly a *complete* newbie, I'm a little bit out of the loop on the state of the art. Most of the newer devices I see look way too complicated, lol !

I have (or have had) CB2000, CB3000, CB6000, CB6000, CB6000s, Bon4, Holy Trainer 2 devices and none of these are able to actually "prevent" erection. I get it that it's about mental training etc. but right now, I'm really struggling to keep the 'thing' under any control at all. In the past, this has been less of a problem due to various chemical approach which have helped suppress such activities (you know what I'm saying...;-)

However - Yesterday, an older male dominant friend of mine (who knows all about my sissiness and dressing, but is solidly into girls) suddenly surprised me by inviting me to a concert and at the end of the conversation said "Let's make it a real date - I want you to wear a cock device and pink panties for me."

Ok, doesn't sound like much... And I prefer guys anyway, so that's not an issue (hmmm...) - but I've spent 24 hours with a raging erection and in order to try and calm it down, have masturbated 7 times (a world record) and am panicking. This was totally unexpected and out of character for him and my head has basically exploded - hence this message.

In the past, I've broken two CB3000's by getting hard and am dubious anything in my current cupboard is likely to help the situation.

I always remember years ago, the feminisation magazines talking about "prevening erection with extreme pain" which I'd always assumed was more fantasy than anything else - I think they were pushing Lori's Tubes at the time.

I understand the excitement will drop off over time - but right now, I'm constantly up. And all the breathing, meditation and "don't think about it" exercises aren't cutting it... ;-0

I'm about 0.5" - 1" when soft (micropenis territory), but (unfortunately) about 7" when fully hard, girth 1.5".

So please forgive my somewhat naive questions:-

1. Do any of the modern devices *actually* stop erections happening? (without breaking...)
2. Are there any other devices which can help with this? - i.e. ones with urethral inserts or specific shapes (the metal coil, spiral cage types).
3. Are all (non-metal) devices fundamentally susceptible to stress under pressure to the point of breaking?
4. Any specific recommendations on type or setup which might help me?

Any responses, gratefully received

Thank you for reading,

Lucy A. xxx

 

Thanks ever so much for all the really positive feedback everyone!

Metal does seem to the way to go - even maybe with a custom job, a girl can dream...;-) LOL

Also, you guys have confirmed the suspicion that the plastic models +/- seams are inevitably doomed to some sort of physical failure under duress. I've never been 100% happy with any of the plastic-based ones - they all had some negative points which meant I never got on with them on an even part-time basis. Literally, I only wore them to go out or to a party or for a special someone - never really for longer periods (1week+).

JosieLynn is 100% right though, the 'stopping it starting' is the main issue. I didn't mention, but I'm uncut (with an uber-long stretched foreskin, weird with a tiny nub...) and still have a secret hankering for a frenum or PA to help with the issue - I've always assumed that the integration of frenum/PA with a metal device was much easier (not having ventured into metal) and would stop it all 'kicking off', but having read some more now - I have a sneaking feeling that brings it's own challenges! ;-) More help needed!

Anyway, other comments - gratefully received, but I think my head is definitely into something more custom and definitely metal, to curb the initial impulse - and yes, I'm throughly ashamed (blush...) of having to admit such horrible things in public - as sissies are absolutely meant to be well-controlled and well-managed in the tiny clitoral department at all times... - please, no irate messages Masters and Mistresses! LOL

Anyways - Many thanks again for all the positive input!, superstuff, kisses Lucy xxx.

 

Fantastic! Thank you so much for asking!

Well! Yeah! Yeah, it was, well, fantastic! Went to a concert, he drove us, we had a meal beforehand which was great, he got me slightly sloshed on a tequila slammers and of course, the $64000 question - did I get embarassingly excited at his coursing male testosterone dom confident flirtatious humiliating demeanour? God yeah! Honestly, about 3 times it nearly all went wrong! though I did actually manage to stay relaxed and calm thoroughout in the panty department, in spite of my vital signs being about 300/200 for nearly all of the night. The Holy Trainer 2 served me pretty well - although, I confess to having to sneak off to the toilets to reseat it after some major turbulence. For the most part, I was 99% mentally already there to be in chastity for him - I didn't take much encouraging! It was very lovely He seems to have a thing for restraint, chastity, sissy training and fucking machines. What's not to like???!!! ;-) x x x

He rang yesterday asking me for a second date! Ooooooooooo! Little things for a girl's confidence. Luvya, Luce xxx

 

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Hey All! - Well, here's the update on date #2 for those who might like to know!!! He was really really sweet and called me last Saturday to confirm and invite me over to his flat the following night at 9pm sharp with some very specific requests - I should wear the Holy Trainer again (he really enjoyed it before knowing I was safely locked), pink bikini panties and the tightest girly jeans I could get into. Other than that, he wanted black heels, tight pink T-shirt, pink eye shadow, pink lipstick, black leather jacket and 'bed-head' hair. This was real cute for me He admitted he'd been watching the movie Grease and thought it was most appropriate!! By the time, he'd finished the call, I was leaking like mad and I literally went and had a cold shower;-)

Although, I'd been to his place before - this time, on the way over - I nearly crashed the car about 3 times with excitement on some windy lanes in (literally) the middle of BF nowhere.

Anyway - When I arrived at his 1st floor flat, he asked me for my key and immediately started plying me with tall glasses of iced Metaxa rum and we must have spent about 2-1/2 hours or so sitting on his sofa, while he loaded up his favourite sissy porn videos on the TV - and him asking me probing questions what I thought about the action (!). He was *totally* fascinated by Sasha De Sade videos on feminized.com and watching my reaction to Ella Lou sissy hypno trainers. He was as calm as a cucumber and just grinned like mad all the time, while I sat squirming in the 4" heels with a real-cute bow (a recent buy for a whole 16 quid in the Black Friday sale! A girl likes a bargain...;-).

He just knew a pile of tricks trying to freak me out - at one point, while I was genuinely fairly tipsy, after seeing a super-cute inked Tgirl in metal chastity+urethral insert getting *properly* nailed by 2 BBC's - a long conversation ensued about me getting a cute tattoo 'for him' which nearly melted me into the floor! You'll be pleased to know that the HT survived without any real accident, although I'm not sure I did! My panties were properly soaked at the front throughout with a tiny stain on the front of the really tight jeans which he made fun of. He's certainly got my number;-)

Probably one of the highlights at the end of night was him telling me that he fancied taking me to visit a dom master friend of his to 'present me' as his new 'girlfriend' - this was a real big surprise, I got immediately mega-hot, flushed and *super* nervous - which he thought was hilarious! A bunch of times, he chastised and reprimanded me for my 'unprovoked' excitement (!), really enjoying my total discomfort. Great stuff really

Anyway - He was really so charming and nice (and seriously horny...;-), gave me a long kiss on the cheek as I left at midnight (he had an early start next day) and he made me promise faithfully I wouldn't play with myself on the way home, while begrudgingly giving me the key back (yeah, right...;-).

So, that was basically it - Really lovely and haven't had so much fun in forever! I haven't heard anything since Sunday - and now, I'm just praying for a next phone call like a lovesick teenager) Happy days! Luce xxx