Need help new to this

Hi! Perhaps the best opinion would be given by a Mistress, but I tell you my point of view like a man.

Don't worry to feel little confident or embarrased about it...He's your husband! Who is the best man to do this?

Let your imagination free and enjoy every moment you can in this experience.

If you want to tease him I think an idea is make a deal with him about the days of chastity and when the date will be near, add a bit more days with any excuse.

Hope to help you.

 

I think teasing will come a bit easier than you think, as once he is locked up , his desires will be a peak. Just remember that it isn't all about him, you should find some enjoyment out of this as well. I'm sure he'd be thrilled if you find the angle to this that pleases yourself. And don't worry about being a bit embarrassed, as it is new so that is a common reaction. Again, as you do it more that will fade. Good luck and enjoy.

 

@Mistress Minion see you are not alone in your journey.

 

Take a good look through the forum and you will see there is no need to be embarrassed!
Good lunch on your journey! Your Amongst friends here!

 

Welcome! And I just want to say you’ve made a HUGE step just coming here and asking the question. Good for you! There are lots of good folks here, and you’ll find lots of good advice as you look around. You should also discover that there is no need to be embarrassed here. And I also agree that chastity works best when both partners enjoy it. I hope you find some pleasure in keeping him locked, but if you don’t, then it’s okay for you not to. The important thing is that you both talk about it and find what works for you together.

 

have him: shave cock/balls at least weekly (then lotion after and at least twice daily), weigh himself daily - require him to get to ideal weight, exercise regularly, keep a chore list for him to do around your home, keep a file for things he finds on the web that arouse him or that might arouse you

 

Welcome here your highness