Good evening all. My wife and I have recently embarked in the FEMDOM life and have been enjoying it for the last 4 weeks. I can get into our story another time but Misses has given me permission to post on this site in an effort to get advise for my new chastity. I have purchased 2 different devices I would consider "novelty" from the naughty store and one from online. NOTE: I DO NOT USE THE URETHRA ATTACHMENT The first was Asylum Chastity device with a 2" A ring. http://themaster-series.com/ad147.php This being my first device I quickly found within the first week how important the A ring was for comfort and security. I found the 2" ring was too big as I constantly had to adjust the device and pull it up closed to my stomach as it kept slipping down. I also found that there were several "Pinch Points" causing random discomfort. I think this was due to the way the A ring wrapped around and was hinged to close and secure everything. So I explained to the Misses my issue and she authorized me a second purchase. I then ordered the "JAIL CELL STEEL CHASTITY" http://www.fetishtoybox.com/JAIL-CELL-STEEL-CHASTITY-DEVICE-CHROME-FHS200C.htm?categoryId=-1 Which I am currently wearing. This one has a SOLID A ring that does not hinge AND comes with a 2", 1.75" and 1.5" A Rings. I thought my troubles were over. I liked the design and thought it would have fewer pinch points. Which it does. However, my new dilemma is that I cannot push a single nut through the 1.5" A ring (too small) and the 2" still seems to be too big. Because I am still constantly adjusting the 1.75" like I was the 2". It keep sliding down. So........... I decided to put electrical tape around the base of the 1.75" A ring to "tighten it up". It has worked but now I wake in the morning in some discomfort. I wouldn't call it "pain" but it is certainly noticeable. It seems when I have nocturnal erections, my cock is pushing the whole cage assembly down and the A ring is chocking my nuts (if that makes sense) and is severely tight. Its not until I wake up and "loosen" up until I can pull it up and back into place and relieve the pressure and feel normal again. I have seen the "custom" devices and I am not ready to spend $1000's of $$$ at this point. So I was wondering what other may be doing to alleviate this issue and if I could manage with what I have. I hope all makes sense and would appreciate any feedback you all can give me. I look forward to being part of this group and plan on being a log term chastity wearer. I see a custom device in my future, just not now. What say you? Thanks!