First a belated Happy Birthday to 'Mistress Watchful'. I have a friendship with a Lady but it is more or less platonic (98%). Reason I say more or less is that although we have known each other over 2 yrs there has only been one occassion [about 3 months ago] where we have had sex (she was a bit drunk). We are both single but I think / no I know she is still carrying a torch her ex - even though he was quite horrible to her, inc dumping her just before getting married! We talk a lot on the phone & get on really well, & after a couple of glasses of wine she talks quite openly. The other night she said she was going out with a girlfriend this coming wk/nd but didn't know how she was going to get her or get home - so I offered to chauffeur her there & pick her up (probably around 1-2.00am) - which she was chuffed at. Think she said this on purpose as she knows me & guessed I'd offer to take her. She said though, "I need to tell you something, you mustn't try & kiss me (I'm always wanting to) - if I WANT TO kiss you, I'll kiss you". I immediately said 'Of course' this seemed to surprise her somewhat, but replied "Ok that's good then". What I need to know, & the dilemma I have is that I'm currently wearing a CB3K with smallest A ring 40 mm & with severe PoI (slightly filed down) last orgasm 18th March. Should I leave this on with the possibility that if anything happens when I pick her up she may discover my chastity. If so what would I say to her - when quizzed? She has absolutely no idea about my sexual deviance - although think she wouldn't be that surprised. I of course will be highly embarrassed, as publicly (like most I guess) I'm very vanilla! She works full time & has said on a couple of occassions "Oh I could do with a slave" & more recently "I need a maid". Think however these comments were said quite innocently; as I don't think she has any notion of another world i.e. the World of FemDom, or BDSM! Although I don't think it would take a lot to bring out a dominant nature. The other complication that is thrown into the mix is that she has 2 19+ duaghters living at home with her - so privacy would be an issue. Thanks.