Need advice on learning to clean up

You mean cleaning her pussy after you cum?

Have her ride you until you cum, then as soon as you fill her up she should immediately plop her messy self right on your face and not leave until she is satisfied you have done your part. After that happens a couple of times going back down on her after you cum will seem like a treat.

Its not bad at all, its just different at first. My KH did that routine to me, the first time I came inside of her while she was on top and she said "guess what" and before I could answer my face was straddled. At this point I'm actually dissapointed if I'm not told to clean her after. I don't cum inside of her as much as I used to as she prefers to keep me locked, and when I do she enjoys the feeling of being "loaded" I think. But when I do get to do it, I feel incredibly submissive and she seems so powerful.. it's amazing.

 

I would like to do this and nearly got there before being able to convince her to commence being my KH. I am still keen and I am aiming to achieve this soon through chastity.

 

Cream pies are actually a fetish of mine. But, I’m bi and like cum. Wife really isn’t into me eating my cum out of her but the few times I’ve done it she has had a good orgasm herself. So, it’s possible she doesn’t like the thought of it but when I do it it feels good to her.

 

I learned to "clean up" my wife due to years ago I would cum before she did and not wanting to leave her hanging, i would go down on her to finish her off. It just became our routine actually. Sometimes i would lick her first and when she was almost there, i would get get on and we would cum almost together. Or we would just have sex, I came first, then I would finish her off.

 

I think going down on her after cumming first is probably a fairly common way to become adapted to eating it.

 

I'm sure you know what to do. You just need to stop been a bitch about it. Your wife has given you all the instruction you need.

 

Lol this made me giggle...female led in a nutshell

 

couldnt agree more!

 

If you can force yourself to do it, you could ask if she would be ok with forcing you to do it by facesitting/Queening you.

It would be a good carpentry project, you making a Queening Stool/Chair/Box.

 

Tips? I'd say get someone to lock you in chastity until you do it. That's all the motivation you need.

 

Not the most fun activity. I think I was lucky and unlucky with how my wife handled the first time. I think it will be an every time thing if she allows piv with an O for me. She liked how there was no fight about putting the cage on. Her dominance grew and my submissions seem to stay the same or even grow. Did the humiliating submissive act cancel out the fact I had an orgasm. Oh by the way I gagged about to throw up she climbed off lucky me but she said next time your cleaning it all thats the unlucky part.

 

Haha i guess i gave no advice other then the moment you told your dominant wife/girlfriend about male chastity anything can happen.

 

My experience is exactly the same. The first time we did this wife/mistress planted herself over my face and refused to move until she was satisfied that I had done a complete job. After several times of this it has become almost second-nature.

I will also add, she gets very wet and messy herself, so cleaning her up can sometimes be a big job!

 

I think that the way the post is written, OP is talking about cleaning up cum that wasn't from PIV. Like licking off the floor or from fingers, etc.

 

Sorry about the misunderstanding from before. If she would be willing to let you get used to the taste of it by mixing it with other things like vanilla pudding that could really help.

 

Provided she cares you have a distaste for it, I certainly wouldn't. This also implies room to negotiate, not in my house.
You do it because she has asked you to and you want to please her. Your enjoyment in this activity is irrelevant your submission is all that matters. You may learn to love it because it feeds your submission.

 

Eating ones own cum can be a very disgusting chore, however if you give control to you wife. You better know how lucky you are to have found such a wonderful woman to be interested in this.
I started to be trained to eat my cum almost 20 years ago. I fantasized about being made to do it, but after I came I wanted nothing to do with it. The first few times I tried, I gagged, chocked and thought I would throw up. It was sooo disgusting, not to mention how degraded and humiliated I felt. My now wife thought it was hilarious and I could tell this was a new game for her.
To get me better accustomed to it, she would collect it in a cup and freeze it. So the next time I was horny she would get me to suck on it before I came. Sometimes still frozen, other times she would thaw it and spoon feed me . It didn’t taste any better, easier to do when your horny and frustrated though . Then she started to increase the loads she would save for me. It went from 3 to 5, and finally she had me jerk off into the cup everyday for 14 days. I forgot to mention she put my chastity key in it on the 7 th day. There it was 14 loads with my freedom in the middle of this huge cum cube. After about 3 weeks of chastity and denial. I was asked one night if I wanted to cum. Of course I did. Well you’ll have to suck the cum cube until you can retrieve the key she said. I was tied to a chair and she popped the cube in my mouth. I have never been so disgusted with the taste of something like this every. I wanted to puke, but did as I was told until l was able to feel the key and get it out between my lips. Ms took the key and told me to show her the mess in my mouth. Laughing she made a gagging sound and smiled with a grin. She let me spit the rest of the unmelted cum back into the cup. Set it aside, took off my cage and jerked me off. She caught my fresh load back in the cup. Then went and got a bowl of warm water, and placed the cup into it. I was forced to sit and watch as my fresh cum started to mix with the frozen cum melting. She then took a spoon and feed me the rest. I was completely degraded and humiliated by now, not to mention feeling a little sick from all the cum.
She told me how horny and happy this made her, and that she loved forcing me to do such a degrading act. And this was just the start for me, and there would be plenty more cum for me to eat over the years moving forward.
Well 20 years later, I have eaten my cum in just about every way you could imagine. It’s been a hard rule in our house now for over 6 years. That whenever I’m allowed release, It has to be cumsumed by me. Ms has not suck my cock or tasted cum in I think about eight years now, and has commented that she thinks I have eaten more cum then she has ever in her life. She’s 61. Lol
So from a cum eating, permanent chastised husband, learn to work through it. It’s about her enjoying herself and getting pleasure making you do this. Be thankful she’s taking you for the ride. I know I would do anything for my Ms, and cum eating really isn’t that bad. When you think about the joy your sharing with your wife.
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About once or twice a month I have an accident and a ruined orgasm during a tease session. I am required to do my clean up duty. At first is was hard, but now I look forward to it, in fact I now ask her if I can lick up my cum. She always gives me permission.

 

When I am permitted intercourse I have been trained to stay inside her until I soften. I withdraw and go down on her. I use long licks and often she will have another orgasm. you will get used to the taste

 

Yes Ma'am

 

So well said, @MrsBR_Saiph!! I am in the process of being trained to do this without requiring my Keyholder Wife's insistence that i consume my cum.

The last time i climaxed, i didn't even try to consume and @MistressAMA was not pleased. My penalty was setting a new personal record and i am currently at day 76 of at least 79. I have learned my lesson and will be eager to offer from this point on.

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