First I wanted to tell you a little back round on my subby and I. We have been together for three years now. I had been in two very bad marriages where I had been controlled . When he met me and we became intimately involved and moving forward in our relationship he verbalized that he wanted to give me the control on our relationship that I never had in any other relationship. early on he told me of his desires of wanting to dress feminine and to have a strap on used on him , I was extremely sheltered but we started our relationship put very open and willing to everything sexually. So we started with the strap on and I absolutely loved that , then we introduced the feminine clothes which I also loved. we have done many things trying all different sorts of domination/submission. I have locked him in the cb-6000 for the most two weeks ( with a few days of being out due to a sore on his shaft) . Every time he gets around the two week mark he gets very emotional and he does not think that I am interested in the dom/sub lifestyle. Most recently ( today) he wanted to stop doing it all together after a long conversation with him last night about him feeling like I was no longer interested as usual and him telling me that I have no interest in learning anything new. I finally told him the way it was going to be from now on that he will be doing more around the house so that his mistress has time to talk to other mistresses and get opinions or suggestion or do things for herself he agreed last night. today he was at home trying to accomplish the list of things that I left for him today well he did not like that so much and he lashed out again wanted to stop all of it. I really would like for my fellow mistresses to give me some suggestions on how to go forward and not go backwards. we both know this is what we want , but I am not sure how to go forward and make it stick this back and forth is to much. I would appreciate any help. special note: this is always the way it is at about two weeks . and when he cums he becomes completely impossible. I told him he still has the mind set of wanting what he wants and his mentality is still that he has a right to have an opinion and I tried to explained to him that is no longer true but I need something to wake him up and shake him up where he realizes it.