My wife wants this to be surgically permanent

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    Kink killing maybe, but hopefully this saves a thoughtless penis killing.

    Thank the Lord there are lots of sensible people with good advice on CM.
     
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    It's sick...

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    I am sorry but who are we to decide what is right for there dynamic. Yes I think it is extreme. But if it is something they both want he should go for it. It is there kink.
     
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    Ok, I have never Judged anyone or their kink since I logged onto to CM, well until now.

    I would never give up my penis and testicles, I love them.
    Kink is supposed to be fun, a release from everyday life.
    If I ever did have my penis and testicles removed my wife would loose her ability to control me. She uses them against me all the time to her advantage and it works well.
    If they are gone and I have no sexual desire what’s the point, you can hire a servant to do that work.
    We are married and love each other so removing body parts is going to far. I know some people do it but I just can’t wrap my head around it.

    I often wonder about posts like the original poster. You see them every once in a while and I wonder if it’s real or not. Depending on the answer it can be sad in my eyes. I know everyone is different but this is so far out there. Sorry, logic and common sense does not allow me accept this.
     
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    First off, I have been in the state of mind where I considered pursuing castration or nullification. Being in a completely sexless marriage for years can make a man think about options that seem extreme. For me it was that I want to remove the tension of my sex drive and her total disinterest.

    It is a very difficult thing to find a qualified doctor to do - unless it is part of transitioning to sexual reassignment, then it is much more acceptable. Becoming a null or eunuch is not very openly accepted by medical professionals in the US. There are hospitals and doctors in Mexico and other countries that would be more accommodating.

    if the original poster is serious about this and it is not just something to post and wonder about, then the first question is do you truly want it? It is not a good thing for a man to not have hormones. Either you would need to take estrogen and become more feminine (developing breasts is one side effect) or you would have to take testosterone. The testosterone could, depending on the levels, help him to retain some interest in sex. Testosterone also helps keep muscle mass and prevents osteoporosis.

    As has already been mentioned, the Eunuch Archive would be a much better place to find factual information on the subject. That community has people that have been castrated for real, and have become nullos. Some are very happy, and some have horror stories
     
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    Get your wife to be a verified female on here and then I might believe you.
     
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    I agree!
    Seems strange to want to lose the wonderful frustration! Screenshot_20211015-051114_Samsung Internet.jpg
     
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    Not true, neither for the physical action of ejaculation, nor the sensation of orgasm.

    95% of the volume of ejaculate comes from the seminal vesicles and prostate. If your prostate is stimulated then you will physically ejaculate, even if without orgasm. Removing the testicles does nothing for stopping you orgasm or ejaculating. I've had a vasectomy, my testicles are physically separated from my urethra and can still happily ejaculate, unless you do a sperm count you can't tell the difference.You would have to have both your seminal vesticles (attached to the base of the bladder) and your prostate gland removed if you really didn't want to produce any ejaculate.

    It's perfectly possible also to have orgasms without having a penis or testicles.
    Stimulation of the prostate will produce an orgasm, usually not quite the peak sensation of a penile orgasm, but if you can no longer have a penile orgasm the difference is small and for your aim of no orgasm will mean you've failed. Anal sex is also capable of producing a knee quivering orgasm even if the man is flaccid.

    I'd say go for it if you understand male sexual physiology to at least university medical degree level, but given you've asked the question on an internet forum, I really think we can put that idea in the fantasy box as well.
     
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    I think you're missing a verb there. You [what?] the extremeness of the step?
     
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    Yep sounds like the most ecological solution...no more soiling HER planet.
     
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    Awww nahhh, really?
     
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    They then buried the glans at surface level, more or less where a woman's clitoris would be, so that external stimulation could bring her to orgasm, though she reports it has to be somebody else's hand.

    Then located the urethra exit exactly where a ciswoman's would be.

    An operation of that sort may suit you both better.
     
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    Seems my post somehow lost most of the words, roughly it should have read:

    One of my girls was on the operating table for full vaginoplasty, inversion of the penis to create a vagina.

    But on opening her up, they found that nerves were too close to too much pubic bone to do it safely.

    So they castrated her, then used the scrotal sac skin, penile flesh, etc. to create something that looked externally like a woman's mound, albeit the cleft was blind,

    They then buried what was left of her glans at surface level, more or less where a woman's clitoris would be,.

    So that external stimulation could bring her to orgasm.

    Though she reports, regretfully, it has to be somebody else's hand.

    Then located the urethra exit exactly where a ciswoman's would be.

    An operation of that sort may suit you both better.
     
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    M2E (male to eunuch) is a recognized category in the DSM-5, just like transgender. It's not everyone's thing but most people would think locking a penis in a cage is pretty crazy so you guys may want to refrain from casting stones in this glass house. Just because you don't understand it doesn't make someone elses desires insane. Many eunuchs and nullos only regret not having it done sooner and thought about it long and hard.
     
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    Yes, but that's not the situation here.
    It's not his desire, it's his wife's.
    It's not us who don't understand the implications, neither of them understand that their proposed solution won't give them the physical changes they think it will, and there's little evidence that they have even an awareness of the negative side effects, or of the irreversible medical and psychological changes that such an operation would result in.

    I'm all for the freedom for anyone to make informed choices, but this couple appear to be the exact opposite of well informed.
     
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    Some people have a fetish for amputees, that’s cool whatever floats their boat, but asking someone to become an amputee to fulfill that particular fetish is beyond words.
     
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    "See"
     
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    Yeah, I'm still going to throw stones here. There's nothing about this that seems like it's a good or healthy expression of either identity or sexuality.
     
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    TBH, think the OP is more of a fantasy post. If it’s for real, it’s probably his fantasy as real. Castration fetish is a real thing and a brief foray into chemical castration will sort out if it’s just a fetish or not.
     
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    If, "not ever being allowed to cum again" is the first and only concern with this idea then maybe she is on to something.
     
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    if truly submissive to your wife/Mistress or Owner u should not even think about this--DO as She wants no questions asked u have no rights other than to comply with Her wishes--i would be subject to a very severe caning where i ever to question my Owners wishes Her gay boi has directions to beat me daily before i begin my duties for the day besides maintaining the house i am often brought to the dungeon to be used by my Owners clients for whatever way they desire often they rape me both in my arse and mouth and then they will beat me with many different whips and vicious carpet beaters -a stiff 1/4 inch wire loop wrapped in leather--
    often when this is used for fifty or more lasdes i will pass out from the pain thenShe will revive me by actavating my electric piercings and penis plug
    slvdanielle
     
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    This kink can be pretty unhealthy and toxic.
     
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    Anything can be unhealthy and/or toxic. I don’t know the mindset of people who want to be a eunuch or nullo. Some folks spout off about extreme fantasies on this forum because it is an outlet. I have a hard time thinking people take drastic steps based on a few chats here.
     
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    idk, people can be pretty stupid sometimes.
     
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    My wife and I discussed it some more, we have decided to hold of for 12 months, but during that time talk to a sex counselor to make sure this is something we both 1000% into.

    As a side note, I find it interesting how people can feel that their kink is 100% ok, but as I read through some of the comments here are not even remotely accepting to another's person kink.

    Like putting ones dick in a cage, while watching their significant other get screwed by another person is totally emotionally healthy and sane but for another person to want to become a eunuch is somehow, crazy and stupid.

    Just saying were all freaks and deviants, few of the comments here seem kind a judgmental, wasn't really expecting that from this website.

    Anyway rant over, thank you to everyone who had a supportive or informative comment.
     
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