My Wife admitted her disinterest in PIV.

Rather like swinging, or women having sex with each other whilst men watch

 

Bingo! I was never that big, and after 6 kids delivered vaginally, she doesn't feel me at all anymore. She requires a large dildo to get pleasure out of penetration. So, I'll never be inside her vagina again.

 

I'm in the same boat with all of you. PIV is only a distant memory mainly due to our age and various health reasons. If aroused, i begin to cuddle with her and gently kiss her in the most submissive way I can , she tells me "you need to put something on". This means don the bondage apparel. I comply with her wishes as on very rare occasions I am allowed to orgasm after being bound for several hours. (She unlocks the vibrator and applies it to my cock cage while I'm still bound.)
Always kept in chastity, she says she like me better this way... horny, compliant and attentive to her needs and whims.

 

Not likely, everyone is different but for us it was because I was completely satisfied and wanting to add to our already heightened sex life.

 

For me yes it was, my madam had had more sexual partners than me, in fact she was my first, we started on a bdsm relationship within months of meeting each other, we used to switch often then she discovered chastity, and she became top heavy ( if you pardon the pun) I became more sub, and after some time she bought up cuckolding, I was against it at first, and for a long time, until she finally broke me down to agree,
And we have never looked back,

 

I think this is actually very common. Only about 30% of women actually get off on PIV, and this percentage diminishes with age. A husband with a chastity fetish thus creates a moral hazard.

 

my wife loves clit play.....she likes my cock just pushing an inch or so inside her pussy whilst she uses her wand which is just as well she doesn't want much more LOL

 

My wife also informed me of this
I am happy to lick her when ever she wants.
It's better this way

 

My Wife has little interest in PIV.

 

My always enjoyed oral over sexual intercourse but but never denied it. She's become more at ease and admitted intercourse does little for her. And after pestering her yesterday she snapped she's been using her shower massager

 

From own experience, penetration is more of a stake-claiming for the man than enjoyment for the woman. I would much rather have a long, varied oral where my partner puts a lot of thought and effort into giving me the best experience. Anyone with a penis can do PIV; not many can deliver a really enjoyable oral that does exactly what the woman wants exactly where she wants it - mainly because it takes effort and does not focus on the man's needs. And some 'submissive' men see their submission as a gift to women (insert a rolling-eye emoji here), rather than a way to show that they mean what they say.

 

Oh I

I am afraid to say that until my chastity and my wife' did not feel confident revealing her lack of real sexual satisfaction. Oral provides her an orgasm but she just admitted preferring our shower massager.

 

@njcuckold it does take a bit of courage to admit to your partner that you're not keen on one thing but a lot keener on something else. What if they don't like it? What if that's not what they want to do for you? But you take that chance and hope that the person you've been with for so long, who loves you (and hopefully really does), will take it the right way.

 

really enjoyable oral that does exactly what the woman wants exactly where she wants

oh, my, yes. please.

...and ive rather thought of submission as a gift She gives. : )

 

No PIV here for over 3 years and seems right, Wife deserves a real man and has taken it from time to time as She feels ready. Locked on and off since 2005 and mostly permanently now, could not be happier ts my place and full sissy maid to wife Miss K.

 

Although very enthusiastic before we adopted chastity,my KH/Wife eventually confessed on not liked PIV , which she described as " a bull crushing her..."
So now she enjoys variations of tongue,fingers and vibrator to have as frequent and comfortable orgasms as she wants!

 

And deserves.