My vanilla wife has finally accepted

A few days I had a talk with my wife about locktober and what people did during locktober (she knew nothing about it). I told her mostly men didn't cum for the whole month of oktober and that's what it was all about, I also told her I wanted to do that. She asked me why and I just told her that I kind of liked to be denied sometimes and remembered her of our first months of our relationship where she got a lot of more pleasure while I got none. At the time I hated it mostly, but in a way it was also excited and I did a lot of things to please her (non-sexual) just to hopefully get some pleasure of my own. She remembered and was a bit ashamed by it but also thought it was funny, she also enjoyed it and agreed I did not get to have a orgasm.

She asked me if I could manage this, even when she wasn't around. I told her that locktober is called locktober because of the chastity aspect of it and that I wanted to do that. She wasn't excited and it turned her down a bit. I said I just wanted to try it because I thought it would be exciting and I wanted to relive those moments we had in the beginning of our relationship. I really made a point that I really wanted to try the chastity thing, not harsh or angry, just clear. She eventually agreed to participate in locktober, and I'm really excited!

So for the men that want to do this with their vanilla wife/gf that is a bit reluctant, don't rush it (I purposed this about half a year ago as well without success). Think about why you want this in a non-kinky way and how it could benefit your relationship with your wife/gf in a non-sexual way. My wife is sexually very active so the prospect that she could have a lot more pleasure is actually something she likes, but in my experience that's very unique and should not be the main reason why you should do this.

I'm really excited and I hope this will make our relationship even stronger than it already is (I also hope I can manage a whole month in chastity haha)