My unusual road to chastity

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    A year and a half ago I knew only a little about chastity. I mean, of course I knew it existed, and had seen it many times in porn sites, but never gave it another thought. I always just basically skipped all the chastity material. I was into spanking, bondage and similar stuff though, but it was only a fantasy since I never spoke about it with my girlfriend, and never experienced it with my ex-girlfriends either.

    Anyway, 1,5 years ago we got this idea of starting onlyfans page, just for to earn some extra. I suggested BDSM-theme, as it would be a theme that’s I would be okay with (like said, never had any experience in actual BDSM, only in theory). At that time she didn’t know that I was more than okay with that theme, lol.

    So we ordered some stuff. A couple of sexy set of clothes for her. Latex hoods for both - in order to be anonymous - hand cuffs, a whip, ball gag, butt blug. And a chastity belt as we though it would be necessary in some scenarios. It was Vice, an ”unescapable” cage (no idea why we ordered that since it was obviously meant for shootings only. Maybe we though it would look more authentic or something).

    All this excited me, since eventhough my girlfriend was in this project for the extra money, I finally had an opportunity to actually try this kind of thing, with an excuse of photo shooting.

    We started the project, the aim was to first have enough material to then open an OF account. But, as one would guess, we soon realized that it takes a lot of work. Too much. And since we both have our own regular jobs, after about 5 photoshoots, we both agreed to stop the project. I wasn’t sorry one bit about the stoppage per se, but the fact that I enjoyed the shoots when I got dominated. Even though it was just an act for the camera.

    Life continuned normally for a couple of months. But, as a result from my experiences, I noticed that I had enjoyed the feeling when I was wearing a chastity cage, even though it was just like max two hours at a time. The idea behind the cage kind of became clear to me.

    I started to look chastity theme in porn sites, and then I found some chastity related forums as well, this site included. It all started to make sense, I mean the idea behind being in chastity and being dominated. At first I was excited about the idea of wearing the cage while been tied and spanked, but soon after the idea longer term chastity kind of grew on me.

    I had one problem though. My girlfriend thought that I had been okay with this stuff in the photo shoots, but not particulary interested in it in real life. So I had to overcome my fears and told what I’ve found out about me, and my, let’s say, recently awaken preferences. I did not tell all at once, but bit by bit I introduced the idea.

    It took some months to slowly proceed, since I didn’t want to scare her or made her feel that I’m pushing this and my own agenda. I proceeded constantly adding some benefits that she could get out of this. That she could decide when I was locked up and for how long (we started with a couple of days), and during that period she could ask me to do what she wants.

    Luckily she is open minded and got it rather quickly. Se wasn’t, and still isn’t, into domination or femdom per se, but very quickly started to enjoy daily massages, me making house chores etc.

    Fast forward to present, after this 1,5 year-long process, we are progressed a lot. I’m having these about 2-3 week periods of chastity (we bought HolyTrainer 5 L maybe six months ago and it feels really good). She is enjoying the situation. Femdom still doesn’t turn her on, but she also understands the name of the game. She gets her daily massages, and I mean daily; feet, shoulder, back, everything. I put lotion on her after shower. I do all the house chores (which I previously didn’t do that much). She makes me serve her. Nowdays she sometimes even makes me serve just for her amusement, which predicts that my future looks even more submissive.

    And as we have agreed, in return for me giving her total authority over me, she also gives me what I want from this. But only when she feels like it - and unfortunately she doesn’t feel like that as often as I’d like to. Some days it includes getting cuffed and ball gagged, spanking or butt plug play. And humiliation like making me serve her naked, crawl on all fours, being her footstool while she’s watching netflix, and licking her feet. Not all at one session, but sometimes this and sometimes that. For most days, it’s nothing for me.

    There are some other punishment ideas that she has said to use in the near future, but maybe I come back to those later when they actually happens. Unfortunate for me, she has also a lot of plans what I could do more. For example, she said that she’ll invite her friends for a dinner - which I will make and serve. We will not reveal our secret, and we’ve agreed that she doesn’t give me strict orders in front of others, but she still told me that her friends will be surprised how cooperative her boyfriend is.

    We have agreed that we make the rules together to make sure that we are on the same page, and after the lock clicks, she is totally in control.

    What started as my idea of me being in chastity every now and then - and she dominating me sexually during that time - ended in situation where the domination part is in minority - but instead, I daily do all house chores and serve her. Not the result I was originally planning,

    She likes her benefits a lot, so chances are that step by step my periods in chastity will be longer and longer. Also, it seems that from femdom related genres, my former vanilla girlfriend has become most interested in humiliation part, so it seems that eventhough I am definitely more into bondage, it won’t happen as much - but instead I’ll be doing more naked crawling on all fours, spit swallowing, panty sniffing and feet licking in the future.
     
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    Hello and welcome to CM. Thanks for sharing...quite the intro. I would say you have arrived in the right place among many similar experiences in the neighborhood. Hope its all positive from here for you and your relationship!
     
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    Welcome to the mansion and good luck
     
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    Welcome to our community. Enjoy.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome

    My Goddess sounds very similar to your GF. We both are loving the journey and her eyes are opening to all sorts! :)
     
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    Hello and Welcome, Enjoy your time here in the community.
    Hope your journey is fruitful and goes on and you learn a lot more.
     
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    Welcome. Hope it continues to go well for you both.
     
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    Whenever I read the line “fast forward to” I know these posts are bullshit.

    For the writer of these over the top stories, if you want to make them sound believable, stop writing them with the same use of language every time.

    Good day to you, Sir.

    I’ll enjoy reading the rest of your material when conceal your identity more thoroughly.
     
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