My try before I buy petslave ( be very careful what you wish for)

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    How it begun, there was a lull for me between Christmas 2018 and New Years 2019.. I was a bit bored sat at home on my ipad on one of the bdsm sites, just killing time reading profile etc answering messages..... I was laughing and joking with online friends too.

    He made a little mistake, he peeped at my profile and I caught my attention with his profile someone who wanted domestics, doing my chores, housework always appeals to me....I looked down his list of like and he was pretty much matched to me but one thing.... he was younger than me..... I normally am with people in my own age range. My subbie partner and soul mate is 62 older than me and my slave helots is 60 also older than me. Here I was messaging a 30 something male slave to be.

    After passing a few messages backward and forwards I did like the sound of him and what he was saying so I suggested rather than long email exchange we meet up at some point in the near future for a drink and a chat......

    TBC......
     
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    Congrats and good luck.
    It sounds like you’re doing great. May he be suitable and add to your happiness.
     
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    Thank you, I do hope he proves a suitable candidate too :)
     
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    Please keep us posted
    It’s always interesting to hear what others do
    And I’m especially in relationships where Dommes have multiple subs and relationships.
     
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    Continued...

    I told him if we got on and the chemistry was right I would give him a three month trial and he had to be in chastity, it wasn’t optional. Hence my thread title ;-).

    So I suggested we meet sooner rather than later, he was free that evening and so was I so we arranged a pub and a time. I showered and dressed and got my partner to drive me to the pub. Always best to meet someone in a public place. I texted to say I was there and he met me at the entrance to the Pub rather than having to search him out in a crowded bar. I like manners in a male and gentlemanly attitude.

    We chatted awhile and he was easy to chat to. I decided it was better to have come back to my place rather than try to chat in more depth within a busy pub environment so we left with him driving me home. I cannot drive so chauffuers always welcome.

    Once we arrive at mine rather than disturb my partner, I took him up to The Lair, my dungeon playroom he seem awestruck lol. We chatted much more relaxed about bdsm, chastity and ourselves in general in a lot more ease.

    So then I decided I would show him some of the toys in my dungeon and some CBT , so I had him strip naked. I liked his metal device and he also had a thick gauge locking PA Lock....well that lasted a few hours of what i term as ‘playing’ with my dungeon toys... but he possibly didn’t class it as playing at all. :)

    I locked him back up when he had calmed down and took the keys to put them in a safe place. I left him to sleep on the sofa bed in the dungeon and went to sleep. He left the next day with a invite back...I was free New Years Eve if he had nothing planned.
     
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    I am polyamourous... I have multi relationships I don’t try to find all I want in one male. But my partner and myself have been in a 11 years FLR but he’s Ill now. I love him dearly.
     
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    Hope he recovers quickly
     
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    He long term poorly... :(
     
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    Sorry to hear that
     
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    So sorry to hear that.....
     
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    New Years Eve..2018.

    I had spent new year at the stables with my horses riding and training them. yes males are easier to train than horses and I never use my whips on the horses.... :)

    On my way home I got a text saying he wanted to come over as he was free and would bring some rose wine. I wasn’t sure wether he would come as he hasd texted saying his friends were wanting him to go out.... but my sweet pet chose me in the end lol.... who could resist me afterall he was locked two days now. ( thank you @HenryFlower )

    New year we did lots of different things in a more relaxed way we played from 7 till almost midnight.... came down watched the London firework celebrated the New Year with a toast. Then back upstairs to continue till abut 2am lol when I ended his evening with 20 strokes of my canes boy does he mark up nicely very arousing ... I wrote I would release him in at the end of the month by trying prostrate milking.

    He’s now been locked 10 days and I am busy planing his slavery and chastity to me.... all which will be recorded here. I have done some tormenting and teasing setting seed in his mind lol. Looking forward to lots fun in 2019...
     
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    Sounds like both of Y/you are getting just what is needed out of this new relationship. Congratulations!
     
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    Sounds awesome
     
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    Congrats Ma'am
     
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    To me it makes me feel powerless when a Domme is a few steps ahead of my thinking.
    Being an ex-cop, it makes me smile that you caught him snooping around.
    And being one of servitude, it makes me smile that there are those who appreciate males prone to be of service.

    My hope is that you can make each other happy ... mostly him, you.
     
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    I am indeed :)

    Is awesome.

    Thank you
     
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    He will I am sure try his best to make me ....
     
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    First club night together,

    So Saturday evening was our 3rd meet and we were going to a club. I had asked him earlier in the week if he wanted to be my escort.. we went with some of my friends in their car.

    As we were all new to the venue we were given a guided tour. It was very big place with a lot of lovely themed rooms.. we went back down stairs and chatted and socialised a little..... before deciding to play early before the dungeon go full.

    I put in on a half moon shaped padded barrel and flogged him starting gentle and eventually harder and harder. I used several floggers. Then I toe the humbler and on all fours with his balls exposed I cropped his balls with a riding crop....finally using the dragon tail boy did he make some lovely ouches lol. Then cbt so the device was removed and then cbt spikey ball crusher with first on weight then two. It’s extremely painful. Finally he was put in a head box kneeling..... while I went to cane my 2nd subbie of the night a friend who had prearranged to meet me there. @HenryFlower was in the head box all the time I was caning the other subbie.

    They dressed and went back downstairs for buffet and more socialising. And home. All in all a good night out for our first club night together.
     
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    Brilliant journal, may I ask where you guys first started chatting?
     
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    Collarspace
     
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    Enjoyable thread to read.
     
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