Okay as of 0430 this morning device off due to oedema. That was causing extreme ball pain should have removed it yesterday need to stick to the one that works and stop changing!
When I experience ball pain or chafing from the ring, I have to wear the KTB to give the balls a break for a while. Not as fun, but very effective.
Don't hurt yourself to early in your adventure. It takes time for your body to get use to the device. You need to find Your Right Size. Everyone is different so what works for me or shadow650 may not work for you. Be patient you'll get there
I have a 3D printed plastic KTB with tons of sharp spikes inside. ALso have an older, heavy metal KTB. These are rarely used and only for discipline purposes or when my CB6ks chaffes.
All is well increased the cage ring gap to1/2 in seems to have been the problem. And if anyone wants to give my wife advice on what to do it would be appreciated I'm in for anything but scat we been together since 9th grade I'm 43 she is 45 she is just not understanding how to take it and needs someone to talk to besides me about it she thinks she's not a dom person but she is.
She is pbutterfly and new to all this including forums but a lot better at telling about herself than me
So I get home from work and wife wants sex so ok I gladly helped her out then the next night same thing then afterwards she said hope that will do you for two weeks oh well it has begun think she's starting to like this.
I think you just need to take the pressure of orgasming off of her. That may bewhat you want, but it may not be her top priority. I had the same attitude at first, but my wife just isn't into orgasms all that much. Some women are just like that. They think they are too intense, or they just feel like it takes too much effort, or it leaves them exhausted, etc. It was hard for me to learn to live with her expectations for sex after I gave up the use of my penis. She often only wants to cuddle and touch. She doesn't want to "go all the way" all the time. A lot of the time she just likes the warmth and glow of being aroused without all the drama of an orgasm. My wife is definitely not a "dom" personality. She has her moments where she revels in teasing me, but she is not dominant. Your wife probably isn't either. You really need to discuss with her what she can get from your chastity. It works so well for us because of my wife's vaginismus and anxiety when I have an erection. My erect penis means pain for her and me being locked up has made sex fun and enjoyable for her. I suspect we are an oddity. Most women don't have that problem. So you need to find out how and why she can enjoy your chastity with you.
That is what we're doing she loves orgasms just has trouble getting there was because of meds she is not taking any more so getting better for her.me I'm into pain and she can give it to me sometimes she's just having trouble getting used to this.
Think my oedema was briefs to tight changed to large and much better.reason I say this removed them it went away got home put on a pair and it was starting again so got a large no problem now haven't heard that on here so I'm telling about it.
We're talking about all of her likes and my likes and we've learned a lot and know what we're going to do now in which I'll post later.
my problem the one on the left is to small 59mmx41mm the right is a little to big 50mm so I ordered 45mm rings which is the smallest that one testicle will fit threw but works on finger test.
Went back to my first cage been wearing 24/7 since Friday no problems except ring to big going to vet wrap it when I get home. Got 45 mm coming
Still working for me got new cage coming will work better had a fun weekend with mistress lots of piv sex but no(o) maybe this weekend.that is what she said but then I told her to not tell me when anymore makes it like watching the clock which is what I do as a trucker she also gave me a little croping which she is getting better with made me want to run and hide so that is good more later and thanks to all who helped us...