My opinions on sissy's in chastity

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    #1 sissyslut222, Oct 10, 2020
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    In my humble sissy opinion.....
    Don't take this the wrong way but in my humble opinion, far too many sissy's I see in vids and pics have their dick out, stroking it like they were a real guy. I thought a sissy's job was to give pleasure to others not themselves. A sissy's sexual pleasure should be taken from out of their hands, especially if they can't be trusted not to touch it. I believe that lf you want to be called a sissy, you should be locked up in chastity, plugged 24/7 and any time you masturbate, you do it like a girl, fucking yourself with a dildo. Once you lock away that nuisance between a guy's legs, and it sinks in that their dick is no longer an option for sexual pleasure, he will quickly become an anal slut. Chastity turns guys into sissy bottoms and dirty anal sluts. It forces the mind to link fucking their tight little holes with sexual pleasure.Soon it becomes second nature to reach for his dildo whenever he needs to masturbate, as if it has always been this way. Sissy's are there to be used to please real men. Their focus should always be on the guys pleasure and their own should be nothing but an after thought or side effect of being used. The sooner he accepts his situation and the hopelessness of it all, the sooner He, becomes a She. I too was once a stubborn and selfish male. Chastity helped me to embrace being nothing more than a pair of fuck-holes guys to use. My love for anal sex these days borders on being an addiction and Ive done things i'd never dreamed of to get it. Sucking off 2 or 3 guys in a park or back-street and knowing they only wanted oral sex because simply being there with a cock in my mouth opens up the possibilities for cock in my ass. So Ladies, find yourself a guy and lock him up as soon as you can, then sit back and watch the fireworks.
    And sissies, get that fuck-hole plugged, that useless little clitty caged and learn to be happy with just a dick in your mouth. I know I am.
    In my personal opinion, All sissy's need to be caged and plugged permanently. You have seen what happens when a sissy is left to decide for themselves, they end up on video, selfishly stroking their clitty as if it was a real dick, cumming when they feel like it. A caged sissy will not be found doing any of this. Rather, you might find her begging someone to fuck her or maybe with legs over her head dribbling pre-cum into her mouth as she uses her dildo. Orgasms are not for sissies, instead they get sissygasm's if they work hard for it, always without touching their caged clitty. I believe orgasms using a vibe or wand, even with the cage still on, are still cheating and not what I think of as a "sissygasm". When I mastubate, which i do daily, I masturbate using a toy on my fuck hole to tease my limp clitty into squirting. Its all about embracing and loving the anal penetration, the sissygasm is merely an afterthought or by-product, not the end goal. I know not all sissy's will agree with this, so lock em up and watch them change their outlook. you'd be doing them a favor. lol
    Some more thoughts on Sissy Masturbation
    I know I've said it before, and I'll probably say it again, sissy's should not be playing with their dicks, stroking it like they were a real man. Even if the sissy has no Master/Mistress/Dom/Domme, the act of stroking is a masculine thing whereas a sissy is a feminine thing and should act thus. Some of the sissy's have girly bodies to die for, or are dressed in such slutty outfits, or both. Any Alpha men who find a sissy with their cock in hand should take her over the knee and spank the last drops of manhood out of the little slut, before preferably locking up their clitty. A sissy should never have her own orgasms whenever she feels like it, or if she has nobody to take control of them and wants to cum, she should do it with anal and fuck herself like a girl. And if the sissy can't sissygasm yet, all the more reason to practice.
    rant over.
     
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    Sissys (or anyone else for that matter) can do what they like with their dick unless they have a KH who consentually sets the rules. Is what others do really such a problem that you need to have a rant over it?

    If they want to lock it and not touch it - fine, if they want to play with it - fine.
     
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    its an opinion, we all have them. dont like it? don't read it. consequently, I have a key-holder who doesn't set me any rules. a sissy shouldn't play with their "dick" like a real man does.
     
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    Correct on all counts.
     
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    I agree too and also have those feelings of needing some sort of sexual release from putting toys inside of me, my nub totally closed off In its metal tube.

    I'm still to have a true sissygasm though, sigh.
     
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    I feel you gave great points on the subject of what a sissy is and how things should be performed by masterbuatring/ milking etc. But in other areas no like pleasing men. I enjoy getting pegged by my keyholder and etc and only pleasing her or another women. I feel everyone has there own views on what a sissy can or should be and to me I totally love everyone being different helps others Learn and decide if that's for them to. So thank you for sharing your thoughts on what a sissy is to you. :)
     
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    I can’t argue with that in the main, certainly I found in becoming more of an anal slut (0: though never had or tried the real thing, just dildos and Strapons, still I love being filled up.

    Certainly being @MistressS sissy I’ve done more than I ever thought I’d do so who knows what the future holds lol.
     
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    Hey, there's no one correct way to do things, unless it's what your Mistress/KH decides.

    In that case then it is indeed the correct way for you, but not necessarily for others.
     
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    I do like the concept of a sissy's clit always being locked up and not used for pleasure. But to each their own, unless their KH/Domme/Master says otherwise.
     
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    well i have seed some sissys do things i wud not be allow to but i spose that they have not got nobody to tell them no they cant do it. If you has got somebody that tell you then it up to them what you allow to do and not you.
     
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    To each his or her own... Thanks for sharing your opions. Personally i do not think sissies should be so quick to show thier dicks or clits... i understand showing pics of your devices on this site but my preference is passable or fem type pics...
     
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    In some ways I can see your point some of us are not being sissies. We are locked due to masterbating problems or adding something to boring sex life.
    I think it all comes down to control and what the leader of your relationship wants from you.
     
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    I agree with what you say and so would my keyholder! The only difference is that I am not really into guys but I still love my dildo :)
     
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    As in all things unless there is someone significant with the authority to say different .. each to their own if it affects no others.
     
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    there's no right or wrong way for any of this. We don't have a rule book to follow. Whatever works in an individual's relationship (either alone or with a SO) is up to them.
     
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    First, you have to define SISSY. There are many here that are transgender and femininity isn’t fetish for us. Some of us are disgusted and traumatized by having a penis and some of us aren’t, even though we would much prefer having a vagina (some trans women prefer leaving their genitals as they are for many various reasons though).

    There is a lot of crossover between cross dressers, sissys and trans women because many trans women often go through different phases before they actually accept or figure out who they are. There are also countless trans women that aren’t able to transition for many reasons so they enjoy their feminine side however they can.

    So don’t assume that a feminine person wearing chastity is a “sissy”. There are a LOT of people here that would permanently be female if it didn’t come with the loss of loved ones, jobs, social standing, etc.

    Id be interested to know how many here would be female if they could chose their birth or magically become female with a complete female history so that no one ever knew you existed as a male.
     
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    I read the original post and by the end of it I'm thinking, "Oh shit, grab the popcorn cause this is gonna be gud!" Turns out I was wrong, or rather right, but not in the way I thought.

    I figured this thread would be a dumpster fire of hot headed angry replies. Turns out there were a lot of nuanced, thoughtful replies. This community is amazing.
     
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    Common sense and research shows that you can’t change people’s minds if you insult them in the process. I’d rather educate and enlighten people rather than try to shut them down.
     
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    Of course, each to their own. Is just my personal, humble opinion.
     
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    The "rant" was done tongue in cheek and I did state it was only my humble opinion.
     
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    Opinions. everyone has em lol.
     
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    As someone new here this is quite offensive. It’s not your place to tell someone not to read. Plus it doesn’t make much sense. How can one know if they like something without reading it.

    So yes you’ve stated your opinion and that’s great. Many agree with you. Some however don’t. and that’s their right and it’s perfectly acceptable here.

    As you’ve seen we have a very kind community here and most of the folks are respectful. I’ve been here a very long time. And I can assure you that if you’re respectful to others you’ll be welcomed and if not you won’t be here long.

    So welcome to the forum. And personally I love your passion. And while I agree with your position I hate how you’ve been a bit less that tolerant with those who disagree with you. To me it’s not very becoming.

    As it’s not my place to tell you how to act, my point is to point out that to some of us you didn’t make a very good first impression. So I’m pointing it out as being aware can help change your actions. So hopefully you’ll see that you’re appearing to be judgmental and That’s not a good thing here.

    As for your content of your post. I agree that the preferred state of a sissy is locked up. I think their dominant should control their actions. And I agree the stuff in porn can be different than reality. I do disagree with you in that those who don’t have a dominant can do as they like. And what you and I think doesn’t matter to them.
     
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    I wouldn’t go as far as being offended. It’s someones resonant perfect definition of a “chastity sissy”. Maybe he could have been rephrased but I think it warrants more than an eye roll.
     
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