So I have been locked away with my penis is a chastity cage for 1 day 13 hours 15 minutes and the duration of the session is 2 days. I’m constantly horny with nothing I can do about it. My key holder has now just asked if I’d like to extend the session and I just don’t know why but I’m thinking yes. Yes I do want to extend.
Many prefer to let the keyholder make all the decisions without you having a say or even attempting to influence the decision. But everyone has a different dynamic and you need to do what's best for you and your keyholder. From what you've described, I think you'll benefit from giving up complete control of the key. While it won't happen immediately, not knowing when you will be released will help you stop thinking about being released (and presumably the orgasm you hope follows release). That will eventually it make you less "horny" and able to focus on things other than your penis. I know it sounds a little silly but try it.
So you think I should inform my keyholder to have full complete control? That’s quite an exciting prospect to be honest.
There was nothing better than the moment when I realized it was best when I stopped setting the "time locked" and left the decision up to my wife. I had all these challenges and personal bests in my head but when I stopped all of that and just left it up to her, chastity became real for me. So much better.
"what next time"... You need to leave that decision to her. Try not to "top from the bottom", and concentrate on showing her the benefits she will get while she keeps you locked up.
1) it's her choice, not yours. 2) if you are staging it then I recommend to her to let you double your time each lock up until she feels you can take it 24/7/365. Unlocking for her pleasure, not yours, is the only way to get the most out of this. Otherwise it's just sex play which is OK too.
My KH wants me to do a full week next. I’m think I should agree and then I guess a week will double to two weeks then 3 then a month etc..
That’s the way to go, depends on the dynamics of your relationship. Some insist of release every 2 weeks to ensure a healthy prostate, others I have met happily go 3 months.
Ease into it, but challenge yourself, too. You want it to be successful for both of you. First lockup for a week. Second lockup for a month. Third lockup for 3 months. Further lockups length at KH discretion.
It's sometimes called "prostate milking" where internal stimulation of the prostate either with a finger or toy causes the release of fluid. It does NOT include simultaneous stimulation of the penis, which causes ejaculation. They are two different things. Results seem to vary greatly from man to man. I've tried on occasions without a lot of luck. The little bit of fluid released for me kind of feels like urination in that you feel something "moving" through the urethra. Some men also report the ability to orgasm through prostate stimulation alone. It's not something I've experienced but being chaste has brought me somewhat closer.
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There is a feeling of warmth and excitement to going longer times between releases. Although it is up to your KH when. I have one rule that my KH has to follow. I get a release every 7 to 10 days if she still wants her sub happy.