Hi Today is the 14th day of being locked up, with only one day off because of being sore. Let me fill everyone in on how I came to being locked up. First of all I have a major problem with masturbating. To me and my wife that is cheating on her. Did research on how to stop and it lead to being in chastity. Well I order one off line and when it came in the mail I unpacked it and figured out how to put it on. Once on I locked it and put the keys in my pocket. When my wife got home from work and settled in, I took the keys out and handed them to her. She looked at me and asked me what they were for? That's when I confessed to her what I had been doing. First reaction from her was anger and then a hurt look in her eyes. I kept telling her it wasn't her fault but mine and that I had a solution. That's when I told her about the chastity cage and then I showed it to her. I explained to her that she had the only keys to it and she could do what she wanted with them. She took the keys and put them in her pocket, and then told me to get use to wearing that thing. That was 14 days ago, seems like a year. During this time I have had a lot of thinking to do. Maybe I rushed into this too quick. I do feel a lot better with confessing to her because I felt so guilty about it. I didn't think about things like having to pee. First time I did it sprayed all over the place. Lesson learned I have to pee sitting down now. Going to work, driving, sleeping and probably more things that I haven't encountered yet. The most positive thing is that I find myself paying more attention to my wife, whom I do love very much, serving her as much as I can. She is defiantly liking it. She has received from me 4 massages with a happy ending for her, nothing for me. Which is ok cause I deserve this treatment. I wasn't so sure that I really wanted to be caged like this but honestly as the days go by, it seems to get easier and I'm starting to like it. I guess I had better cause she is definitely not unlocking me anytime soon. In fact she ordered this 2 inch pvc shrink tubing, which is 200 gage thickness and put 3 layers of this stuff on my padlock and shrunk it down and sealed the lock up. She told me she didnt trust me not to try and pick the lock. Then she marked it with a green marker. I have to give it to her she is a lot smarter than I gave her credit for cause the thought had crossed my mind to try that. Was this voluntary or forced chastity on me. At first it was voluntary but now has turned into forced incarceration. If it keeps my wife happy and me keeping my focus on her needs and not mine, then I don't mind at all. I plan on updating this as the days go by and see how it turns out. Thanks for reading this. I would appreciate any input from ya all as this is defiantly a new life.