My new journal of my experience as a chastity lock man

hi I am kinda new i have only been 24/7

 

I am a male that came up with the idea of chastity to control my masterbating and porn watching. I did not know at the time of starting it of the other advantages like beening just a better person to mu wife and kids. It is amazing how it changes so much with your demeanor. You don't have to be a sub/sissy to wear one.

Just shy of two months ago I gave my WIFE/KEYHOLDER the keys and in that period of time she has gone to wearing them around her neck to work every were we go. Before lockup we had PIV maybe once a year sometimes less after our kids were born. Since the lock up we have not had PIV but we have had the best fingers and oral. I dont think PIV is in my future ever again not due to size but due to it goes into her pussy for 5 seconds and I unload. Widh that could change. But who needs that when she give the best hand jobs in the world.

We have on order our first set of toys a wand vibrator and strapon. At this point the strapon is for her. Don't see that in my future but if she wants wont say no.
We are leaving to go camping and a reunion this weekend so will be interested in being locked the whole time. Give update tomorrow

 

As you all know coming on to 2 months locked. Talked with KEYHOLDER and starting next Sunday at noon I will get to be unlocked till she leaves for work Monday morning. Nothing exciting to report. Except new smaller cage device showed up will go on tonight after shower. Will post pics in gallery.

 

Well I have the new device on so far being a little discomfort around the scrotum. We will see how it goes thru the nite. It is a really small cage. From start of base ring to end of cage 1.5 inch the cave is only .5 inch will be in my photo album when approved. It sure does make your balls look huge. It is hard to pee. When your balls hang pass your penis. I did the porn test hardons will be 100% internal. I think there will be a longer break in period.

 

Well i tried it made my balls turn cold and blue. It is a no go oh well.

 

My KEYHOLDER has not mentioned and or touched me in 3 weeks. Which is fine she has a very low sex drives which is one of the reasons for chastity was to stop me from masterbating between play times. I really hope we don't go back to once a year or less.
She has been KEYHOLDING for me for 2 months but she has been my wife for 23 years. Last nite was the first nite since I yelled at her that she snuggled with me. I have noticed a change in her over the lock period in normal talking she is way more willing to tell me I am wrong do this do that she is taking charge. Little be little. When we have had sex before she always was in charge during sex. But when it came to PIV I could last 3 minutes if lucky. Before lockup she would say I want you inside me. Know she has me play with her to orgasm the she gives me a vigorous hand job the she gets another orgasm. The last handjob was vigorous enough that my cum burned on the skin of my penis. I have never had that hard of a hand job before.
Time to get some house work done. Have a great day.

 

These devices really make you see things in a different way. I never realized how sexy my wife is. I have caught myself just staring at her sitting in chair sleeping. Watching her ass wiggle back and forth when she walks. Love this life it helps you feel like when you first met.

The not masterbating a couole times a day helps to with having more time. After a while you don't miss it.

 

At least you have a set schedule. My schedule is stay locked until she wants to play. Which so far is once a month. But will see. Also no PIV one i am not good at it. She really likes my tongue and I love the taste of her pussy juice.

Don't take it as i am complaining I beought this up to her. She has the keys. She is starting to.take control in more of our life. She nolonger will let me drive her car. She is starting to tell me what to do in normal life and telling me if I do it wrong as well. This is all new the last two weeks she has definitely become more controlling. I love it. This is the first time in our marriage she is saying what she is thinking. I know this sounds weird but I find it hot as hell. I think in another month I will not have much of a say at all. I noticed this last weekend when we were on a camping trip. There was alot of her telling and me doing. Also now if she has to get out of her chair for something like getting the door i get the look and the fine o guess I will do it. I need to try harder. I currently wash the clothes do the dishes help clean mow the lawn wodking on a house repair make the bed every morning cook 3/4 of the meals and she wants more i can tell. AND AGAIN I LOVE IT.
When I see the necklace on her with the key (which she wears every where) it is the hottest thing in the world.

 

when I started this 2 months ago the hardons would wake you up multiple times a night. Now I wake up to go pee once and even the morning wood is not as hard.
Well we did not have any kids last night. I thought my KEYHOLDER would want to play nope all we did was cuddle. On the first of August it will be a month with no release or orgasm. I would go forever if it makes me lovely KEYHOLDER happy. I wish I have is i could trust myself to not cheat and watch porn and masterbate without device. I wonder how many guys ever got that change out of it.

Have a great locked day

 

A few hours later on the day feel like whining. This device helps you with your duty as a partner of the relationship. But it is another to lose control of you genitals. Other than it being able to grow to the limits of the cage it is all i get. Some guys on here talk about how there KH gives them daily sessions of playtime i get it when KEYHOLDER wants and no more so far once a month but I think that will change. I have a scary feeling the next go will be months. I guess like has been said here be careful what you wish for. I told her when I put device on i would be ready when she is. I also said our sexlife is in her hands so I guess put up.or shut up.

 

My last purchase of a cage was a total failure. I did some research which took me to the cherry keeper. Read all the forums on here about the CK. I think i am going to orded it unless someone can say don't i am putting pic of the one I want. I am probably going to order.

 

This is some thing my KH is doing. For instance last nite we have a queen bed before chastity she would be on her side and complain that I took up to much bed. Since we started this adventure she had been on my half of the bed. We i say that wrong it is her bed that she allows me to share with her. Last nite I was.on my left sidewalk about 6 inches of extra bed. She snuggled right up and stayed there all nite. It made her little unit want to be hard all nite I did not get much sleep. But it was great she slept very soundly all niite.again love this life.

News on the cherry keeper i show it to the KEYHOLDER she said order.it and definitely order the pink. She knows i and not a big fan of pink. More news on that when it arrives in 1 to two weeks.

 

2 months in with two O's KEYHOLDER still wears the key around her neck which is still hot as hell.

 

Starting third month no release or O for a month. After a while ot seems that getting off is not as high of importance as it once was

 

I have a metal cage that I used to be able to fill mostly after 2 months i no longer do only 3/4of it.

I am waiting on the arrival of a new pink cherry keeper standard with medium headlock. My KEYHOLDER required me to get the pink. Should be here next week.

 

My life is slowly changing for the better. I dont yell at the kids like I did I help my wife around the house more than I ever have. This device that one can wear for a kink or to be a sissy or orgasm control or FLR. What my WIFE/KEYHOLDER has is is not a FLR what is is more equal partnership. I think it is going more she is in the lead. I started out wearing this to curb masterbating and to be sexualy ready when the wife is with her low sex drive. After one full month and counting with no orgasm I think you lose interest in it and find new things to fill it with. I dont believe I could remove the device and trust i would not go right back into porn and masterbating.

I want to say thanyou all for you help and encouragement through the beginning of this amazing journey.

 

we have been kid less at our house for the last week all my KEYHOLDER has wanted to do is cuddle. It is a little frustrating from my point of view but it is what she wants so it is what we do. Still love thos life.

 

I has been a little bit since I talked on this. It has been an interesting week. There has been no play no O just me helping my wife around ghe house more than i ever have in our long marriage. I can't believe how much chastity changes you. I am at the point I dont think I really care if we are intimate i just want to make her happy. I love the change.

 

my new cage came today feels interesting not not be able to feel any skin will keep posted can say though losing all the weight from the metal feels better so far

 

After 24 hrs doing good like the light weight of it. Control of erections is great. Not used to the no touch. KEYHOLDER loves the pink so much on me it might never come off according to her.

 

Still going good with the new device there is a little bit of getting used to the device. The weird part is with the metal ones the penis has the ability to grow thru the cage with this device it can only grow out the end. But it does help with no rubbing on underwear to the skin of the penis so it helps with extra arousal. I would give the device an A.

As far as our sex life goes we are in total denial for 45 days and counting. I may have made a mistake and mentioned the length of lock up and all I got was an OK from my KEYHOLDER.

 

Well Sunday night my KH walked by me in the living toom to me to go unlock. I went and did what I was told. She came in laid down next to me. She let me play with wonderful breasts she grabbed her pwnis gave me a hand job which was amazing. I liked and fingered her till my mouth and fingers were tired. She had me stand next to the bed she sucked her penis and rubbed her tits with it then for the first time in over a year she let me enter her. We have not had sex of that nature in a year it was heaven. Relocked this morning for the new unknown length of time.

 

Laying in bed this morning want to atleast be able to touch some of my penis. But with this new cage that is impossible. Also I think it make a difference in erections if the little Willie can't grow in circumstance as well. It makes you feel dickless. But what it does for you personality is worth the irritation and discomfort.