My lil journal

Out of curiosity how much have u guys spent on all this?the wife asked me the other day and I said about 120 but having thought about it more it's probably closer to 200 to 250 over 4 years. Mostly Chinese eBay cages. Note much to be fair. My best cage was about 20 quid and after all the recent drama I've gone back to it.

 

It ends up becoming a bit addictive. I've just ordered a Chinese cobra based on some of your posts. I have sold a few on eBay recently which felt a bit strange.

 

haha I totally agree, over the years it's not that much and if you equate it to any other sort of hobby it's not too bad. I'd love a PA but it seems scary, not sure the wife would like it and might end up making my penis feel pretty small as I didn't realise the rings need to be big for chastity.

 

Frustrating couple of days where I've had discomfort with the new cage. The ring is definitely too tight. I took it off for the one I'd worn on holiday that rubbed the base of my penis but that started again so I went back to my usual cage but even that now felt quite tight.

Had a bath last night and left the cage off after. My wife's not been well so there was no chance of any play even though I'm getting really horny again. I'll have to check but I think today is 2 weeks since my last orgasm, equalling my personal record and I don't think there will be much chance over Easter.

My wife hasn't been particularly interested in the cage lately other than mentioning it wasn't on last night when I lay in bed naked with her. Our baby was stirring so I went and sat with him and then it was time for bed. She asked if I needed the toilet (if so she'd watch the baby - we don't have a toilet on permission kink lol) and I did and also took the opportunity to lock back up.

I would have loved it of she'd brought the cage in with her and told me to lock up. I really need to talk to her and ask her to be more into this... That sounds v selfish but this is something I really feel like I need. I'm just worried she will react badly to it and reject the whole thing. Not sure what to do so will just keep on as I am and maybe next time she brings it up I'll taken the opportunity to discuss. She's mentioned it a few times and I've been shy or embarrassed so we haven't discussed.

The new 50mm ring should be here today or tomorrow so that might help.

The decorative key I've ordered has shipped from the states so might be a week or 2 and I've also ordered a Chinese cobra which will be 3 weeks.

I got a bit carried away buying bits but have sold 2 cages on eBay to mitigate the cost.

Confession: I'm writing this with a buttplug in to cheer myself up a bit!

 

New ring arrived! Very excited untill I try to use it. Really struggling to get the lock in. It stops almost at the end. Spent ages trying to get it on and succeeded. Now I'm not sure I can get it off. O dear.

 

Ps took the butt plug out after 3 hours lol

 

Lol it might be. The irony being I'm trying this cage model because it should be easier to remove when turned on than a non hinged type.

Yea it certainly takes a lot of jiggling. I'm gonna see how I sleep in it and then try and take it off. At first it wasn't pinching on the hinge but now it is so I will probably try and put some shrink tubing on it.

Is a perfectly fitting cage that I like, that my wife likes, that is aesthetically pleasing and easy to take off so much to ask for?

Maybe I should take a metal working course and make my own

 

I think if you found an open minded place you probably could work with them to make a cage. I bet some of them would be interested in getting into the market of chastity cages but maybe I'm overestimating the popularity of chastity.

My gut feeling is the kink scene has exploded in popularity in the last ten years and I think chastity is becoming popular because of the ubiquitousness of porn/sexual images being common place now.

I was really surprised that I sold 2 cages on eBay second hand and theres chastity cages on love honey and bondara now.

 

Cage update: slept fine in it, the 50mm ring is great. Was difficult to take off and it's where the barrell lock has a different circumference between the barrell and the moving part. The larger barrell part is catching on the opening of the ring so I used a drill on the ring opening and that seems to have done the trick. Much easier to lock and unlock.

Our baby is at nursery today and after my wife had a shower I started pestering her and she laughed and said she had to go out but checked I had my cage on. Her father is over tonight so no chance of play but feeling really good now this cage is working and she mentioned the cage being on.

I also think this is my longest time without an orgasm. I last came on 31st of march. My previous longest stint was 9th to the 24th ahhh so not quite. I've got a feeling we might have some play this weekend but we will have to wait and see.

I'm so full and easy to arouse that I'm probably gonna come straight away so I might have to say to her I need to cum and then maybe some piv after some other play.

 

Had a lovely Easter weekend spending time with family but also spending time as a family. Worn the cage throughout and it's been really comfortable.

Was treated Saturday night to some play after a shower. I was so horny and my wife started playing with me and teasing me. I was so desperate to give her an orgasm but she wasn't having any of it. She gave me an amazing BJ Inc starting it with the cage on. She then wanted to take it off so I showed her the little knack of removing it.

She got the barrell lock out easily which was a big relief as I was worried it would still be too tight. Then the hinged ring came off which she liked and then I was so swollen she couldn't easily get the cage off the end of my penis and she smiled saying she'd have to finish me off with it on (which was so hot). It came off easily enough and I had such a powerful orgasm. I'm so dirty preorgasm where I want her to make me eat my cum. Previously there's been so much and it shot so far I said to her I want it to shoot over my face lol. But I don't think she was really on board with that but it almost hit me anyway ( I was lying on my back and she was on her front between my legs).

As soon as i cum I no longer want to eat my cum but I just lay there in a Post orgasm glow... For want of a better word.

I don't think I had any sort of come down and am happy to restart chastity. I lay there uncaged for a bit but when I went to bed I put it back on and she watched but not sure she approves. I think she still sees this as a temporary kink and doesn't see the need to restart it.

The next day she came on her period so this is why she didn't want any pleasure in return but hopefully I can return the favour plus some more shortly. I think she just has a lot on with the baby and her family and some other stuff and I don't want to add a submissive husband to her plate.

Today I had a shower with the cage on. First time I've done this so it's been worn nonstop since Saturday night. The key is down the side of the bedside table. I think it's probably fallen down but she might have hidden it there (a boy can dream).

The key from the US should arrive next week. Tomorrow I'll put some new shrink tubing on that won't have rough edges. If this works I'll see out the week and if the cage is all good I'll ask her for a chat and formally ask her to keep the new key (if it's arrived) and be totally in control. I'll say that I will ask her for the key for washing but otherwise it is her key as is the cage and its contents!

 

Yesterday's entry I never got round to posting:

Not much to report other than the new cage set up has been the best I've ever had. Starting to get horny again now as it's been 5 days since the amazing blowjob. I thought it had been a week. My wife is on her period but I think it's coming to an end so I'm hoping I can worship her this weekend.

Today:

My wife had a rough night with the baby so when we got back from dropping him to nursery she said she was going to go back to bed and if i had time before work a cuddle would be nice. It did sound nice so we had a nice cuddle which then led to some pretty amazing sex. When I don't c for a week my ejaculations are so explosive and theres so much cum, my wife loves it and also finds it hilarious . When we finished there was just cum everywhere. I really struggle to not cum pretty quick. I tried to stop and just go down on her but she really loves PIV so demanded I go back in. I really wish I cud last as long as when I was wanking 3 times a day but she still came just as I did thankfully - I think me cumming often sends her of the edge luckily. It felt amazing and after a shower I locked back up and was only a little bit late - god bless working from home!

I think she's totally accepted the cage now and I think quite likes that I'm not masterbating and tbh I think we are having more sex than before the cage. We haven't had much kink really (I love being spanked and having my ass played with) but I am loving what we have at present.

The fancy key arrived from the states. It's nice but I'm a little underwhelmed as now i hold it i do feel like it's something I could have made. It's basically a normal key with a decorative key glued to one side and a nice heart to the other. It wasn't massively expensive though and is still nice. I was hoping it would be something really special that my wife would love and be willing to wear.

She might still be but I'll have to think of a good time to bring it up as at the moment the key to the cage just lives on our bedside table and ideally I'd not know where it is unless she's wearing it.

Sold another cage and had an eBay bud on another. She finds the idea of me selling spare cages hilarious and i said the reason people r buying them from me rather than China is that they'll get mine in 2 days. We joke that these guys need to have their cocks locked now! I still have 3 copies of my original o ring cage (I both one for each o ring size and it was v comfortable but impossible to get the ring off when I was erect , a tiny hinged padlock cage with urethral insert (I've tried it and I did quite like it tbh but don't know if I could wear it long term and without the insert I think I'd escape easily.) The o ring padlock that gives by penis a blister . It been good to have a bit of a clear out and make a little money back. I have ordered a Chinese cobra which I'm intrigued to see but the current cage is pretty much perfect for me so I probably shouldn't have but oh well.

 

Trying to post a photo but failing dismally lol

 

[/URL] Project 1 by Subhub101 on Chastity Mansion[/IMG]

 

[/URL] Project 1 by Subhub101 on Chastity Mansion[/IMG]

 

Can't work out how to post the pic so people can see the image in the thread but it does at least link to it by project 1. Was a bit dissapointed by the key I ordered so have decided to try and make my own like someone else did in here - will see if I can find the thread and relink it because his is awesome..will see how I get on when it arrives. I've ordered some files and some diamond studs as well.