My journey to FLR marriage with husband locked in chastity

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    #176 RexVa, Dec 11, 2017
    I've recently noticed evidence of a tampering attempt in my sub's device, which triggered serious consequences. @MeanBitch, have you had that happen to you in his device, and how do you conduct your inspections?
     
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    #177 mrfelix, Dec 11, 2017
    Not a question this time, just a comment.
    It's so nice to read about a true Alpha female. I am one of many who find dominant women like yourself irresistible. If your husband ever decides that he just can't take this arrangement anymore, for whatever reason, I'm sure that you would be overwhemed with men begging for a chance to step into his former position. I hope he realizes what an amazingly rare jewel he is privileged to honor.
     
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    #178 femdomfan, Dec 13, 2017
    Thrilling! Thanks and more please!
     
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    #179 CuriousMan, Dec 13, 2017
    Hi MeanBitch. I respectfully ask you since your husband is very horny all the time and you don't allow him intercourse, do you at least allow him long kissing sessions with you while being in chastity? can he grab or kiss your ass and boobs?

    Excuse my english.
     
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    #180 mrfelix, Jan 4, 2018
    Mean Bitch, you are my favorite blog.
    I always look for new posts from you.
    Tell us about your dates, what turns you on.
    Also, has you husband learned to enjoy pegging?
    Do you orgasm from pegging him, or is it just a power trip for you?
    Is he able to orgasm from it yet?
    If not, he is missing out on the few orgasms he may have with you.
     
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    #181 MeanBitch, Jan 7, 2018
    My husband did tamper when he was locked in a cage, but since I switched him to the belt I don't worry about it since the device is completely secure.
     
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    #182 MeanBitch, Jan 7, 2018
    If my husband "grabbed" my ass or boobs he would regret it, since he would be punished in addition to not being released from his belt for a long time.

    I do love my husband and enjoy cuddling and kissing. But in our relationship I call the shots. So we are intimate but he knows better than to initiate, and certainly knows never to disrespectfully grab my body or touch me without my lead.
     
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    #183 MeanBitch, Jan 7, 2018
    On dates with other men I crave excitement, new experiences and sex with a physically fit and attractive man.

    On dates with my husband I like good food and culture, but also publicly communicating my dominance in subtle (and sometimes not so subtle) ways. Going out and letting society know that I am a strong, dominant woman in a FLR is very satisfying and a fun game for me.

    My husband does not enjoy being pegged but he has gotten used to it. He does not orgasm from being pegged but he does get hard.

    I do not orgasm directly from pegging but it serves as very effective foreplay. It is a great power trip for me. It is amazing to snap on my phallus and look down at my belted husband on his knees with his head bobbing up and down as he lubricates it before I turn him around and thrust hard in his ass. It's a fantastic experience and the ultimate power trip in some ways, I highly recommend it.
     
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    #184 mrfelix, Mar 3, 2018
    Since your husband is never going to experience fucking anyone again, do you allow him to purchase sex toys?
    Would you let him fuck a fake vagina?
    Just his hand alone can get pretty dull.
    I know you said you don't watch him relieve himself, but it might be fun to watch him fucking a rubber reciprocal.
    I'm sure he would enjoy it and perform for your entertainment.
     
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    #185 mrfelix, Mar 3, 2018
    receptical
     
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    #186 filltee, Mar 3, 2018
    in the current context I can see how there could be a rubber reciprocal...
    .. just sayin..
     
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    #187 MeanBitch, Mar 10, 2018
    I have never really thought about it and he has never brought it up, but I would not object to him using some props to excite himself. He is not going to ever penetrate me or any other woman but the idea is that he pleasure himself and obtain some release when I allow it, and to look forward to that stimulation while he is locked up and well behaved. However I have not interest in watching him, frankly it disgusts me.
     
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    #188 HTullio, Mar 15, 2018
    my English is very rudimentary and I hope not to appear too judge you. I am only asking, really. So my question: do you love him? I can understand, reading your texts, that you have affection for him and you take a great effort for your family. I have the impression, reading, that he cannot live without you but you can live without him. Am I wrong?
     
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    #189 winstonmacgregor, Mar 15, 2018
    Congrats to you, you are living the dream! Have you ever tried to or considered telling your story to a popular/mainstream media source? There are so many Women who might be inspired to follow your lead and would be fulfilled by the lifestyle that you have. I still don't see why people would consider you a "mean bitch." Your the boss and your amazing.
     
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    #190 mrfelix, Mar 15, 2018
    Do you require your lesser half to orally please you analy? If so, is he allowed to request such a humbling yet exciting form of worship? Is he allowed to request any sexual situation/worship which you approve of?
     
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    #191 MeanBitch, Mar 31, 2018
    Yes I love him and we both appreciate each other and would not want to be without each other.
     
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    #192 MeanBitch, Mar 31, 2018
    Thank You. My career precludes me from speaking about my relationship publicly. ¨Mean Bitch¨ is something I have been called many times, I am not an evil woman but I am exacting and demanding. Being my subordinate is not easy.
     
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    #193 MeanBitch, Mar 31, 2018
    My husband has learned not to make requests, sexual or otherwise. One key to a successful FLR is for the woman to always be in absolute control, once the subordinate begins making requests it´s a slippery slope to a "topping from the bottom scenario". My husband has been trained to follow my lead, period. With respect to oral/anal activity that is not something that appears to me at this point.
     
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    #194 RexVa, Apr 2, 2018
    This is a lesson often forgotten by males, but over time and with training, it can be achieved, as @MeanBitch has done.

    @MeanBitch, can you share specific training methods, conditioning activities or frequent actions, besides just the "carrot" of the release, that you might regularly use on your husband?
     
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    #195 RexVa, Apr 2, 2018
    I enjoy having my sub practice submissive positions at my request (see avatar--including during inspection and punishments) at certain times.

    Do you have your husband perform positions or similar submission-enhancing activities for you on certain occasions?
     
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    #196 MeanBitch, Apr 22, 2018
    I don´t find it necessary to do those things. My husband is locked in chastity and financially dependent on me, he doesn´t need further reminders that I am in control.
     
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    #197 Joeymad, Jul 18, 2018
    @MeanBitch what role, if any do you think race place in your need to dominant him and his willingness to accept it?
     
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    #198 MeanBitch, Jul 22, 2018
    Race does not play any role in my relationship with my husband.

    However, when we are in public (or with friends or acquaintances) it is clear that I am the alpha in the relationship and it does seem to freak some people out that an African American female is dominant over a white male. I have even had some people comment on the subject. But race has never been part of the dynamic I have with my husband.
     
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    #199 Truly Tasty, Jul 23, 2018
    Fascinating blog/journal @MeanBitch
    Took me sometime to catch up, however I will be following this one.
    It's a very interesting look at the dominant point of view. I did notice with the help of your clear explanation of what you require from your spouse, a number of things that I could work at on my journey to become more subservient, and to put My Loves needs ahead of my own.
    We have not been on this journey long, however we have made quite a bit of progress, my issue is to have My Love except that I truly desire to be her subordinate. It's a slow process however I'm confident we will get there in time, I also do not want to "top from the bottom" so I patiently let Her figure out the benifits, to Her, that a FLR is what's best.
    I have, in the past been selfish, disobedient and just plain not nice. I want to change those imperfections in myself.
    Again, I will enjoy following this thread, very informative.
     
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    #200 Newboy1, Aug 13, 2018
    MeanBitch You don't talk about that first time he saw and was required to put on the belt. Just seeing that
    thing must have scared him. Since it is so encompassing, it would require a major lifestyle change. I know he is not allowed to complain, but doesn't his expression change when he is told to lock back up.
     
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