My journey to FLR marriage with husband locked in chastity

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    I agree in principle, but also believe that the physical and psychological can be mutually reinforcing. Enforcing chastity with a belt is physical, after all, and with psychological effects.
     
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    I agree that a strong, assertive woman can convince a generally non-submissive man into chastity, if she finds the right approach. Not all such men, but many. The particular approach that works depends on the individual; it's not always liberation from the burdens of responsibility. I'm not generally submissive, but have some vulnerabilities that a woman could exploit.
     
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    Thanks!
     
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    Thanks, I will keep the posts coming when I can. It helps to know if there are specific things that people are interested in or wondering about.

    You're right, I am very proud of what I have accomplished and do deserve the life I have created.
     
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    Sometimes I'm just in the mood to tease him, it's not a premeditated thing. I might just walk around nude or wearing some sexy lingerie, or brush against him. If I am in a mean mood I will tap on his belt and say something like "poor baby, all locked up."
    Thanks for your message.
     
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    I don't desire to fully feminize him, not only do I think it would be too much for him but I prefer knowing that my husband's manhood is locked up and under my control. He has been emasculated but not converted into a woman. However I do decide his clothing and his basic uniform is a pair of tight leggings, and the feminine nature of it is a good compromise.
     
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    hy not convert that to sheer pantyhose so that the chastity device is in full view?
     
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    I did unlock him, and didn't take his belt with us. We were upfront about what had happened, there was no reasonable way to pretend otherwise. What was interesting to me was that the hospital staff was completely matter of fact about what happened. I spoke to one of the ER nurses and she said that not only was this sort of injury not uncommon but that they had had men come in with objects stuck up there, basically they have seen it all and this wasn't shocking to them at all.
     
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    Have you considered whether he might repress his sexual instincts if you don't actively maintain a higher level of sensual engagements?

    Can he become immune to your sexuality if you don't change the routine or elevate your level of teasing more regularly? If so, what else would you consider doing?
     
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    Seeing that his basic uniform starts with tight leggings, could you describe the rest of it, shoes, top etc. I would think that leggings would be very feminizing.
     
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    I am interested in the results of any process of evolution in this field.

    I guess this is one such, an outfit that has crystalised over time to reflect his role, status and function.

    The fact that he probably had little or no input to that process is a bonus!

    In another such process elsewhere I hear the uniform imposed was just pantyhose, nothing else.

    Simple, practical, disposable, cheap, serves as a drip tray, but does not conceal the chastity device.
     
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    great story
     
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    "financially for life" is nonsense, those type things don't happen in the real world
     
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    not only is it the professional way for the ER staff to respond, but any moralizing is a waste of time and might endanger the patient if the patient or spouse are less than honest.
     
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    With him getting pleasure from pegging and from the additional item in his belt, hasn't all masculinity been
    removed? Does this remove some of the dominance pleasure for you?
     
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    MeanBitch: You rock.
     
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    My cruel side enjoys letting off steam by teasing him at times, but even if I didn't tease him the fact is that his sexual instincts are strong. He struggles with suppressing his sexual desires, so unfortunately for him being locked tight is extremely frustrating, and behaving so that he earns periodic releases is highly motivating.
     
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    I am an attorney. If we did divorce he would be starting from zero.

    In any case, he understands that our relationship is the best thing for him, so its a moot point.
     
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    I stripped him of his manhood long ago. For all intents and purposes he is a bitch.

    But we love each other, and his service makes my life highly pleasurable. Believe it or not, I don't primarily get off on being dominant, but rather from the results of my dominance. I am proud of having conquered him, but mainly just enjoy the fruits of my efforts.
     
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    Thanks, I appreciate it.
     
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    i am always surprised that people do not "get you" your past explanations are so cogent and I think written so that you are not talking down to these men, but still questions that have been answered. I do enjoy each time you write, I will just have to keep praying for better questions. LOL
     
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    Dear RexVa,

    This is the first time I read about lingual frenectomy, and after reading more about it I am speechless. Do you know about any mitress that made this to her sub?

     
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    Interesting you control his uniform by leggings do you mean male leggings or female? Does he wear them outside too? Does he dress more vanilla in public?
     
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    For just a show of dominance, have you ever marked your bitch by urinating on him?
     
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