My journey to FLR marriage with husband locked in chastity

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    #226 MeanBitch, Sep 29, 2018
    LOL! That is funny. I met her once at an event. She has a formidable presence but I think I am actually meaner!
     
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    #227 MeanBitch, Sep 29, 2018
    Nothing specific, the reality is he is a good boy, but I saw the attachment advertised and it appealed to me for obvious reasons.
     
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    #228 MeanBitch, Sep 29, 2018
    Thanks. A lot of people spend their life complaining but if something isn't woking in your life it's up to you to take the initiative to change things for the better.
     
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    #229 MeanBitch, Sep 29, 2018
    I don't go out looking for men to have sex with, I have a few select men that I see semi-regularly and very occasionally I meet someone through work or at a social function.

    I exclusively date alpha men, and the dynamic is that we are both sexually aggressive with each other. I absolutely do not accept a submissive role at any time which should answer your question about swallowing.
     
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    #230 MeanBitch, Sep 29, 2018
    Thank You.

    My husband is still relatively young, educated, employable and healthy. Certain aspects of our relationship are hard for him they way certain aspects are hard for anyone in any relationship, but he has freely and happily accepted that ours will be a FLR.

    This blog is focused on chastity and discipline since that is the theme of this website. It's ignorant for someone to read this thread and conclude that being in chastity under my direction is the only important aspect of our marriage. We love and care for each other, complement each other and enjoy each other's company. I am in total control but it is a mutually beneficial relationship.
     
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    #231 Unlucky, Sep 30, 2018
    Don't compare your abuse to the issues a normal relationship have.
     
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    #232 AprilC, Sep 30, 2018
    that seems harsh and unfair to her and her relationship
     
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    #233 Unlucky, Sep 30, 2018
    You know what is harsh and unfair to her husband? Telling him that she wants a divorce or he needs to submit to her rather than helping him get professional help for what was a textbook case of depression.

    MeanBitch's husband needs to see a therapist and a divorce attorney. The former would help him work through his problems while the latter would set him up financially for life.
     
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    #234 filltee, Sep 30, 2018
    @Unlucky you seemveryupset about MeanBitch's relationship with her husband which does appear to be one in which both parties are comfortable with both their lives and their self chosen rspective roles. I was wondering why.
     
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    #235 Unlucky, Sep 30, 2018
    Are you seriously asking why spousal abuse pisses me off? Maybe because I'm not a piece of shit?
     
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    #236 AprilC, Sep 30, 2018
    you can make your point without feces reference and it will be more effective--the imagery is kind of gross. Society is becoming so crude, when comes to communication. Sorry to be so critical
     
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    #237 filltee, Oct 1, 2018
    I have no objection to the way you said it.

    But as their dynamic is mutually consensual it's not really abuse no is it?

    As for you being a piece of feaces or not... how are we supposed to know either way? ... and to be frank why should any of us care whether you are or not.
     
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    #238 MeanBitch, Oct 28, 2018
    I'm not sure how you are able to diagnose a psychological condition on the basis of my posts. My husband doesn't suffer from depression, he suffers from laziness and weakness. I am familiar with clinical depression and he does now show any evidence of that condition. There are aspects of our marriage that are hard on him but he would be the first to tell you that our FLR is the best thing for him overall.

    With respect to a divorce setting him up for life: I am a partner at a major law firm so I can assure you that we executed both a pre-nup and a post-nup which prevent the scenario that you are suggesting.

    I'm sorry that my taking control of my marriage disturbs you, but for now I'm going to have my husband (securely locked in his belt) kneel down between my legs and pleasure me with his very talented tongue.
     
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    #239 AprilC, Oct 28, 2018
    Hey girl, I am sorry if my defense of you sparked more grief for you--April
     
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    #240 Joey love, Oct 28, 2018
    I think we need to hit the reset button here.
    I enjoy reading how other people live their lives. Some I would like to aspire to and some not so much. If I don’t like what I’m reading I just move on.
     
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    #241 AprilC, Oct 28, 2018
    of course, your are right, MeanBitch is one of the most interesting and honest people i have seen on here
     
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    #242 Bonobo, Oct 28, 2018
    Most of us would love to experience the level of control she exhibits. He is free to leave at any time.
     
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    #243 mrfelix, Oct 31, 2018
    Hello MeanBitch, I'm sorry your blog got hijacked by a hater. Hopefully that's over. Back to You, and your FLR.
    I was wondering how you like the neo steel belt you are currently implementing? Has your husband fully accepted its permanence? Does he ever voice complaints? Do you have any changes you would make to it? Do you remove it to peg your husband? Have you considered other cages? Do you reccomend the neo steel for other subs?
    Thank you, I am a big fan of your blog and would love to hear of some personal situations and exchanges between you and your husband. When you arrive home, till you drop off to sleep, how do you make use of your sub? How does your daily dynamic play out?
    I understand that this may be a bit intrusive, if so I apologize.
     
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    #244 mrfelix, Nov 2, 2018
    Does your husband ever cry when you peg him? An emotional release?
     
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    #245 hardbodysub, Nov 6, 2018
    This is pretty damn awesome, IMO. Captures the idea that what proves she is really in control is that there's something he doesn't really like. Everything about this post excites me.
     
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    #246 SubSnuggler, Nov 7, 2018
    Meanbitch seems to be like a comet, she disappears for a long time and all of a sudden -BOOM- she lights up the whole place for a day and then zooms back into space again.

    I have to admit those days when the flare is visible are pretty awesome. As with many things you read in this world you wonder how much is true -and your imagination tries to fill in the blanks- but it sure is fascinating.
     
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    #247 MeanBitch, Nov 17, 2018
    I've covered all of this before. Bottom line, the neosteel is very effective. Our marriage is actually pretty normal .
     
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    #248 MeanBitch, Nov 17, 2018
    He doesn't cry when I peg him (which isn't that frequent) in fact he is quiet stoic about enduring it.

    The first time that I pegged him with a new, larger phallus I got carried away and he did cry, but that was from pain. We had to visit the emergency room , unfortunately.
     
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    #249 RexVa, Nov 19, 2018
    Given his predictable weekly releases from his Neosteel--aside from rare changes in that routine--in the absence of punishments or demerits, have you noticed any decrease in his enthusiasm to serve you and be at your 'beck and call' as required?

    In those arrangements, I found that more instances of back-talk, whining, slower responses--or worse-- do occur. Which methods do you use to reinforce your authority and increase your demands, how regularly, and do you consult with other FLR/discipline experts to share suggestions and ideas for his improved submissive performance?

    (Here's Ingrid Bellemare method, though it would not truly correspond to your arrangement type, but thought you might be curious to read since she could be considered the original @MeanBitch ;) :

    https://archive.org/stream/OwningAn...ndTrainingAMaleSlave-IngridBellemare_djvu.txt
     
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