Hello All, Im Duchess, Domme, partner, lover and friend to valsboy. My boy found this site and I must say it seems to have a very relaxed atmosphere with some open and honest people. I am new to forums, only reading what he has shown me. He definitely has been the more kinkier one. But I am discovering my dominant side and have gradually developed over the past two years of our relationship. I have recently gained control after we had a long conversation of what we both wanted - he wanted to be my sub and I wanted control by locking him back up. After previously playing a lot with role play I have decided to take this to the next level and introduce control of him into our day to day life. There are children in our lives and we live separately. We will see where this takes us. I suspected a certain somebody was topping from the bottom but we have now classed it as guiding me til true dominance fully takes over. We have a loving relationship that grows day by day and this is just a part of our complex life. He fulfils me in so many ways. I will share my experiences and thoughts and welcome guidance from others and look forward to talking to you.