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    Never posted an intro but have been reading a lot.

    Hello everyone!
    I brought chastity up to my wife because I’m into BDSM and thought it would be fun. I’m defiantly submissive but not in a cross dressing or sissy kind of way. I just really like bondage and giving someone else control. She has not taken so much to the keyholder role as I would have liked. She says it can be too much trouble having to unlock and then have sex. She also wants me to initiate sex more often, but I have never really been the initiating type. I have tried explaining that when I do masterbate and that has caused me not to be able get hard for her. So I took this as a reason for her to try and enforce it a little better, but it never really took. So I have been here looking for guidance and experience to try and accommodate my needs and hers.
    So far I have learn to try not to top from the bottom and let her kind of go with it. However, it tends to be a locked and forget experience. I told her the more teasing and things like that make it interesting but still hasn’t fully caught on. Plus with some family and our own issues occurring time to time bringing this kind of thing up isn’t the easiest to navigate through.
    So any advice or encouragements would be appreciated! I hope to post a few other things in categories soon.
     
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    Good luck to you both. Welcome aboard.
     
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    Welcome to the mansion
     
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    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Hi I can sympathise! Life always seems to get in the way, I love being locked and at my wife’s mercy but we seldom have time alone to fully enjoy this lifestyle, I’d love a chat sometime if you’d be interested
     
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