Well, I am adding my first thread. This is all new to me. Have kept my guy in chastity for around a year now and have read the threads posted but never took the time to make my own profile and join the website. So today is a new day! I have enjoyed very much teasing and taunting my sub during the past year. He gets sooooo horny that his cage just oozes and drips and I know he wants out but this is for his own good! I'm getting better at getting away from my codependent ways and not feeling sorry for him when he's locked in. He has a bit of trouble adjusting to being locked up after he has been relesaed and allowed to cum. Maybe I just shouldn't release him anymore. Poor sweet little thing!
Goddess, Welcome to the mansion - where chastity is routine (for male subs and sissies). No feeling sorry but please elaborate on how you control him. Aline:cat:
Hello All! Thank you! In response to Aline's question, so far I haven't honestly done that well controlling my sub. That's one of the main reasons I am here. He desires to be a good sub, but I am codependent and have not much willpower. If he begs on certain days when I am not strong, I will release him. I need some motivation to stay firm and hold my ground. I was hoping from inspiration and motivation from some of the senior members who have been at this awhile, or who are just not codependent, LOL! :sign0144: Since my sub is ADD, I have lately been assigning a to do list at the beginning of each week. If the list is completed, my sub is rewarded with strap on time!:smilies_xxx06: He is such a sissy that this is usually a very motivational reward for him, however on the times that he fails to complete his list, I have so far only been able to offer whippings :spankwhip:which do not always seem to renew his motivation. Does anybody have ideas or suggestions? :confused0082:
with respect Goddess// tease and denial sessions pretty much overload my batteries with urges to submit to my Goddess needs. the more i do:chores003:, the more play time Goddess has with me. worst thing Goddess could do is ignore me. leaving me locked up with no attention would be a total bummer.:sad0064:
:welcome: to the Mansion Goddess Chris. I'm terrible with will power too! You might want to try something like the marble game, I found that kept me focused.
hello there Goddess Chris! ::curtsey:: welcome to the only site i know of with such good, focused people on it!
Welcome, Goddess Chris. I know you will find many informative forums and helpful people here. Enjoy your stay.
Thank you Mistress Watchful! I will certainly have a look at the Marble Game and hopefully give it a try soon! Don't worry happypants....I would never ignore my sub. He is the love of my life and I make sure he is well taken care of! Thanks everybody for your input! I'm excited to be here!
:welcome: fellow Goddess!!!! It's so nice to have you here. I hold happypants' key, and with some work he's turning into a lovely sub. Please feel free to PM me anytime! You're going to love it here. xo
It's your choice if/when you release him! What sort of cb do you have him in? If you're wanting to 'tighten up' there are some very secure steel devices around.... LOL
My sub has a CB3000. The quality of the cage is not an issue. He couldn't wear a steel cage anyway due to his employment. (He has to pass through metal detectors.) The security problem we have is strictly due to my lack of willpower. I'm slowly building up willpower though. He recently spent 40 days in the cage which is the longest we have ever gone. The purchase of some new toys for me and some tongue training for him has made his lockup time much more tolerable. I'm inspired to start leaving him in his sweet little pink cage longer and longer! LOL!enisdance::licking:
Welcome Goddess, Might I suggest a little humiliation be added to your conditioning. It can do wonders to remind him of his place in your life.