My desire is not to break the sub but to have them grow in their submission

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  1. Lust Moments
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    Lust Moments I do creative chastity

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    To Seduce - not manipulate

    To Control - not dictate

    To Discipline (correct) - not punish (retaliate)

    To Excite them in the endurance of pain - not inflict pain for damage or to break them.

    To Free them spiritually - not trap them in their own emotional limitations.

    To Take because they desire to give - not because they have no other choice but because they want no other choice.

    To Love unconditionally flaws and all just as they are but loving them enough to push them beyond their own limitations to become more.

    ** got it from another site **
     
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    Thanks for posting this. I think it sums many in the lifestyle
     
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    yes good list, which I could endorse other than the "endurance of pain" bit. I'm not interested in that at all.
     
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    Submissive_Michelle Good Sissies wear Skirts and high heels

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    Me neither I broke Michelle in over a long period starting with her chastity cage and painted toes.
    She could remove her cage for a day each week if she maintained her painted toes.
    For this day she was allowed to masturbate in private or at least I did not enforce her chastity on her day off.
    I gradually allowed her an extra day for wearing a skirt for 3 or more days while at home.
    Over a period of a year she was kept in a skirt almost 6 days a week and soon to be wearing high heels too.
    After about a year of this regime skirts / heels / painted toes and a chastity cage were here norm.
    All I needed then was to stop her days off and enforce her chastity.
    She now is almost fully broken into being my house girl and funnily enough she even accepts her enforced chastity. Well she has little choice actually as I now allow her a masturbation day once a month which we call her period however she must masturbate in from of me and then back in her cage for another month.
    Its cute seeing her erect in a skirt which is a good job she is kept caged as erctions and her short skirt are not really compatible with her feminine status.

    Sara
     
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    Sounds like you nailed it. great MO, I envy you two
     
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    Submissive_Michelle Good Sissies wear Skirts and high heels

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    It wasn't that difficult to get Michelle into womens clothes as I was acutely aware she has transvestite tendencies and this excited her. Therefore I knew that getting her to wear female clothes would be quite easy however for her came a little shock that was not apparent to her during my acceptance / encouragement of allowing her to dress as a girl.
    The shock was when she eventually realised that the sexual excitement of wearing female clothes could no longer result in her pleasuring herself while fantasising about being a girl. She was now in chastity and dressed to excite however no way to relieve herself, so this reinforced her chaste status and increased my control as she was now more sexually frustrated. So the aim was not to feminise her but to use her own fetish to control her.
    As such she is putty in my hands while caged and heeled.

    Sara
     
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    That's exactly how it has been for me. Step by step my wife has increased her dominance and my submission (and feminization) leading me inexorably to where she knows I always have wanted to go.
     
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    Thanks für posting those wise lines!

    For me it sums up a lot of what makes me kind of dislike being called Sissy, as I don't intend to be worthless, pathetic, trained (I may only be a one-trick-Pony!), destroyed (not even partially) disrespected, humiliated or disgraced!

    Of course I am very thankful (and proud) for the guidance and education I have been given, but in the end I still want to keep on singing: "I am what I am..." ;)
     
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    if I could look as good as you do I would move to somewhere and become a "sissy" too.
    you do look great.
     
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    thanks a lot for being sweet, but i think i just typed about not automatically becoming a Sissy! o_O
     
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    Beautiful words. Sums up the lifestyle of serving a Goddess perfectly. Thank you for posting.
     
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    yes, very nice text
     
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    The "slippery slope", gradual process is very effective and the thought of this happening is both erotic and frightening.
     
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    Loving this. Like a fly in a pitcher plant, not completely aware of what's happening until it's too late.
     
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    Submissive_Michelle Good Sissies wear Skirts and high heels

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    I would say that Michelle is not a sissy but a castrated transvestite now I have her in almost permanent enforced chastity. I have used her fetish to my advantage and her own submission. She gets what she wished for .. to dress as a girl but at the forfeit of her ability to masturbate. I now have a very horny but castrated and frustrated trans husband.

    Sara
     
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    An update on Michelle's submission. As she has been wearing her high heels now for almost 2 years full time at home i noticed that she is now walking on her tip toes when barefoot. I asked her why she is walking like this and she replied that its now painful to walk without her heels raised and that the front instep hurts if she does not raise her heel. She also says her Achilles tendon feels very tight and restricts her putting her feet flat without some discomfort. She apparently now must wear a 3" plus heel in order to be comfortable. We are not sure if this is a permanent disability she has been afflicted with but it is enabling her to accept walking out in high heels more often without much concern for what others think. She now has some wedge heel boots that she wears out mostly during the day. However when at home she puts her strappy sandals on without any pressure from me anymore. I am lucky that I don't wear high heels every day and have not been disfigured by them like Mich. Still she is the sub and I am her mistress.
    She now walks mostly like a woman talking smaller steps too. It appears that her feminisation is working and she is now experiencing what many women have had to endure and the associated pain. welcome to woman hood.
     
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    True feminization is when you've forgotten what it was to be a man -- and never want to be again.
     
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    Michelle is lucky to have a Mistress like you guiding her as she is further feminized
     
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