My (blowjob) dilemma.....

Like most guys, I Love blowjobs! I am currently in my cage 24/7. It only comes off when my wife wants some pleasure (she loves PIV). But she does enjoy teasing me, as well as letting me cum.

Recently she decided to see how much I could take. Last weekend, she started giving me a blowjob every night, but told me I could not cum. As per usual, I get 15 minutes of attention from her sweet mouth on my cock. And she is soooo very good and knows just what I like!

So again last night she comes to bed and says, "Would you like your blowjob tonight?" She knows I never turn this offer down. "Go take off your cage." I did, washed my cock and was quickly sitting on the edge of the bed, her sitting between my legs. Before taking me in her mouth, she said, "No cumming."

About 10 minutes in, I felt the urge to cum building. This was the 5th night in a row for receiving a blowjob and I have not cum in a couple of weeks. I told her that she better slow down as I might not be able to stop. She paused and looked at me, "Do you want to cum?" "You can cum, but you won't get any more blowjobs for a while." I thought for a second, and said no, I don't want to cum tonight. She slowed down her attention, and my 15 minutes expired. "OK, get your cage back on."

So this is my dilemma, I can receive a wonderful blowjob every night from my gorgeous and sexy little wife for the next several days, or a week or 2 weeks.... But, I do not get to cum as part of the deal. I know at some point, I will give in and ask to cum. But for now I plan to let this run as long as I can.

What would you do?

 

Thank you. She is having fun with it! I can see it in her eyes and her smile when she say, "OK, enough of that, time to put the cage back on." She will often giggle after making such a statement.

I know I am lucky! I just have to decide how long I can endure her exquisite torment.

 

Thanks for all the advise. I made it through another session last night. She did not want any pleasuring from me. She just said, "If you want a blowjob, get your cage off."

Of course I quickly complied and cleaned myself in preparation for her attention. She gave me a wonderful 15 minutes of pure pleasure. Once time ran out, she sat back with a puzzled look. She was a little surprised that she had not pushed me over the edge. I told her that I was making an effort to not cum, and maybe it was because I had worked out quit hard last night before bed.

Maybe I can resist again tonight, but as I told her, I can feel myself starting to lose control. But she was still a little miffed that I did not cum, and she told me to get back in my cage.

I have a sneaking suspicion that this game will be held against me in the near future. I can hear her saying, "Well, you didn't need to cum when I was giving you a blowjob every night for over a week. I guess you just don't need to cum all that often, do you?"

 

I thought I would post a quick update. Thursday night she was tired, she came to bed and gave my balls a minute of attention before rolling over and going to sleep. Needless to say, my cage grew very tight and it took me a little while before I could get to sleep.

Friday night was different. We stayed in and watch a movie. We were both lying naked on the couch and she basically spent 2 hours teasing me in my cage. Getting me hard, then letting me relax, then getting me hard again.... I spent a good deal of time teasing her, but I was no match for her.

Then we went to bed and she wanted to have sex and told me to take the cage off. We made love and I think I took out some of my frustration on her. It was not tender and slow sex, I was on top and was pounding her hard and fast until she came. She came hard, and it lasted quite a while.

Then she told me to get off and clean up for my blowjob. She did not seem interested in pushing me over the edge last night. She just slowly sucked and stroked my cock, keeping me very hard but not letting me get close to the edge. And when my 15 minutes were up, she sat back and smiled. "Aw, no orgasm for you. I guess you better get back in your cage." We went to bed and I cuddled up to her, my cock straining in the cage as we fell asleep.

 

Thanks for the replies.

No fun for me Saturday night. We got home quite late and went to be with no play.

Sunday morning, she did tell me to remove the cage for a blowjob. She has been giving me Sunday morning blowjobs for over 15 years. Prior to starting chastity play, she would always suck me off before she left for church. I think it always made her feel naughty being at church, and knowing my cock was very recently in her mouth and my cum was in her stomach.

But no orgasm for me Sunday morning, just a nice slow, wonderful blowjob. She did have me close to the edge a few times, but knowing the signs, she slowed down and let the urge subside. It was wonderfully frustrating! When my 15 minutes was up, she sat back and smiled. "OK, go put him away." And soon I was back in my cage.

Sunday night we were lying in bed making out and I asked if she would like her pussy licked. She said yes and I spun around and went down on her. While I pleasured her, she played with my balls and shaft behind the cage. I was very turned on and erect as I can be in the cage. After she came, we were laying together, she continued to tease me in the cage. She asked herself aloud, "What should I do with you? Leave you in your cage with no relief or let you out for some intercourse, but no cumming?" I didn't say a word, trying not to influence her decision. (I try to let her make all the decisions regarding my pleasure unless she asks what I want) She continued to tease me for several more minutes before kissing me and saying, "Let's just go to sleep." And as much as I would have loved to have been released to enjoy her sweet pussy, I was OK with her decision.

 

Thanks, Luckily for me, my wife loves PIV and loves me finishing in her. She cums hardest from PIV and I don't think that will ever go away. As for me finishing inside her, who knows? I do and always have had plenty of stamina as far as not cumming until a woman had cum first. In some respect, it is sometimes a little hard for me to reach orgasm. Now that I am locked 24/7, and with teasing and extended denial, that may change. I may get to where I cannot control it any longer. I hope that does not turn out to be the case. Time will tell.

And she has lots of room to grow in the All about Her category. That may also change our dynamic in time.