MWM wanting to be locked

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    I want to be locked by my wife but she won't think about playing. Does anyone have any ideas how I can convince her?
     
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    Keep talking to her. If she's genuinely not interested you won't convince her, but talking is the only way.

    Remember this is your fantasy, not hers. So she might be freaked out at first. She might not understand. What does she get out of it? What does she have to do? What's it all about? She probably doesn't understand fully what's in your mind.

    Good luck to you both
     
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    This is how it was for me to begin with. Years I tried to slowly introduce my wild side to my wife. I’d tell her during sex. She’d pass it off as dirty talk. I tried to explain over texting. Nothing. When I’d bring up my lifelong desire to be a cuckold, she took it as some sort of trick for me to sleep with other women. She just didn’t get it. So I had the up the ante. I started putting graphic porn on the big screen in our room. I started buying her sluttier outfits, bigger dildos, and then finally I just bought myself a cage lol. Now, fair warning, these sort of actions can and have back fired, but after 10 years, what is she going to do, leave me hah.

    Even with me making these a little less subtle, it still took a long time to even convince her I was into it with good intentions.

    Women peak sexually much later than men, and my wife is now 36 , so perhaps she is just gearing up for her sexual peak, I’m not sure. Every situation is different. All you can do is try, and try some more.

    Does she have any fetishes that perhaps you both can enjoy as well, even up the score a bit?

    Good luck to you and your eventual KH
     
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