New here. Came to chastity due to wanting to masturbate less. Most of what is written on male chastity seems to revolve around kink, femdom, tease and denial etc. Which. . . . I think is great and imagine aspiring to one day. However, I just wanted to decrease masturbation. Not stop. I think an orgasm from time to time is healthy and if I go more than a month I get a bit testy. Wife and I have not had sex in years. She seems uninterested and I finally concluded, maybe it's me. Maybe my masturbation habit saps me of the sexual strength I should be focusing on her. But I really LOVE to masturbate! So I bought a cage. A plastic one which fit well and I found it very comfortable. Within 2 weeks I was able to wear it round the clock. But what to do with the keys and what to do if wife noticed it? I bought a lock box with a timer and that is working well. I know my vulnerable times and if hours before those times. . . when will still strong, I set the lock box for hours AFTER the vulnerable times then the urge usually passes. I went four weeks recently 24/7 except for hygiene. So what if wife notices it? Well so far she seems to be enjoying the extra attention I am giving her and I noticed recently that she had bought some lube (I noticed it in her bathroom closet). So if she notices it. . . . what the hell, I'm going to come clean and tell her this whole story. What do I have to lose. Anyway, I like the man that chastity is making me and recently ordered a custom Mature Metal Jailbird. That was three weeks ago and they can take up to eight weeks for delivery so. . . .more waiting. There is some REALLY good stuff on this site and also stuff that. . . well, not for me. But I hope to be able to ask questions and get advice from those more experienced. So four weeks is my record. Today makes 24 hours after a masturbation session yesterday. What a HUGE volume of cum after no orgasm in a month!!