A submissive faced with the fact of going to be locked for the next four months without orgasm,only monthly prostate milkings, either from the perspective of a Dominant or submissive, what would you suggest for making his experience most maddening as for the way and timing of teasing is concerned? Assuming he is going to have two teasing sessions per week: 1) absolutely no teasing 2) 2 times a week teasing,but caged 3) first week 2 times caged,second week one caged and one uncaged ( repeating this pattern the rest of the time) 4) 2 times a week , uncaged and endlesly edged 5) 2 times a week, uncaged , but super soft,super slow,super spaced movement, never reaching edge
That's a lot of boundaries for a kh. In my opinion, less is more. Keep it simple. The more "rules" diagrams, bells and whistles there are, the more it just seems like a chore to do. No it's supposed to lightly get to edge, no it's only supposed to be 10 minutes, we have 5 minutes to go, this is worth so many points and that deducts points and we will sit and do math together later to find out when I get to unlock. Too much. Tease or don't, let her decide when, how long, and how often, and just maybe she will actually have fun doing it. Hey, just me. If I brought her a "plan" on how and when to turn me on, she would quite literally tell me to shove it up my ass lol!
I agree with above comment regarding the amount and type of teasing. It should be totally up to the kh. That is the most maddening to me, not knowing what to expect!
I find that most of these threads end up being fantasy scenarios that the guys can read over and over and get all excited about. If you want your chastity to be a two way street then having things so regulated is more a chore than enjoyment for your keyholder. If you know everything that is going to happen then the keyholder has no control. Unpredictability is key in ensuring I am the on in control I find.
In my case, my wife,her/mine masseuse and a Dominatrix are involved in my chastity and we have two to three "seasons" a year,during which rules change and can be totally random ( as you suggest) or completely fixed or a mix. In this way we never get bored and I"m always horny. Yes,like this time, the scenario is the masseuse getting clear instructions from my wife on what to do to me the next four months.
Last season ( january to june) was using the dice app of the iPhone set on 4 dice. Two on the top meant if I got out of the cage Two on the bottom meant ejaculation If the numbers met,the beneficial outcome was chosen Only 4 possible outcomes: 1) uncaged and ejaculation 2) uncaged without ejaculation,just teasing 3) caged with ejaculation,ie prostate milking 4) caged and teased Just for example the odds for outcome 1) are one in 36 tosses In this six months I was lucky to get it twice. So my KH/ wife left my destiny in hands of the dice for six months,lol
As you know by now, so do I. I think sometimes we need to call Shenanigans on obvious fantasy posts. There are many guys who post things that are more masturbation fodder than truth. Here is a true story that proved to me that many, if not most posters living their sex lives online in many fetish forums. Guy posts that his wife made him dress like a maid and wear a chastity cage while serving dinner to all of his friends, family and neighbors who were invited by his wife. If that was not stretching the boundaries of reality, he also said that they all took turns urinating on him, even his parents. To my amusement ever reply was congratulatory with no one questioning his veracity. It was then that it struck me that many sex sites are mostly guys living their sex lives online and interacting with each other in their fantasy sex world. For all anyone knows I can be a 15 year old boy who never even kissed a girl.
Sounds like you are trying to either top from the bottom, or this is w**k fodder. Maybe see Mistress Lucy's videos on what happens to naughty boys!
Kettle to pot - you're black too! Sounds like an admission to me. My faith in the poly triad is shaken.
Yes índeed,not trying,topping from the bottom,but fortunately less every day. It has been years of pursuing and building a chastity lifestyle,it has not been easy,but patience brings rewards. It is just a different approach,but believe me please,I'm totally convinced and delighted with chastity and live it intensily!! PD not a single post has been fantasy, all real life experiences.
The reality is that once you are effectively locked, the KH makes the rules. Reality never meets fantasy. Initially that is going to suck. But if you are truly submissive, you will find that reality is better. Relax and let her guide you as she sees fit. If you love her and wish to submit and make her happy, that's what you will do. Cause that's what submission is all about.