Morning glory causing pain

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    Hi all,

    having a weird issue where every morning so far, now on my 3rd morning while locked (I’m still very new to locked life) and the bottom of my balls around the ring is painful as my cage is a little too big so when I start to get erect it pushes the ring into my balls but the pain is where my balls are at the bottom of the ring,

    i can’t get a new cage just yet but plan too when I get paid any tips for the mean time, or does anyone else know what may be causing the issue ?
    Thanks !!
     
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    Is it a hinged ring or full circle? Sometimes the joint causes irritation.
    Think you pretty much summed up the issue yourself though.
     
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    It’s a full ring, and yeah I know I need to get a smaller cage for sure I’m hoping this will help!
     
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    It may help to lube your balls where they meet the bottom of the ring the night before. That's part of my routine, everything can move more easily which helps greatly to ease morning wood effects. I have a tiny cage, much smaller than my flaccid length, but I still get erection attempts early mornings!
     
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    Oooh okay I hadn’t thought of that, what lube do you use ?
     
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    Is the pain inside your sack or a burning sensation on the skin? It can be friction/stretching the skin or it can be loose skin folding and getting pinched. For these issues using lube can help.
    If the pain/discomfort is inside like your tubes/blood vessels are getting stretched then you can use a belt/cord to keep the ring closer to your body.
     
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    Hi thanks definitely more a burning on the outside, is there any lube you would suggest?
     
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    I think you answered your own question there! I found a good moisturiser is better than a lube, but it’s down to your skin type what works for you.
     
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    I found coconut oil worked great to alleviate the burning sensation behind the balls.
     
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    Oooh thanks for the recommendation, will have a look online cheers :)
     
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    Any kind of skin moisturiser should be ok. Coconut oil as suggested by @JaySaysYes is good. Some people use Vaseline but I find that a bit greasy. Use what works for you!
     
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    Here's some tips, when you feel a nighttime erection starting, try to point everything downwards and then lay on your front to hold it in position, it will tell your body to stop the erection. If it's already too stiff to go the full 180 degrees, just push it down as far as you can.

    Another trick is to get up and pee, that usually deflates things.

    Another idea is to wear tight fitting underwear to bed as this will help keep the cage against your body.
     
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    Thanks since being locked I’ve been wearing a tight jockstap as it’s feels better to keep things in place and I did try peeing but as soon as juked back into bed the boner came back

    thanks for the downward tip I’ll try that out next time !
     
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    I'd recommend raw Shea butter over anything petroleum based.
    It's a nut oil that is really human skin-compatible.
    Provides for nice slipping around in a cage.
     
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    Thanks for this. I have had a similar problem the last two nights. Yesterday I put aquaphor at the underside of the ring and that helped. This morning I woke up with the same burning on the underside. I noticed I couldn't get the base ring back close enough to my body, no matter how hard I pulled my balls. I took off the cage quickly, adjusted the ring tight back up to my body and put the cage back on. That helped a lot.
    I have a Jailbird and I'm pretty sure I've got the right base ring size.
     
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    There’s been times where I’ve been curled up on the floor at 4am pleading with my cock to go down.

    Thankfully, once you’re through that stage you’ll start to recover your usual night time routine.

    Time is the biggest factor. Your body adjusts eventually.
     
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    I tend to use Norwegian Hand Cream
    1. Its always on the side of the bed
    2. It's greasy and lasts all night
     
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    Lol, that's perfect.
     
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    lol. I actually wasn't thinking about that at the time. Works perfectly!
     
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    Mmmm think i need to keep an eye on this thread as ive FINALLY managed to get into my baby pink ht ... i plan on going as long as possible so im fairly sure i will need help and advice ... soon lol
     
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    Better to take a quick rinse in the shower.
    The nervous system stimulation will distract you from painful Morningwood.
    Like, my hot tub makes Morningwood disappear.
     
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    Have either of you tried simply pointing your caged junk down between your legs and then lying on your front to keep it there? For me, after 2 or 3 mins, the erection subsides and I can go back to sleep.
     
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    Guess it’s different from person to person.
    I’d get in major trouble waking the house with a shower.
    It’s the ball tug that causes me pain, or did. I’m over that so much now. Eventually the body adapts to it. It almost as though I needed to push the erection back towards myself to relieve the pressure. No chance of repositioning. Either way. I’m glad I don’t have these troubles so much now.
     
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    Newp. That sounds painful. I just lay on my side, with a pillow for support which distracts me from the wood discomfort.

    Thanks for the recommendation though.
    Locktober is going to be difficult.


     
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    You could try 200mg of cimetidine (over the counter antacid).
     
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