We have had way more sex since I significantly reduced my ejaculation frequency. I am more interested in her, I initiate sex more often and my wife seems to slowly understand that I don't need to come just because she came. Before, I usually made her come first and after she was finished she said: "And how about you?" ... and then she would let me come by one way or the other. I am so glad she stopped asking this question and now when she is finished, we are finished.