Since being locked I am getting more sex and intamcy rather than less. Is this the case for anyone els3
You're no longer getting on your terms i.e. every time you feel in the mood, but rather on your partners terms. Might even feel slightly turned on by the chastity experience. Enjoy it whilst you can
Yes, far more sex and intimacy, and only very rarely an orgasm. The latter is the key, it's all to do with your hormones... https://www.chastitymansion.com/for.../the-wife-has-turned.28884/page-2#post-485923
10x less sex. More emotional intimacy but less physical intimacy. Sometimes it bothers me, but I'm slowly learning to be better about this. I don't want it to bother me. I want to have a zen-like acceptance of the situation, and a warm appreciation for whatever length of time between and whatever the reason is behind it. And also, it's addictive as fuck.
When "we" first started off, I don't think we realized how little intimacy we had in our relationship nor did my wife know how much I was masturbating. So at first it felt pretty natural to have sex every other day or every 3 or 4 day since we were so much more intimate & vocal about everything. Overtime it started turning into a once a week, then every other week... then it became important to her to give me a orgasm in-between having sex sometimes to help (all her choice). Things change a lot, but right now here is what we do. We have sex whenever she wants to, which is once every 1 to 3 weeks... she gives me a little something to a more serious tease everyday, with no orgasm. If things start to get to around 2 weeks and she isn't interested in having sex she will invite me into the shower and give me a good tease & if I am lucky I am allowed to orgasm. I could go on forever with how things are, but my point is things change and all couples are different. I have heard of couples going straight to not having "sex" for half a year. Give her the intimacy she wants though and try to be vocal about what you want to. Don't be pushy or naggy about it though, just be honest... If both people aren't happy with the situation and you are married... changes must be made. The relationship is a lot more important than anything else.
We’ve always had sex pretty much daily for our entire marriage, but since playing with chastity the last two years off and on, we still do. It’s just now, most days it’s me giving my Wife head. But she still really likes to use my penis, and I’m usually locked for a couple weeks and then free a week or two, whatever the Queen wants. She actually ended my Locktober Friday night and I’ve been free through tonight. I just wait for my command to lock and go from there. I’m sure you and your Wife / KH will continue growing and changing to whatever works for her, and you’ll be happy to follow!
At first it was the case, first year we have more sex, deeper and nicer. For the 3 following years it was the case but slowly what I liked disapear, like Blowjobs, none since years and she now see no reason to do it again. Anal sex for her is totaly forbiden and on me maybe once a year at most. massage, cuddle is for her only and PIV are now on her way, slow and in the position she likes. she found that I am better when numbed so it is often the case now since last 2 years. menoposis is arriving and with I really feels that it is the end of sex. So yes more sex at beggining but now less and only what turn her on and please her. All my desires are now secondary or obsolete.
had no PIV since the beginning of the year, she only wants oral and her wand. As for me she keeps me in panties and chastity cages and lets me out when she feels like it.