My wife took mercy on me a couple of nights ago and yada yada I was able to concentrate the next day if you know what I mean. I made sure to stay in bed with her until she fell asleep. But there have been some fun developments: - 3 days ago: me:"you seem to be ignoring me"...her: "you seem happier when I give you a challenge" - When she released me she literally laughed as I finished...she apologized and said "wow you really seemed to need that" - The day after she "released" me...her: "you don't seem as loving today?...is that what happens when I give you what you want?" -This morning: her:"you feel like you need to be inside me", me: "always"....2 minutes later: her:"ok, please lay back down its just cuddle time"...devious! I've played it veeery "normal" though all of the last two months...I just act like "me", except I leave her love notes on her breakfast and go to bed with her, sprinkle in other niceties, NEVER make a big deal if she doesn't want sex or refuses me orgasm, and still "chase" her like a man...all while gently nudging the keys to my orgasms toward her...letting her know its on her schedule. She seems to be embracing it more and more. What a woman!