Money?

A chaste submissive does not need money.
He just should strive every day to earn more money for the pleasure of his Mistress.
With a minimal amount of money the submissive husband may live, to pay the bus or eat something simple.
The time hanging out with buddies to drink, smoke and watch football are over.

 

Financial "Management" is just another name for patriarchal control...........

 

I think every smart keyholder knows what their strength and weakness is regarding finances. In my case, our checks are in a joint account, I pay the bills, and rely on my Darling to provide all of the money for the weekly necessities. He is much tighter with spending than I am. We have been married for 33 years, and have only been involved chastity for a little over a year. I know he handles and saves much better than I do, so to insist that since we are in chastity, I take that over would not be wise.

 

She has full control over finances. Including those of the business that I owe and am sole listed on the documents. She is complete beneficiary of all. She is also the advisor and guide for me. It all works out.

 

if i had all the money id spend it all. that's why i don't have none.

 

I don't think it necessary to hand over management or even full control of the money for her to get control.

For us my partner handles most of our money as it's quite some work to manage apartment buildings or some of our other retirement arrangements. But even if he does the actual management and has full access important decisions have to be mutual.
As for the money needed in day to day life he can do as he wants, but needs permission for greater expenses ( if he goes shopping and wants something rather expensive, if he wants to buy new gadgets, toys, funrniture...).
This system is of course somewhat trust based, but easy to control (via bank statement) if need be. But that's usually not needed as you would notice if he got some new gadget.

Works great for us.

 

Spoken like a true fantasist that has probably never spent a day serving anyone in real life

So much unrealistic "fan service" on this forum sometimes.

 

If a domme really wanted to step up the financial domination, she could make it a true mindfuck. Have everything in her name and allow the sub a $10 allowance per week, while he's locked in chastity. If he wants out of his chastity, he will have to be on good behavior and pay $20 or so for the possibility of an orgasm.

 

You say the typical chauvinistic comment,
disparaging others and speaking without knowing the people.
Typical of some people .... ONLY my truth exists.

 

Maybe you're for real, but your missive sounds like the kind of wank fodder written by people who think being in chastity to a findom that lives on and other continent who charges you for skype calls is "service".

My reality (the only one that matters, Kudos for the solipsism) is that you sound like a fantasist BS merchant. Perhaps I'm wrong, but if you quack like a duck then you are one and your situation and experience is not worthy of others time and effort and adds no real depth to the conversation.

 

if you had some money youd spend it on panties.

 

yes i wud but i wud buy other clothes as well

 

We are talking about the control of money by the dominant wife/girlfriend.
NO Findom !!

 

Its only natural that a Mistress has control of the balls and then the wallet. Findoms know this quite well lol