Mistresses: Do you think the sight of a chastity device on a naked man looks sexy?

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    I posed this question to my Wife: Do you think my device is sexy? The answer was no, but she really liked seeing me naked with just 'her little hat'. She preferred that visual much more than me being traditionally naked (not locked).

    I asked Her to define the emotion, but she couldn't. She just said She really preferred the visual with me locked but couldn't define *why* She liked it.

    I'm not sure if it was a lack of an ability to define or rather a reluctance to share the thought with me. :)

    For men, the addition of lingerie enhances the 'mystery' so it's easily explained why a woman looks sexier slightly dressed rather than completely undressed. But a locked cock doesn't really add mystery...

    I guess the sight of a naked chastised man is not by itself sexy to a Domme, but assuming the man is at least physically attractive, what about the presence of a device locked on him enhances the image?
     
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    Yes. It shows My Control over husband, which is REAL sexy.
     
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    My madam finds it amusing and a turn on to see me in just my device, as she is in control of me, but the sight of other men in devices just amuses her.
     
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    My Mistress says the sight of Mistress property being soft and just relaxed is very cute. But when Mistress begins to tease and can watch Mistress property becomes swollen and throbbing. Mistress smiles and continues to tease. Mistress smiles and says that's the way Mistress has should always look:D:D:D. A full and throbbing cage is always a good thing:p:p.
     
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    Lady C loves it. Thinks it "cute"
     
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    lol, i always love how posts for 'Mistresses" get more sub responses.
     
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    Simply put….
    Neither my wife nor our good friend who once started the chastity adventure with me likes the sight of a cage…
    The BehindBarz Full belt is for both of them very sexy, especially as an escape is impossible
     
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    to me sexy implies desire for and attraction to. as much as i like him caged at times sexy is not an adjective i would use. cute or empowering come to mind.
     
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    My wife absolutely loves it. It turns her on when we are out somewhere and I find a way to flash it to her
     
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    Not sexy at all. Personally sexually I like to see a well endowed man aroused and waiting for me.
    Seeing my man in chastity elicits feelings of power and control. I enjoy and respect his submission. I revel in the slight shame in his downturned eyes and I bask in the glow of the humiliation I know he feels. I welcome his struggle, love the struggle. Chastity is about power dynamic and hierarchy. I feel tremendous love to have been gifted control of my man's pleasure.
    Do I find the sight of a caged cock sexy? No, but if caged for me, it turns me on. :p
     
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    Currently self locking. But I have previously been told by my former KH that it looks “pathetic.” But that didn’t prevent a smirk from gracing her face, and didn’t result in an unlocking…
     
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    I asked my darling wife, Mistress and Keyholder about this.

    Her thoughts are that a caged cock is a bit of a turn on for her, especially mine but "not one of these horrible plastic or silicon ones". The reasons were very similar to @MrsBR_Saiph i.e. she has control over it, its a symbol of her dominance etc. However she differs in that she would like to see more locked cocks, especially those of people I regularly chat with - you know who are! I think she wants to make sure that they're actually caged properly.

    As a side experiment we should set up a locked cock pageant - full nudal photos of the cage and the ladies get to vote on the best looking locked cock. Who's up for that?
     
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    I'd love nothing more than show it off but my girlfriend and KH (we're fairly new to this) hates looking at me in it. She makes me lock and unlock myself.

    She says that she pities my cock and thinks it's painful/harmful no matter how much reassurance.

    Anyway, I'm just glad that she agreed to hold the key. The rest is details.
     
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    My Wife does not like to see it
     
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    My wife used to think that the cage was painful and could harm me. How she has changed her mind.
     
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    Same. She liked the results, but not the look.

    That seems to have changed. I know her looks, and she’s pretty much giggling inside now a lot of the time when she notices it. She’s almost borderline playful with it now.

    And she often forgets to give me the key when she intends to. So far, not on purpose, but I expect that is coming (and I ain’t!)
     
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    My wife loves to see me naked in my chastity cages
     
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    Same here. But more than painful she finds it unhygienic.
    I even hide myself to change underwear and stuff so it does not trigger her.
    The bad news is that it haven't been this bad when we started doing chastity a year ago. Hope yours journey will go the opposite way.
     
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    My wife don't like the cage nor she find it sexy. she like to see the bludge and to see me chaste and uncaged in a tight leggings that hide nothing. She knows her power now and really enjoys it. She feel even more empowered when she pet my dick under the cloth, see it hard and abandon it just after. She as then a huge smaile of contentement and pleasure.
    She knows it is in her power and I am so obediant. of course it is useless to have an erection at this moment but she is so happy to have me get erected just by her touch and for nothing.
     
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    Thank you to the ladies who responded here. Their responses got me wondering so I talked this over with my wife. Her first answer when I asked if I looked sexy in the cage was a quick "Yes!", but after I mentioned a few of the other replies she sort of changed her answer. Apparently seeing me in the cage turns her on immensely, which she identifies as "sexy". So it makes HER feel sexier, due to the control and sexual service it implies. She admitted there is a raw sexiness to a fit guy with a large, erect, penis, and that a cage is anything but that, however she insists it makes me look sexy in the same way she is turned on by a man in uniform, or better yet a sharply dressed waiter who is there to serve her.
     
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    Agreed. Some people are asexual in that they don't feel sexual attraction at all: maybe aesthetic attraction or something else, but not "I'd hit that" attraction. Then add in a chastity device and it becomes more complicated.

    I identify as demi sexual, so random images of locked cocks - even full-frontal nudes of locked strangers - don't do much for me. Some give me ideas for certain types of play, but I don't get turned on merely by shots of locked penises.

    But I'd probably get a dominance or sadistic charge out of seeing my partner locked up, and depending on the situation that can translate into an erotic charge: like some tease and denial play.

    But yeah, just as a random visual I'm more likely to find it cute, like a small, fuzzy, domesticated animal that wants pats. :D
     
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    I asked my wife this question and she said she finds me sexy and likes my cage, but couldn't care less about the rest of you guys. :D
     
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    Only if i hold the key ;)




     
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    I think anyone would be honored for you to do that mistress
     
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    My wife absolutely hated the look of it or coming into contact with it on any way. She also does not wish to participate at all in chastity.

    That being said I could have done a better job at explaining my interests in it beforehand. Rookie mistake for sure. So I could see why it was received the way it was. But hey, we live and we learn.

    Respectfully,
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