Mistress wants more control. FLR question.

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    My Mistress/Wife told me last night that she wants more control and asked me for ideas on what that should be. Here are some details about where we are right now:

    • We are what I consider full FLR with some Femdom as well which has been going on for almost a year now.
    • I'm locked and my next orgasm won't be until New Year's.
    • She orgasms almost daily from oral or her toys.
    • She buys the clothes I wear.
    • I am given a cash allowance weekly and not allowed to use a credit card unless it's an emergency.
    • I do all of the household chores, serve her breakfast in bed daily and make her bed every day.
    • I am not allowed to have an alcoholic drink unless I'm in her presence and she limits me as to how many I can have.
    • She controls the TV and where I sleep (which is usually at her feet or on the floor).
    • We have stumbled on to light feminization. I'm wearing panties frequently with a pantie liner, painted toes, a toe ring and I'm to wear women's perfume.Most recently has given me a woman's name which she calls me on occasion.
    • She has taken some control of my free time but not all of it.
    • When we go out for a date night she chooses the place we go and what I am allowed to eat and drink which she orders.
    So her question is what else should and can she be controlling?
     
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    well really She seem to do everthing and i cant think of and the only thing that's difrent from me is that you don't say if you are locked up in a teeny cage and if you am milked and not allow to have spurtys.
     
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    Other then being required to ask permission to eat, go to the bathroom, or go to bed, I can't think of anythingelse.
     
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    Sounds like a full day already!!!
     
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    Well as a redhead myself, I think she is right on track. In addition to those I require my hubby to,
    • Wear a diaper if he goes somewhere beside work without me.
    • Wear a bra under his suit when he goes to work
    • I require him to ask permission before he can go to the bathroom
    I also cuckold hubby but that may be too extreme for most couples.
     
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    When I am initiating lifestyle control I have been known to instruct exactly what shall be worn each day or at least a colour theme. Also what shall be eaten that day, sometimes done by food groups sometimes by colour. I insist on a specified exercise regime and walking distance.

    I am sure you can expand on these.
     
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    Yes, I'm locked in a really small cage with absolutely no room for expansion. I'm not milked..yet. Although she has pegged me a few times in the last month or two. Spurtys you say? I could only wish ;)
     
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    MDsh, what type/make of diapers do you make hubby wear? Does he have to ask permission to use them as well?
     
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    I used to allow him to use these, but now he has to use the women's style...

    https://www.depend.com/mens-solutions/products/12778/

     
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