Looking back, what would you have done differently if you could start over again with chastity play, or introduce it to your partner for the first time? Any avoidable mistakes you made? Both male and female answers would be interesting For me, I think I introduced it at the wrong time, when my wife was pregnant and had no libido. She played along for a few months and I've got some hot memories, but ultimately she wasn't interested in sex herself (pregnancy/breastfeeding hormones), and since having the baby there has been little time and privacy for us for much activity in the bedroom, much less anything kinky or 24/7. I should have waited until the kids are a bit older.