Missing your erection?

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    Anyone that have been caged 24/7 without release feels really desperate to get the feeling of fullness and hardness of an erection?

    I think a man being locked without any erection for extended period is really mind altering. Certainly , without a erection seems like a man is much more humbled and softer

    whats your views? Do you miss it?
     
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    While I don't necessarily miss my erections mostly because I still experience them pretty frequently in my cage, I do miss being able to touch and stroke. My steelheart device completely denies that.

    I also miss being able to pull my foreskin back to clean it and touch my sensitive glans. It is also frustrating to have to use the toilet and not being able to stand at a urinal.
     
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    What’s an erection lol
     
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    Well, interestingly enough, there are times I miss my rock hard, stiff erection. But it's not for my pleasure from sex. I have completely changed my thinking so that my focus is entirely on my Lovely Wife & KeyHolders pleasure, not mine. Due to the prolonged chastity, some meds and ED issues, it doesn't get too big or rock hard any more.

    When I really miss that hardness is when my Lovely Goddess has me wear spikes in my cage. When She teases me, my cock tries to expand, but then it hits the point(s) and that often sends the message to my brain that "perhaps you should stop trying to push into that (those) point(s)?". LOL So generally, with the above mentioned issues, it gets "spiked", but not as deeply as if my cock was able to fully expand, per the days of old. But at least once I'd like to experience that full, hard cock expand into this small cage with the spikes. I know it would be quite torturous.

    I do have some viagara pills laying around and one of these days, I'm going to suggest to my Lovely Wife that She give me one of those some night when She feels like She might want to tease me.

    But miss my erection for my own sexual pleasure? No. Just not in my mindset.

    As for having to sit down forever to pee, well, that's just part of the game now too! Inconvenient at times, but it's no different than what our Goddess's have to deal with since birth. It's just another way in which wearing the cage 24/7 keeps my thoughts focused on my Lovely Goddess.

    ~subrick
     
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    Absolutely! I miss erections more than i miss cumming, perhaps. Who knew?

    It still tries to get hard, but of course the metal bars of the Contender cage make sure that doesn't happen. This is as good as it gets these days.

    Yes, I miss a full erection, holding it in my hand and playing with it, but those are not allowed currently. Ultimately, it is my own choice, of course, but I've chosen to surrender control to Mistress. And she says, "Hands off!"
     
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    i dont now cos i dont get ones like a man now but i wud think that a proper man that been lock up in a cage for ages and ages wud miss them cos he cud still have one if he wern lock up in a cage. but he migt have forgot what they like if it has been for a very very long time i spose.
     
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    I haven’t gone beyond 8 days without being allowed an erection at least for my Wife to use. But she does enjoy making me regularly go about a week before it’s allowed, she knows I miss the erections more than the orgasms over the last year. And lately, she’s definitely enjoying my oral skills more and more, so she’s content leaving her penis locked down more.
    Could get intense for me as time goes on!
     
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    There are times I don’t think of it, and others when I think that just getting hard would be delightful!

    Interestingly enough, my mindset for the most part turns my perspective of it as more of a spout or spigot than a penis that gets hard or used for pleasure. Pee comes out, and there ends it’s purpose. Then once in awhile I’ll think to myself “wow I wonder what it would feel like if I could get hard!” “What if I could actually touch it too?!” Then reality sets back in, and it’s back to it’s role as a pee valve.
     
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    Erections let's see I use to know what those were. But since Mistress property has been caged permanently. Erections are forbidden. The only relief this slave see is maybe ruined orgasm :D:D:D when Mistress allows it.
     
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    Here is a different view; I can't get an erection unless I use medication to achieve one. Even then, sometimes its not all that hard, lots of factors like diet and blood pressure meds. But having your cock controlled by someone else, your orgasms allowed by someone is mind-blowing. We came into chastity as a way to heighten our sexual experience, but as things and time went by, it has evolved into something else. I'm not forced to wear ladies clothes, no feminized, not in an FLR, just my cock doesn't belong to me.
     
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    My longest continuous caged so far is 31 days and yes, I missed my erection a lot. Way more than missing my orgasm.
     
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    Today hit me really hard for some reason. I've been locked 24/7 for almost 2 months straight and I woke up so horny. I wanted more than anything to be able to just get an erection and stroke my dick, use a vibrator on it...anything. It was so insanely frustrating not being able to touch it or do anything at all :(
     
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    It has been a very very long time since I have experienced an erection , it is just my life now as my wife tells me but boy I miss it .although a big part of me never wants one again ....I think long term chastity messes with you head lol
     
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    This is a great topic. Allow me as usual to present a differing opinion...

    At some point W/we realized that chastity belts are more of an erection deterrent than anything. Ultimately orgasm control was always under the control of Governess. Obviously the device was a fun reminder (what sub doesn't love locks?!), but it's just not needed to prevent me from doing things with my boy bits. That's Her discretion alone, and that wiring is deep at this point (and should be for every actual sub).

    So to summarize: Unfulfilled erections = good.
     
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    Well, here goes. I do not miss erections. Since being locked, I feel more and more like a woman everyday. In fact, my sex life, that exists in my head, feels like that of a woman. I have no cock now so what should I do to involve myself in sex. Pleasure someone else. Who? My KH has instructed me, in order to feel like she does, to take a load down my throat. So, that's what I'll be doing tonight. She wants me to experience, first hand, what a woman experiences during certain aspects of sex. I get nothing in return.
     
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    I am sure my buddy Rectrix will need to chime in--seeing as this is one of the foremost topics that he and I share!

    But for me, I miss erections FAR more than the orgasm. At least ten times as much.

    It's the erection that "stands" as a symbol of manhood. Far more than a puddle of semen.

    Ask a lady: would you rather look at a puddle of semen on a plate, or a large, firm erection?
     
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    I can get semi-hard, but my PA device halts it at about 50% or so and from there the weight of the device holds my dick at half mast no matter how excited I am. When I am laying down on my side the device can use gravity to let me get that oh-so-tiny-extra-5mm but thats it, parties got as big as it's gonna get folks!

    I love getting to that point in my cage, because my erection will still fit in my hand and I am fully reminded I am fucking owned, this dick is controlled by someone else, I ain't every gonna see it slide into another woman beside my Wife (and rarely with even her *grin*). This device and me gonna ride right into the old folks home together cause it ain't coming off, ever. I will very likely pass away with my dick still locked in chastity. It's just me and my Wife's steel hat, right where she insists it be. It totally luls me into sub space and I love it.
     
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    It wasn't terrible. I don't really want to experience that again, but I'm glad I did it. Now I know exactly what a woman feels like who unloads her man and gets nothing in return.
     
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    When in a cage, I do miss the feeling of morning wood, when you wake up and are rock hard, in the cage, there is now an uncomfortable lump behind / above the ring where the bulk of the erection has formed in my body, there is no sense of satisfaction or glory there.

    Conversely though, I still enjoy trying to get erect with porn, the tightening of the cage as my penis fights against the steel, its somehow erotic and intoxicating, yet equally frustrating.
     
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    HELL YES.

    I miss getting hard. I miss stimulation. I dislike being stuffed into a steel cage and being squished through the bars. It gets in the way. Sometimes, painfully so.

    I love her. And if wearing it makes her happy, I will do it. And mostly without complaint.
     
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    Well after being caged for 7 years and reduced to hardly anything I dont really think about it anymore. Just at times like last weekend I was let out for the pleasure of my wonderful Mistress to have her fun. It was our wedding anniversary so in her words I was in for a treat. I have heard this before, and come to expect nothing but frustration.
    Julie unlocked my cage, and after removing it she just pointed and laughed out loud at how small it was. She said lets see if we can do something about that for you. Even though she was teasing it with he wonderful very long nails, it would just not grow or go hard. Eventually it did grow to to about 2 inch, but still was nothing like the rock cock I used to have. And loke my mistress said "Truly quite a pathetic excuse for a cock".
    Telling me about her Bulls manhood and how big it is, and what she can do with it. And mainly, what it can do for her.
    All these words just convincing me how much she has reduced me to being totally under her control..
    My "treat" as she called it, was to watch her and her Bull perform, and then have me clean her once he had gone. She ten proceeded to make me cum, which now in all honesty I dont want to, because "Her" new rule is, if I ever get the chance to shoot, then I must consume it. Kind of puts me off.
    Mind you I say shoot. More like a dribble. But as soon as I start she just stops, backs off and laughs. So I never get to feel the full viniger stroke of the past. Been that long now I have almost forgotten what that feels like. She scoops it up in her nails and I am forced to clean them. All the time with her looking down at me with a big grin on her face.
    Ak well, Julie is happy, and that is my job in life now. To make her as happy as I can at whatever cost.
     
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    I think i miss erections more than orgasms.
     
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    I do miss them, especially at certain times. I would always stroke and get hard when i went to bed and woke up. Rarely all the way to orgasm, but jus the jolt of sexual feeling was nice. Or when i get an overwhelming sexual desire, getting hard and stroking was a like a relief valve. Now that is gone and i have to remind myself, it is for the best.
     
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    Boy, you can say that again! :)
     
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    My Wife(KH) gives me a chance once in a while to get a full erection. Sometimes when I'm tied up on our bed, she will take my cage off and allow me to get hard. She will get me hard and just leave me there for 10 minutes to enjoy being hard. Once I'm hard, there is no touching by her. When she comes back in the room and I'm soft again, she puts the cage back on and locks me back up. When we are out by the pool and she wants to tease me. She will have me take my cage off and either have me masturbate for her until I get hard or give me a few seconds of oral. Just enough to get me hard and to the edge. Then it's back in the cage. So I do miss being able to play with myself and get hard, but I am still allowed to get a erection when my Wife feels like seeing my hard.
     
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