Since this was the first time and not knowing what to expect, it was....interesting. I am not even sure if it was successful or I just had a very unfulfilling orgasm. I was locked for 2 weeks. I wasn't even taken out of the cage. Anyone else care to share their insight?
I've not tried yet, but i do think staying in the cage is a good approach. Did you leak fluids? How long did it take?
Thanks, your estimate is fine = just wanted to know if was a long time or not. Sounds like you were successful.
It seems to Me mission accomplished. It should just flow out most watery like and no fulfillment to you. MistressS
May I ask what technique you all use? I had a vibrating prostate massager used on me. Has anyone used a TENS device? Is that possible?
Empress will use Vibrator or manual finger massage of the prostate. She will not touch anything else, not the cage or the sac. Tens unit has never worked for me. She will occasionally put me in bondage with vibrating plug and the tens just to tease me.
I’ve used several different instruments on myself. Some are more effective than others but I think also that mood plays a big part. If you’re in the right mindset it will help you relax and really feel what is going on. Also I have found that not having an edging or orgasm for about of week tends to get thinks flowing faster. I can usually start having emission within one minute. Sometimes it’s very water drips and sometimes it is pretty thick. Finding the spot and just being gentle with nice even pressure seems to hell things along. For me I can usually tell when it is time to stop. It just feels different. I haven’t had a prostate orgasm other than two times being pegged so I cannot attest to the self administered prostate orgas but it must be wonderful!! It is quite enjoyable for me but not in a fulfilling frustration relief way. On the contrary, I always find myself not being able to focus on anything else for a few days and my mind starts racing down the rabbit hole passing all of what used to be my “hard limits”. I find that the longer I am denied the more easily I could be persuaded to do sexual things I wouldn’t have normally done before entering this lifestyle. Enjoy it!!!
@Tehsatyros when im milk I can feel when some mess is coming out me. it feels like a bit when you pee but it is hard to know if it has stop coming out.
so, do most of you lay on your back and then clean up after? or get on knees and hands and let drip into or onto something to contain your fluids?
Well i'm under standard order to eat my releases, which would include milking. so a cup or tray or something would be needed. just wondered how most do it.
Ive found it best to be laying on my side, when doing it myself but its better draped over something like the edge of a couch, when its done to you being on all fours is one thing, but you relax more when your laying on something, and that can cut down on time. being on all fours can end up painful to the knees depending on the surface, so that can tense you up and not only extend the time, but limit the release another way to speed time up is to be aroused personally, whether you watch porn or teasing, before milking I wouldnt use a tens unit myself, but shocks are a no go for me for myself I have a rechargeable massager with a remote and different speeds, and has a cock ring attached that stretches, so you can wear a cage at the same time with someone else, Ive found a hand is best. a finger inside with the thumb rubbing the outside in the same spot. that is if you want to have some pleasure
thanks for the information - being on your side does sound like a better alternative as knees could get tired on all fours.
I lay on my left, and pull my right knee towards my chest, but lay it on the ground, relaxed that seems to work best, after at least 10 days it only takes a minute or two, depending on how aroused I am
My wife dressed me in some white lingerie and started me off in the caning/cropping position two evenings ago (because she disciplined me first)-then i was told to lie on my back and then the milking was all a bit too succesful so to speak(very spurty)-next time i will remain caged-being uncaged for a long time locked, being cropped and caned and then milked was all a bit too much so we've learnt some lessons there
I should say that i leaked this morning just by my wife coming down naked and fondling me in the kitchen so she can milk me just by her sheer prescence
Nervously post my first comment on a thread ..... If I am milking myself, I like to do it by using a vibrtating dildo and sitting up and down on it from a crouch position, whilst it is sometimes tiring doing that way. The feeling is quite exquisite in my opinion, it keeps me on the edge a while, and sometimes feels like a release but there is none until suddenly it just starts dribbling out onto the floor in front of me. You obviously have to hitvthe right angle to make sure that your hitting the right spot on the prostrate.