Mental Orgasm?

Yes. And sharing that wonderful feeling w my Queen empowered her to lock me up longer and longer. Its the chastity catch-22.

I still get that often, frequently when using a strap on with her. We both love it when this happens.

 

When I read your post, it mirrored a very similar experience I had only recently. I also have the same feelings about preferring to give my GF orgasms, than having one myself. But, I think that is a common trait for us locked guys.
I always find the pleasure of going down on my GF so much more intense when caged. The motivation and desire to please her and give her a wonderful orgasm is amplified. On this occasion, it seemed we were both in perfect sync with one another. The more she fondled my cage and balls, the more effort I put into bringing her to orgasm. When she came, it felt as though I came too, as I then held her tightly (which I always do after her orgasm). Only this time, I needed to be held tightly too, as literally my whole body was shaking. She also noticed that I hadn't come, and I couldn't explain what had just happened.

 

I’ve had similar things happen to me, I’ve moaned quite loudly while she is cumming from my tongue.

 

I haven’t quite had an orgasm, but I’ve explained to her a few times that while pleasing her and making her cum it’s actually better than getting my own orgasm.

 

To me, I can orgasm and be satisfied with not doing anything to myself and only giving her the pleasure. Hearing and feeling her pleasure brings me so much pleasure that oftentimes I am satisfied by just bringing her to total bliss

 

Congratulations on your discovery!

 

I love having the mental orgasms more that normal ones because it makes me feel completely connected to my Queen! Glad you figured it out on how to have them!

 

I'm new to CM and the community, so bear with me. Lately, I've been exploring various fetishes, but it seems like chastity is starting to take control, or should I say, my girlfriend is taking control.

As I've been browsing through the forum, I've noticed many people mentioning that it's difficult for them to climax without any physical stimulation. Here's the thing: I've gone almost a month without releasing, and now I can do it just by thinking about it. When I feel like I'm approaching the point of no return, I need to distract myself real quick to avoid spiraling into that loop in my mind.

This isn't solely due to chastity; it's actually happened to me before on multiple occasions. All I need to do is focus on the idea of reaching climax, try to replicate that feeling when you're right on the edge, and the sheer desperation itself gets me even more excited until I finally reach that point.

I mentioned this in another post, and I think we could call it a "perfect ruined orgasm" in a way. However, I read someone suggesting that we should also train ourselves to prevent any spasms, like being more relaxed and allowing it to flow without any sudden contractions. That's something I'm really eager to try out.