men CAN CUM?

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    So unreal title. only SHE decides if we can cum or not.

    But today i saw some people in the chat who were saying that they use vibrators to cum in the chastity.

    Do any of you do this also? Does your MISTRESS allow you to do this?
    Because i am not allowed to do so.
    And if yes then how does it feel?
    Tell me out of 100 of how enjoyable it is against regular cum.
     
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    I'm not allowed to do it and wouldn't if I could. Lady C will use the high powered vibrator against my balls and cage and stop as soon as there's any cum. Its most frustrating as the cage prevents the proper ejaculation, especially when she instantly stops the stimulation.

    Its not fulfilling, and if anything leaves you hornier than you were
     
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    I am not allowed to do it, but I can't imagine it being very good to have any type of orgasm while wearing the device. I would imagine it leaves your less satisfied and sated then well executed ruined-o... I am down for whatever the lady wants, but I don't know why I would do this to myself even if allowed... You would have to be pretty sexually frustrated and I think it might leave you more frustrated long term if it counted as a release.
     
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    Well there is no pleasure right?
     
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    So you are saying it's worse than ruined?
     
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    Very little. Its ruined. There's the expectancy of so much and then the let down
     
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    I personally wouldn't know since I have never had one, I can't getting a full release from it... It could easily be edged and ruined due to the stimulation being removed immediately... If anything I'd expect at most a little squirt from it with a couple pathetic throbs, lol. I don't picture it being very good...
     
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    After that, the penis will be yearning a lot in the cage. Right?
     
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    Then we are fine in the cage
     
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    Honestly if you are that interested to see what it feels like, ask your partner to do it to you. She might enjoy doing it and the thought might have never crossed her mind.
     
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    No no, i am going to be released after 44 days today and if i ask something like that, maybe SHE will increase the time
     
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    I've done it once. It was about as pleasurable as a ruined O but it spurt like a regular O. I've tried it a couple more times without being able to do it.

    I think it could be a great tool for a kh who wants to humiliate you or see you eat your own cum without letting you enjoy a full orgazm. I feel like a kh could learn to do it reliably? Not sure.
     
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    If it doesn't give proper pleasure then can be a great tool for KH
     
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    Well technically it is possible for me.

    I know I can have a sort of orgasm at least by:
    - misuse of water (removed showerhead)
    - misuse of back vibrator
    - misuse of Rimba

    I've done these, once each, and it has more or less been an accident, teasing myself a bit too much.

    25/100. Not much pleasure, just a disappointed and still frustrated feeling.

    And the worst of it ... I KH would like me to have sex with her that same day, I couldn't perform as well as I should.
     
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    Well, it's better than remaining in the cage without stimulation, but it's also a bit of a tease.

    Tell your kh about it sometime. Let her decide if it's for you. It's more of a reward than a punishment, however, she may just decide that it's your new normal for a release.
     
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    So from yall experience i should deny the thought of trying it after my MISTRESS'S permission
     
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    i dont think SHE will let me do this.
     
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    Th only way i can cum is with the permission of my Mistress. Even if not wearing a cage, i couldn't enjoy it unless She'd given me the okay.
     
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    Same
     
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    While caged/locked in a chastity device...
    After not attempting on my own out of respect, my first(and current) holder and I did some experimenting and discovered that I cannot 'orgasm' pretty much at all while properly caged. If in a very loose device that allows for more than a say 50% erection, I came really close.. Otherwise it's the same feeling as being edged, like completely stuck on the edge, but have never been able to go beyond that. A lot of precum, perhaps, but that's it.
    SO, my holder uses caged stimulation either with a strong vibe or estim to get me extremely horny, without letting me cum/orgasm/ejaculate/etc. It's a treat that is done by direction and not just to do it. She gets to enjoy teasing me and having me bucking and squirming and even dribbling, while knowing I'm not going to get to reach orgasm and I enjoy the attention.
    SO, for me, it's directed, not encouraged as self-pleasure, and I don't get to orgasm...
    I have known many chastity buddies that are permitted any orgasms they can have while caged, but most are somehow dedicated to avoiding them because they would prefer a full one while not caged over giving them up for something 'ruined' or less than a full one.
    That said, I think it's more amazing to get to experience one 'real' one rarely rather than multiple ruined or not 'real ones' more frequently....
    Just my feelings, but to each their own!
    BUT, I'd also think it would be best to be given direction rather than just trying it out.
     
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    What I'm going to type below is from my previous years experience being in chastity. This current lockup (Day 95 today), I'm NOT allowed to cum at all and really have no desire to do so until my Goddess feels I deserve such pleasure. In times past, I have occasionally "cheated" by using the vibrator to orgasm, or She has used it to allow me to cum. But not this time.

    So...based on past experiences:

    Can I cum this way? Absolutely.

    Could everyone? Not sure, might depend upon the chastity device and the vibrator used...probably mostly the vibrator. It will also depend upon the person. I know that in general, I don't cum as quickly as I used to with a vibrator before I was last locked in this cage. So that will have a bearing on things as well.

    On a scale of 1 to 100, I'd say it's right up there (80+) with using a vibrator as if you're NOT locked in a cage. A bit less pleasure due to the confinement of the cage and not always being able to get the vibrator on exactly the right spot, and the cage itself might cause some added "beatings" on the little guy, but it's still an orgasm. And if you've been denied an orgasm for quite some time, then it feels pretty darn good. But, for me anyway, it has also always included the emotional "drop" after the orgasm. I detest the "drop" and now will gladly forego my orgasm so I can remain focused on my Loving Wife & Keyholder. I pretty much get the psychological release of orgasm for myself when I see and know that my wife has just had one, especially when I'm able to assist her. And that pleasure doesn't result in the "drop" in my desires to be with her at all. So I stay focused on her all of the time, which is what She and I both adore.

    Now, a couple of times this lockup, after her orgasm and she is passing the vibrator to me to put it away, she has accidentally, or so she says, let her vibrator contact my cage, then quickly says "Oops...sorry about that!", with a little smirk. Which is just her way of giving a tease and a way of reinforcing Her control of our sex life. SHE is allowed to cum whenever she wants, but my orgasm will only be when (or if) she says.

    All of that said, I suppose one could use the vibrator on a caged cock to edge someone and even cause a ruined orgasm. But without the "teaser/tormenter" seeing or feeling the shaft, it might be difficult for them to determine when to stop so as to ruin the orgasm.

    ~subrick
     
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    Thanks for clarifying. One question, how does estim feels like?
     
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    You seem so experienced.
     
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    OMG, depends on the intent, the electrodes used, the controller, the one controlling it, etc...
    I suppose it could feel like having sex with a tazer or bug zapper if done wrong or turned up too high, or the opposite like a vibrator with nearly dead batteries! With the right settings, with the right electrodes and the proper placement of them... I'd say it feels 'best' like a humming/licking/nibbling head-only blowjob? Feels GREAT! BUT, it's more fun to use a modulating setting so 'it' can go from a teasing nice feeling, through that 'best' feeling, but also go beyond that but shy of hurting. Not into pain, some are and they crank it up.... I'd much rather have a pleasant feeling!!!
     
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    i will try
     
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