Meeting a Chaste Man in Person

It's something I want to do soon. Happy for you and glad it was a good experience.

Do you have any plans to meet again and did your keyholders know?

 

We know socially one other couple who use chastity occasionally, but none yet who have it as a lifestyle as we do.

 

I agree happilylockedman, it is amazing! I have a co worker who is in to bdsm and kink, and she clocked my bdsm tattoo right away, we will be talking about who does the best rubber wear, or the best restraints ect, and people just look on open mouthed!

 

I have met several at munches and a few at an adult club we belong to. I also have a group on Fetlife for local folks involved it, or curious about, chastity. I haven't met any of them face to face yet but we are thinking about a vanilla get together.

We did meet one couple that I found through a craigslist ad and I gave him one of the knock off HT devices I no longer used. We lost contact not too long after that.

 

Sounds like you had a wonderful experience. I certainly would find that interesting as well, being able to talk more freely with someone who had similar interests.

 

I was selling a custom belt on ebay about 10 years ago and got a guy wanted to come and see it. I accepted and this random guy turns up at my house. I’m not good at talking about this stuff out loud, but met the guy who’s posts is read on yahoo groups with great interest. He was kind of a hero of mine. We’ve kept in touch and he’s helped with adjustments on my halfshell and given me a device to try on.

He was a great source of information on chastity devices and makers of them. A real great guy as it turns out.

 

I was the other man that Happilylockedman met up with. I really enjoyed it too, and I am sure that we will meet up again to compare experiences, feelings and direction of our respective journeys. I would recommend meeting others in person to all.

 

Definitely something I wanna do. I'm jealous

 

I did meet a guy some years ago now for a drink. We met on Informed Consent and he was hoping my wife would be his keyholder!
I did mention it to her and she thought it a bit odd that a complete stranger would want another complete stranger to hold a key! Anyway we got on OK and met once more. It felt nice knowing we were both sitting in a busy pub wearing cages!

I so want to meet others and chat about how we go about our lives in chastity but face to face

 

I'd love to do this well.

 

I think as close as I would get is having a friend or two here and sharing where and when we are going on n vacation.

It would allow people to travel to a source (resort, beach area, etc) that if the other people don’t show up the vacation is still intact. Like well be here enjoying ourselves at this hotel and resort this particular week. If ya feel like stopping in and hanging out a bit we’ll be around.

Certain things would have to be clear from the get go. My wife is certainly not into any mutual shenanigans. No scenes, nudity, or partner swapping. There would be no servicing of different key holders, caged or not.

More than likely my perfect scenario would be getting together and drinking at a beach bar, maybe discussing activities or preferences. Maybe discussing the evening events to come, innuendo, and in general just being able to be ourselves in front others.

 

I have a friend I on Fetlife that is local. We haven't met yet but he said they might be at the Fetish Friday party at our club tonight. There is also a birthday/pool party tomorrow night and a CFnm party on the 14th they might attend. The pool party and the CFnm parties are at a private residence and there are usually a few caged men in attendance.

 

Love to read stories like yours glad you found someone to connect with. I have been lucky myself in Mistresses best friends husband became my friend, We are both in chastity both dress when asked by our Wifes/ Mistresses and have played together as couples traveling together for long weekends. the two of us also do coffee, golf, and even scuba dive but the main thing is someone who understands and able to share within-person. Our Mistresses are always talking or planning something for us Thank you for posting

 

We know one couple that have been playing on weekends and I have met someone on this forum several times. When we met it was like an old friend. It is a great experience to meet someone like that all already feel comfortable with. Talked about jobs, children and our own experiences. I would recommend it if possible.

 

I have done this as well. I was nervous as all heck. My wife knew all about it and did his wife. It was wonderful to have lunch and talk about things that we all go through with wearing devices, denial, being submissive etc.

We even got together with the wives for a dinner a few times. That was different knowing she knew what I was wearing as far my belt and that I wore panties. His wife broke the ice one night by saying at the table "everyone at this table is wearing panties" We all laughed out loud

He was also a cross dresser at home as I am. We both dress up to clean in so that was also fun to talk about and get some tips on cleaning too! We both wear panties 24/7/365 and both sit to pee. I wear a Jail Bird and he's in a CB6000. As we leave the restaurant each time we both use the restroom as we both have a drive. It's something to have grown men need to use the stalls. As we both are usually sitting in stalls peeing side by side we both will sometimes chuckle about the good ole days of standing to pee!
If you get the chance to meet up with a like minded person do it! Sadly he moved to Kentucky and we lost touch after a while.
I'm hopeful to meet another chaste guy.
I would never do it without getting my wife's permission.!!

 

How about chastity symposium? or chastity oriented event? Chicago?

 

Wow
I feel like an outlier.

I got into this as my first exposure was a guy in a CB2000 at a CFnm tea party right after the CB2k came out.

I met another submissive a few years later via our local BDSM group. He was in a Locked in Steel full belt.

And I had the pleasure of going to one of the gathering parties that Mistress Michelle and Mistress Watchful had. All of the males were locked.